1. Sex will make him/her get committed to
you: Sex is not powerful enough to make
anyone get committed to you in a
meaningful relationship. If he/she isn’t
interested in having a serious relationship
with you, seducing, manipulating and
controlling him/her sexually will not make
them change their minds.

2. Engaging in sex with the person you
are dating will make him/her think that you
are a sophisticated and mature person: At
this point, the question to ask is: what is
sophisticated and mature about sexually
transmitted disease, broken hearts and
unwanted pregnancies? Maturity and
sophistication is the ability to restrain
yourself and say no to pre-marital sex.
The proof of maturity is really your ability
to control your sexual urges in the face of
temptation, pressure or emotional
manipulation.

3. Having sex with him/her will break
down his/her resistance causing him/her to
open up to you: Genuine love is the only
key that can open a man’s heart. Giving
sex instead of that can only lead to
misery. If you really want him, show lots
of care, affection and develop real
intimacy with him. A man who is in love
with you and trusts you will not find it
difficult opening up his heart to you.
Develop trust. Wherever there are secrets,
trust doesn’t exist.

4. He has contributed to your life
financially or materially. Having sex with
him will only show how much you
appreciate this: Lie! You are not in
anyway obliged to do this. If the help he
rendered to you was designed to enslave
you to later become his sex slave, then
break off from him. If he makes you think
that you are hopeless and helpless without
him, that is a lie. Don’t give in to sexual
blackmail.

5. You can keep him/her in a relationship
if you are an expert in bed: You can never
have him/her under your influence
through your sexual ability. Sexual skills
does not stop marriages from breaking
up, remember? It doesn’t stop infidelity as
well. What keeps a man faithful to a
woman is his commitment to the integrity
of that relationship. Sexual desire fades.
You cannot afford to build your life based
on this emotion because it is not strong
enough to sustain a relationship.

6. Having sex with the guy/lady you are
dating will make them forget the other
person in their lives: If you know he/she
has someone else in their lives before you
came along and you still insist on dating,
you are putting your self esteem to mud.
Why should you settle for second best
when you can find someone who will treat
you with greater respect and honor? No
matter what quantity of sex you engage in,
he/she is an unfaithful person and will
remain so as long as he/she gets free sex
from you.







Ways to control your sexual
drive
1. Acknowledging your sexual drive is
the first step towards dealing with it.
2. Cultivate quality friendships with like
minded individuals with whom you share
the same values.
3. Get a mentor of the same sex, to
whom your relationship will be
accountable. You should not enter a
relationship that you want to keep secret.
Secrecy always results in sin.
4. Take control of your imagination.
5. If you are dating and you have
challenges with your sex drive, then spend
time together in outdoor activities rather
than locking up yourselves in indoor
activities.
6. Feed your mind on God’s word, the
bible and any edifying Christian
literature...Good luck

if you concur that sex is worth waiting for

hit like or share if you disagree

Thanks for sharing. He who has ears......

@OP sex will not ruin my destiny, pls take ur preaching to religious section

modelmike7:
Thanks for sharing. He who has ears......

thank you pls join me in the admonition.........premarital sex is abominable, religious and socially forbidden

sweetorgasms:
@OP sex will not ruin my destiny, pls take ur preaching to religious section

my friend give me a tangible reason why you advocate for it?



that girl you're striffing are you going to marry her?

What a sexy morning

Tallesty1:
What a sexy morning

tallesty morning! shey am making sense?

Kingsley1000:
tallesty morning! shey am making sense?

In a sexy way

Tallesty1:
In a sexy way

why are guys shying away from this thread........... they just view and hit off

More men like you are needed worldwide, not just in nigeria

Kingsley1000:
my friend give me a tangible reason why you advocate for it?



that girl you're striffing are you going to marry her?

Nice thread ...it sud be under religion section tho

Mhizizzy:
Nice thread ...it sud be under religion section tho

You agree with it?

Does konji recognise all these