I have been married to my husband for a long time now, my husbands younger brother got married to the sister of a girl that i have been hearing my husband has been messing around with in Lagos.

I have told my husband that this is an appalling behaviour, but my husband has still been refusing to listen and is carrying on , also the sad thing about this, is my brother-in-law that got married to this girls sister knew this was the situation before he married the sister and still went ahead and got married.

This said brother-in-law use to eat in my house play with my children (niece/nephew) is aware about this situation and is still condoning this behaviour.. Kindly advice what can be done? thanks in advance for your response.

I don't know, I lack ideas.

The option for yoU is that thing you have decided do!

How can it be OK...he's committing adultery

From your post they are not sharing the same woman or are they


infidelity is wrong..and am quite symphatethic about your plight...


in some cultures it is allowed for that to happen (internal breeding)

A wise man ones say ...wat ur eyes can see ur mouth can say..#rarecast

Perhaps your husband met the lady he is cheating on you with through the brother or vice versa.

Morally wrong but traditionally okay.

OP... Your question make sense....
Make i answer...
It is right.... I hope you're happy now!

Seems you are so okay with your hubby cheating/messing with a lady, but what you are against is your hubby's brother getting married to your hubby mistress sister! Now, that is something!

First things first, anti buy him a set of the attached piishure.

put rat poison in your BIL's food.

For ur husband, do as the poster above recommended

We nid to hear d oda side of d story..let ur husband come nd say wat u've done wrong
Sumtin MST be wrong sumwhr

And she still asked if it's ok?... Smh

Are you OK OP? What kind of lame question is that?

Raymondenyi:
I don't know, I lack ideas.

NO matter what u r going thru it is well with u.

jennia:
I have been married to my husband for a long time now, my husbands younger brother got married to the sister of a girl that i have been hearing my husband has been messing around with in Lagos.

I have told my husband that this is an appalling behaviour, but my husband has still been refusing to listen and is carrying on , also the sad thing about this, is my brother-in-law that got married to this girls sister knew this was the situation before he married the sister and still went ahead and got married.

This said brother-in-law use to eat in my house play with my children (niece/nephew) is aware about this situation and is still condoning this behaviour.. Kindly advice what can be done? thanks in advance for your response.

If u r husband is not hiding his adultery from you and your brother in law is aware of it and allowing it, it shows there is something deeply wrong with he story above.

Are u Muslim? Is your husband from a polygamous background and told you he would marry more than one wife? Are u two on the verge of breaking up? Are u having problems with his family? These are the only reasons I can think of that will make a sane man tell u he us cheating on u and his brother is aware and in support o.

Wether it's his brother's wife's sister has nothing to do with it.

Kill him..

Get a divorce abeg. Dont knw why women Tolerate all this nonsense. This is now quite a norm nowadays. Then i ask why are nigerians still crazy about marriage self. White especially in uk dont care anymore. All they do is give birth sadly nigerians may result to this soon

There's a menage going on that doesn't involve yhu? That's sufficient grounds for divorce IMO.

VERY OK

"I pity your condition ma". Quote me anywhere.

Ok