I am a guy of 30years but no sex till now. i suppose to be married dis year but due to parents refusing my girl because of her tribe. she is from akwa ibom and am from igbo. am the type of person dat believed no sex until marriage. but now i have change my mind i need to experience it because my plans of geting married dis year have fail. my question now. is there any precaution to take as first timer.

Always use protection! Better safe than sorry

After good 30 years of endurance, now you have changed your mind to damage yourself with two minutes enjoyment. Go ahead bro but don't come back here seeking for advice when it happens. Better still, I suggest you ask those that are nursing their injuries secretly they will tell you better. My guy, please desist from premarital sex and concentrate on your life. It doesn't pay.

If u can make it dis far,u can kip urself till d fullness of tym wen u wil tie d knot.

Then your wait amounts to nothin then. Y nt nt be patient and do the right thing. Get another girl and tie d knot. Enjoy urself.

30yrs?

See as you wan spoil everything. Devil fit use this opportunity get you if you zip down.

On the issue of tribe, you should convince your parents why you have to marry her.
My elder brother experienced such, my parents did not want him to marry from Akwaibom. The first girl he introduced to them did not work out. But he's now married to another lady from AkwaIbom.

The patient dog eats the fattest bone. U ve endured so much to some this far, dont let the devil steal the blessing meant for u. There are lots of good girls out there. Though some parents sef, wats wrong with AK person?

It is not worth it.

I just pray u see a lady that will compliment the sacrifice.

Oh common you don't need it..you are better off without it.wait for the right lady..sex is overrated.

Wow! I salute

I apologize bro, but I really have to laff small first...

Ok, now to be serious: Dude, do yourself a favor and ignore folks trying to tell what you should or shouldn't do - listen only to your own heart. And if your heart says "I've changed my mind about so-so", by all means listen - you owe nobody any explanation. And if you end up making a mistake, fkk it, at least then you have stories of youthful "mis-deeds" to tell your grandchildren.

Now on to your desire to taste the forbidden fruit .... the most important thing is, Never Ever Skin-dive - always use protection (that means a condom, by the way); the extra skin-skin pleasure is NOT worth multitude of complications it is possible to generate.

Secondly, please don't set your expectations too high - mind-blowing first time sxx only happens in Harlequin novels. Take it gently, allow yourself and your partner time to adjust to yourselves, engage in plenty of fore play, and for heaven's sake please stick to Missionary style - don't try any crazy thing and embarass yourself!

Uhh, yeah lastly, watch your partner's body language afterwards; some females like to cuddle after the "deed", some don't, but whichever way make sure you dont initiate it first. And complement her afterwards - make a light joke or something - it helps to ease that first time tension.

By the way, umm...just an after thought: please dont have your first time with a hooker; it rarely ends well.

sinaj:
30yrs?

Akwonsign u??

CONGRATULATIONS

Eya, Is well. God will see you through

kay9:
I apologize bro, but I really have to laff small first...

Ok, now to be serious: Dude, do yourself a favor and ignore folks trying to tell what you should or shouldn't do - listen only to your own heart. And if your heart says "I've changed my mind about so-so", by all means listen - you owe nobody any explanation. And if you end up making a mistake, fkk it, at least then you have stories of youthful "mis-deeds" to tell your grandchildren.

Now on to your desire to taste the forbidden fruit .... the most important thing is, Never Ever Skin-dive - always use protection (that means a condom, by the way); the extra skin-skin pleasure is NOT worth multitude of complications it is possible to generate.

Secondly, please don't set your expectations too high - mind-blowing first time sxx only happens in Harlequin novels. Take it gently, allow yourself and your partner time to adjust to yourselves, engage in plenty of fore play, and for heaven's sake please stick to Missionary style - don't try any crazy thing and embarass yourself!

Uhh, yeah lastly, watch your partner's body language afterwards; some females like to cuddle after the "deed", some don't, but whichever way make sure you dont initiate it first. And complement her afterwards - make a light joke or something - it helps to ease that first time tension.

By the way, umm...just an after thought: please dont have your first time with a hooker; it rarely ends well.

