I have a girl friend i am try to finalize relationship with. She is very young,20 years and i am 27.She visited me recently.And there is this other girl i met in the church,that is so interested in me;she calls me all day.i don't even bother to flash her let alone calling her,but she shows concern about me;and she is 28 years still undergraduate.though both of them are undergraduate.my confusion is that i like the first more,but she does'nt show concern about me.she calls once in awhile.then the second girl shows concern,but i don't like her for intimate frienship cos she will be driving to marriage rather than long time relationship, i seek for your advice,which one do i go for for a seriou relationship. your constructive criticsms are welcome

hmm,I am confuse about this one

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I will advise you to go with the church girl.Its obvious that she is interested in you.Spend more time with her and U might end up loving this gal.Do not waste your time with the first girl.She is not interested.

~I concur~

SeanT21:

hmm,I am confuse about this one

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I will advise you to go with the church girl.Its obvious that she is interested in you.Spend more time with her and U might end up loving this gal.Do not waste your time with the first girl.She is not interested.

i very much disagree with you, and who told you she's not interested?just because she doesnt act desperate like d 28 yr old does not mean shes not interested,how r u so sure d 28 yr old is not desperate to get a man cos age is failing on her side?

@poster
dont go with sean's advice

go with the one u have true feelings for, if u love the 20 yr old then go for her, there r girls like dat, the fact dat she does nt cal u like the 28 yr old does not mean she does not love you,the 28 yr old might be calling u everyday and claim to be so concerned about you but the case might really be, "age is not on her side,and she needs to catch up with a man soon,not minding wat she has to do to get one" the devil u know is berra than d angel u dont know,how r u so sure the 28 yr old will still be as caring as she is now when  she becomes a "mrs"

there r two things involved here

20 yr old------knows she still has time and is quite young to understand things like u do

28 yr old----------old and desperate,looking for a man before her time finally runs out

now use ur brain and figure it out

I rather would marry som1 dat loves me more dan i love her, dan de other way round. I don't think i need som1 dat i'll always try to impress!

the fact that the 28 yr old calls every minute of d day does not mean she loves him more or even loves him at all


pleaseeeeee some women r pretenders




"d  ekwensu(devil) u know is beter than the angel u dont know"

amebo no1.:

the fact that the 28 yr old calls every minute of d day does not mean she loves him more or even loves him at all


pleaseeeeee some women r pretenders




"d  ekwensu(devil) u know is beter than the angel u dont know"

very true

Don't judge before you've heard from both sides. Spend time with both of them as friend and find out what they have in mind, test them to find out if they love you.for the older one that calls you befriend her but let her know you want a long relationship before you marry, if she bolts then she's not 4 u.anyway follow ur heart

~ Sweet oranges are plucked while sour ones lay scattered on the ground ~

@poster

pick d one u love more.