My ex is fond of breaking up with me...I used to take her bad manner as a learning ground and plan for worst days knowing that one day she might just zoom of and never comeback, so I started preparing for judgement day. Funny enough I got used to her attitude, each time she threatens me with break up I will remain calm without fretting, she noticed am no longer worried and at some point stopped. The latest came few days ago when she called it off...on grounds that I must do white wedding in her church, I told her I won't that i'd rather we do it in my church or in a neutral place. Her mom won her over and made her walk out on our 3 years relationship with marriage plans on top gears, saying it must be on their terms or I forget about her daughter. I kept my cool and and left with the later option. Started all over without any relationship, needed to clean my life...reevaluate things at leat for another year before venturing again and then she came bugging my life with the message below.
This lady has put my life in a fix....with lots of breakups and make ups...duno if to start again or not....a lot of my female friends have all left thinking am happy with her but am not...I do really want to move on but its hard when she come crying on the phone.
I need your candid advise pls

it all boils down to one important question.


Do you still love her after everything?

I know U still love her,do watever ur mind tells U to do.

Well, she got already an attitude..if u can tolerate that then it's fine to give a try again but if u feel like being with her is like hell then u better stop entertaining her calls & avoid her totally...the more u talk to her, the more u get confused so u better make up ur mind

What advice do you need again. The mum has given you two Options. Do the white wedding in their church or quit. There lies the solution. By the way is it the mum your gettin married to or the lady. I fear for your union because it seems the mum has a strong hold on her which may later backfire when you are married to her. Lots of family decisions may be taking by the mum. I expect you to solve the issue of the church before venturing into that marriage if @ all. Getting married in her church is not a reason to call off any marriage buh what happens after. Will you attend her church or will you attend different churches while married. That's where division comes in. Solve this issues before you even think of marrying that lady. #Peace

Teempakguy:
it all boils down to one important question.


Do you still love her after everything?

Apparently he does

Who would put up with even half of that stuff of they didn't

if you don't make your decision and cutting all ties with her now, you guys will divorce before your marriage hits 10 years

MikelEleta:
What advice do you need again. The mum has given you two Options. Do the white wedding in their church or quit. There lies the solution. By the way is it the mum your gettin married to or the lady. I fear for your union because it seems the mum has a strong hold on her which may later backfire when you are married to her. Lots of family decisions may be taking by the mum. I expect you to solve the issue of the church before venturing into that marriage if @ all. Getting married in her church is not a reason to call off any marriage buh what happens after. Will you attend her church or will you attend different churches while married. That's where division comes in. Solve this issues before you even think of marrying that lady. #Peace

U done talkam finish

Lol. Funny ladie. She's not matured no matter how old she is ... Continue managing her sha , she's your cross to bear

A wise man once said, madness is when you keep doing the same thing expecting different results.

This sounds like a power game relationship, where it's it's either her way or the highway. If you get married, I don't think the rules will change much since compromise doesn't seem to be in her vocab. Be prepared to be her little yes-man. A Robin because she's obviously Batman You mr, are bringing a butter knife to a gun fight

Be done with the dramatic B.

PunkyVeer:
A wise man once said, madness is when you keep doing the same thing expecting different results.

This sounds like a power game relationship, where it's it's either her way or the highway. If you get married, I don't think the rules will change much since compromise doesn't seem to be in her vocab. Be prepared to be her little yes-man. A Robin because she's obviously Batman You mr, are bringing a butter knife to a gun fight

Be done with the dramatic B.

Honey, candid!


You talk gangster tho, cute!

It's obvious that you still love that girl.. Why not make peace with her?

SEND ME YOUR PIX PLS. YOU ARE CUTE FA ABI NAH THE PHONE MAGIC.

rheether:
SEND ME YOUR PIX PLS. YOU ARE CUTE FA ABI NAH THE PHONE MAGIC.

Check my profile

MrsPhyno:

Apparently he does

Who would put up with even half of that stuff of they didn't

well, i could.

No picture

This is a woman who you've seen it all with...She has improved ur temperament and emotions just by learning how to from her actions... she is closer to ideal for you than any other woman out there to be sincere. Hopefully u guys come back together and agree on a suitable venue for the white wedding.

rheether:
No picture

Check again....just updated bcoz of u...dont put picture on social media...ones u view it and acknowledge I'll take it off....or add me up at fbuk...Josef eja

MikelEleta:
What advice do you need again. The mum has given you two Options. Do the white wedding in their church or quit. There lies the solution. By the way is it the mum your gettin married to or the lady. I fear for your union because it seems the mum has a strong hold on her which may later backfire when you are married to her. Lots of family decisions may be taking by the mum. I expect you to solve the issue of the church before venturing into that marriage if @ all. Getting married in her church is not a reason to call off any marriage buh what happens after. Will you attend her church or will you attend different churches while married. That's where division comes in. Solve this issues before you even think of marrying that lady. #Peace

Bros, abeg wetin u dey drink ?

AMAZING! Take your time, dont be in a hurry. MIND you, its your life and she should be ready to accept your decisions.

pinceprinz:



Honey, candid!


You talk gangster tho, cute!

Lol, that's not gangster but ok

rheether:
AMAZING! Take your time, dont be in a hurry. MIND you, its your life and she should be ready to accept your decisions.

Wots amazing...don't get u...av u seen d pics...pls add me up on fbuk....Josef eja

the pix.

PunkyVeer:

Lol, that's not gangster but ok

so what'd u call that?


funny funny pic omg!

rheether:
the pix.

Kkk...hope u gonna add up on fbuuk tho

tosyne2much:
Bros, abeg wetin u dey drink ?

. @ Tosyn na Baileys make sense pass

pinceprinz:


so what'd u call that?



funny funny pic omg!

It's real talk

PunkyVeer:


It's real talk

Hmm ... Should sound normal to an intelligentsia like you but to me, mehn I'd pop champagne if I could reason half your level

pinceprinz:



Hmm ... Should sound normal to an intelligentsia like you but to me, mehn I'd pop champagne if I could reason half your level

Aww, you're so sweet

Ah don't know wah to say.. but be very careful with your decisions

rheether:
SEND ME YOUR PIX PLS. YOU ARE CUTE FA ABI NAH THE PHONE MAGIC.

koife:

Wots amazing...don't get u...av u seen d pics...pls add me up on fbuk....Josef eja

Just look @ what's going on

U needed our advice..

Meanwhile, u've moved on

afolwalex20:



Just look @ what's going on

U needed our advice..

Meanwhile, u've moved on

Yea I desperately when to...infact I want a permanent distraction, something to keep me off her. Trust me