Choosing the right marriage partner is a crucial concern to the youths who are yet to say “I do”. In the western world where over 60 percent of marriages end up in divorce , with celebrities having the larger percentage , the need to make the right choice of partner is germane. It is pertinent to identify the wrong motives and the right motives for marriage before taking a leap into marriage decisions. A wrong motive will likely lead to a wrong decision and vice-versa.
Marriage is a very crucial stage in human beings that must be not rushed into. Some go into marriage because of panic” My friends are getting married at final year or immediately after graduation or NYSC”. They compare their selves with others ignorant of the fact that fingers are not equal. Some leap into marriage because of pressure. It is vital that everyone knows that marriage is a lifelong project and succumbing to pressure without personal conviction is not wise .This may be parental pressure , peer pressure or pressure from the proposing partner.
The desperation to meet some personal pressing needs is the major reason why some make hasty choice in marriage . The need may be financial, emotional , psychological ,self esteem or sex. Others rush into marriage because of a painful breakup , some marry so as to escape from parental influence either positive or negative. It should be noted that no matter how desirable these moves are, they all give a wrong foundation for a lasting marriage that will be enjoyed and not just endured.
The primary reason for marriage is PARTNERSHIP therefore the right wife is expected to be a partner and not a housemaid and the husband is expected to be a “sugar daddy”. They must be people who can relate with each other as friends and partner in progress. The corollary to the foregoing is that the person who will be your true partner must be such a person with whom you can have mutual friendship , you should be able to play with that person , you should be able to work with that person , you are to be intellectually compatible , even though you are at different levels . This means that the difference should compliment. You must have common interests , share decisions together and have the same value. Such kind of partner is the right person for you.

Source - http://www.olumideblog.com/2015/09/you-rush-into-it-you-endure-for-life.html

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midehi2:
nice one

u neva marry?

Cutehector:
u neva marry?

ayam pregnant

midehi2:

ayam pregnant

girl it is....

midehi2:

ayam pregnant

figo05:

why u come open ya mouth na, no be u give me belle

midehi2:

why u come open ya mouth na, no be u give me belle

My hand no dey o

figo05:

My hand no dey o

ur hand and ur leg dey o

midehi2:

ur hand and ur leg dey o

But I no mind sha... Bring it on then