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Am not bothered about the no sex thing.

My concern here is your refusal to marry a girl you love simply because she is of a different tribe.

You may Have all the indiscriminate sex you want with others only for you to realise you have wasted 5 years having sex and still not married.

Bro get married. You ( and your family)have to look beyond tribal sentiments here. Find who you can call a wife. A woman you love and can spend your lifetime with.

PLS WAIT TILL U GET MARRIED,AM LIKE U IN THE SAME SHOE STILL WAITING AND PATIENT

sounds very mechanical, I'm sure you'll wonder why you didnt remain celibate for the time being ie till you marry.

if you've been celibate till 30+, shows you are not sex-driven per se, as in low sex drive or sex is not a priority.

infortech:
I am a guy of 30years but no sex till now. i suppose to be married dis year but due to parents refusing my girl because of her tribe. she is from akwa ibom and am from igbo. am the type of person dat believed no sex until marriage. but now i have change my mind i need to experience it because my plans of geting married dis year have fail. my question now. is there any precaution to take as first timer.

as much as possible avoid sex with Ibadan girls... you go jus die for free




BTW today's my mums birthday

can I get some likes

Abeg this thread pass me why did I comment self

kay9:
I apologize bro, but I really have to laff small first...

Ok, now to be serious: Dude, do yourself a favor and ignore folks trying to tell what you should or shouldn't do - listen only to your own heart. And if your heart says "I've changed my mind about so-so", by all means listen - you owe nobody any explanation. And if you end up making a mistake, fkk it, at least then you have stories of youthful "mis-deeds" to tell your grandchildren.

Now on to your desire to taste the forbidden fruit .... the most important thing is, Never Ever Skin-dive - always use protection (that means a condom, by the way); the extra skin-skin pleasure is NOT worth multitude of complications it is possible to generate.

Secondly, please don't set your expectations too high - mind-blowing first time sxx only happens in Harlequin novels. Take it gently, allow yourself and your partner time to adjust to yourselves, engage in plenty of fore play, and for heaven's sake please stick to Missionary style - don't try any crazy thing and embarass yourself!

Uhh, yeah lastly, watch your partner's body language afterwards; some females like to cuddle after the "deed", some don't, but whichever way make sure you dont initiate it first. And complement her afterwards - make a light joke or something - it helps to ease that first time tension.

By the way, umm...just an after thought: please dont have your first time with a hooker; it rarely ends well.

If there's an "unlike" button, I'll av pressed dt.
@ OP, wait til u tie d knot. I'm a living example. Then u wil av a joyous home.

you'll probably be single for the rest of ur life due to the bigoted nature of parents

I can't even believe a 30yrs old guy would allow his parents to be playing chess with his life....

mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww... keep bowing to every decision your parents make for you........
síssy.

Nawao, na this kind people dey make ladies see men as mumu.

@op, why not consider priesthood instead.

Chai ; This op machine don full wit milk;..30 years?D milk insdy u shu b 30 barrels

I still can't imagine how some people EXPOSE THEIR family dealings online.

Whatever your family declared shouldn't be made a topic of mockery nor jittery

hmm just be patient

infortech:
I am a guy of 30years but no sex till now. i suppose to be married dis year but due to parents refusing my girl because of her tribe. she is from akwa ibom and am from igbo. am the type of person dat believed no sex until marriage. but now i have change my mind i need to experience it because my plans of geting married dis year have fail. my question now. is there any precaution to take as first timer.

Damn!! 30years of age!!

sinaj:
30yrs?

yh, very possible

infortech:
I am a guy of 30years but no sex till now. i suppose to be married dis year but due to parents refusing my girl because of her tribe. she is from akwa ibom and am from igbo. am the type of person dat believed no sex until marriage. but now i have change my mind i need to experience it because my plans of geting married dis year have fail. my question now. is there any precaution to take as first timer.

this is wat I keeP sayin about the Ibos! Ur parnts stoppd marrying a girl jus because of her tribe! Weda she has a very gud character does not concern ur parents because all that mata is the tribe! That's too bad!