There could be nothing more frustrating
and heartbreaking than discovering
those who purportedly professed their
‘love’ to us, and we reciprocating in
return, are the same ones that took our
love for granted and played with our
emotions like it’s some worthless toy.
To avoid finding yourself in such an
unpleasant situation, here are four signs
that could help you detect earlier if you
are being used or manipulated by your
partners.
1 sex. Sex. Sex.
Your relationship is really a time bomb
waiting to explode. if all your partner is
always interested in getting you involved
in is sex. And once they’ve extracted all
possible sexual pleasure and
gratification from you, then you’ve
certainly have been marked ‘done’ on
their register. However, if you don’t want
to be a record holder as a perpetual
bridesmaid or an ever consistent
groomsman and never the bride or
groom, you’ve got to avoid being a
pleasure spot that gratifies other
people’s sexual appetite.
2. Contacts you only when needs
arises.
Being with a partner that more or less
contacts you only when they need
something either through calling or
meeting, is a bold sign that you are
being used to serve their needs and they
wouldn’t mind discarding you when you
start objecting or when you have been
comprehensively milked dry. You’d
agree with me that when they need
something, they’d perfectly act all caring,
super nice, speak to you in romantic
tones like they just came back from
throat surgery and intense voice
training. And when they’re done getting
what they want, they are almost instantly
gone for a while like they are on exile.
3. You only hangout when bored.
It’s always advisable to be on the alert
when someone who is supposed to be
your partner suddenly realises you exist.
You either get sudden calls or request
for hangouts and it could only mean two
things- they are bored and need
someone to be with or they are idle.
Then if you similarly try making a
request to hang out with them, you’re
served with excuses from being busy
(this is frequent) to tooth ache, to eye
ache, and all what nots.
4. No plans for the future with you.
Nothing can be more indicative of being
used than having a partner who seems
reluctant or uninterested in making
future plans with you. His/her temporary
arrangement for you is to keep him/her
company; you simply don’t figure in
their future. If you on the other hand
have made plans on the kind of
luxurious house you’d build together,
the large number of beautiful children
you’d have or those exotic cars you’d
drive, well, you might as well only be
driving them in your imagination.
If you’ve been noticing any of these signs
in your relationship or you have other
views, kindly drop your comments.
SOURCES:more.ng/relationships/signs-that-you-are-being-used-by-your-partner

so true

Yea, true

Yeah am guilty of numbers 2 3 and 4 except 1..

So it wouldn't be like as if I got to her cuz of sex... Thr would be nothing to lose so she shouldn't cry heartbreak.

fact