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What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by makzeze: 6:08am On Oct 09, 2015
Sex is an important element in marriage and until there is sexual intercourse between a husband and a wife, the marriage is not yet spiritually recognised. This shows how important sex is in marriage.
When you look at how agressive men are towards sex you may think that what a man needs from a woman is sex. Of course, if he has not married you yet or he does not really intend to marry you what he will need from you is nothing above your body. But if he really intends to marry you or if you guys are already married sex is never what he needs from you - maybe let me say it better; "WHAT A MAN NEEDS MOST FROM A WOMAN IS NOT SEX."
Many young girls think because they are sexually active and experience they will easily be married and have their husbands loving them. And when a man approaches for marriage they think the greatest asset they have to show the man is sex. Others also think once they are giving out their bodies it means they are giving out the best for which reason they will be chosen above all.
There is this young girl who is very beautiful and sexually active. Due to that she thought sex is all that matters to a man. Ironically, she struggled for long before finally getting married. Her sexual dexterity could not win her the heart of a man until out of the blue and reason beyong imagination a very handsome good man married her. The wedding was grand and her tears were now gone. Unfortunately only a year after the wedding the marriage fell on rocks. Within five years three different men came her way but none could stay.
The problem was simple. She thought sex was all that matters so she would never submit. But SUBMISSION IS WHAT MEN NEED, NOT SEX.
It is time for our young ladies to know that when a man is ready to marry he will not look out for a woman who will satisfy his sex drive but a woman who will SUBMIT HERSELF TO HIM. Excuse my language, "every woman has vagina but not every woman has humility." So when you are a humble woman, you are an expensive jewelry. And a man of integrity will fear to lose you.
The truth is that a man's true love goes out only for a woman who is SUBMISSIVE.
Your beauty cannot make another woman ugly but your humility can let him love you above all other women.
Sadly, many youngs ladies in our days call submission as "CONTROL." And you will hear them saying in tiny romantic voices, "As for me I don't want any man to control me oh." If you don't want to submit don't think of marriage because no man in his right sense will offer his love to a woman whose heart is higher than his height, no matter how short he may be.
WHEN A WOMAN BOWS HER KNEE BEFORE A MAN, THE MAN WILL AUTOMATICALLY BOW HIS HEART BEFORE HER LOVE. And love her sincerely. There are, of course, recalcitrant men who will not value women of humility but I tell you that every true man does not need sex, but submission.
It is submission that truly makes you a romantic wife. So be the African queen you want to be but when it comes to dealing with your husband, play the role of a humble maid. Don't forget that it is the spirit of humility that has caused many maids to hijack their mistresses' husbands. Be your man's queen and be his maid also.
I wish you all the best as you submit in your relationship and marriage. May God bless you with good marriage, my dear sister.
Forwards this to any female friend you care about. Have a nice day..
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by Nobody: 6:12am On Oct 09, 2015
I can't fit to this "submissive" type of person grin...
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by molydonhenry(m): 6:21am On Oct 09, 2015
ok
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by molydonhenry(m): 6:28am On Oct 09, 2015
KashyBaby:
I can't fit to this "submissive" type of person grin...
Being submissive doesn't mean that u become a slave. Its makes u become humble, peace loving, wise and overall, a home builder.
Axe down ur pride, see ur husband as d head of d home, with God's blessing and with an understanding husband, ur home will experience progressive Happiness.

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Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by Nobody: 6:31am On Oct 09, 2015
God forgive you OP
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by makzeze: 6:59am On Oct 09, 2015
MrsPhyno:
God forgive you OP
amen

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Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by thegoodone2(m): 7:05am On Oct 09, 2015
TRUE TALK
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by youmuboy007: 8:20am On Oct 09, 2015
KashyBaby:
I can't fit to this "submissive" type of person grin...
KashyBaby:
I can't fit to this "submissive" type of person grin...
KashyBaby:
I can't fit to this "submissive" type of person grin...
then don't get married at all because that is what is required of you. Two captain cannot be in a ship
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by Nobody: 8:44am On Oct 09, 2015
youmuboy007:
[color=#006600][/color]then don't get married at all because that is what is required of you. Two captain cannot be in a ship

Tats y I stay SINGLE... wink
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by Agimor(m): 9:03am On Oct 09, 2015
See modern day
MrsPhyno:
God forgive you OP
Like he commited a gross crime.
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by youmuboy007: 9:31am On Oct 09, 2015
KashyBaby:


Tats y I stay SINGLE... wink
come on lady, you are too pretty to be single o you need a man and if you are looking for one I'm available.
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by Nobody: 9:55am On Oct 09, 2015
youmuboy007:
come on lady, you are too pretty to be single o you need a man and if you are looking for one I'm available.


Mmmmm...tnxx but im happy to be single tho grin

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Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by Nobody: 12:23pm On Oct 09, 2015
Agimor:
See modern day Like he commited a gross crime.
As far as I'm concerned
He did grin
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by Oahray: 1:11pm On Oct 09, 2015
I wonder why so many persons have a problem with simple expression. Your topic "What a husband needs from a wife is NEVER sex" (emphasis mine) means a husband WOULD NEVER need sex from his wife at any point. Is that what you meant?

I think you should edit.
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex by mayorkyzo: 4:37pm On Oct 09, 2015
Gender equality has blinded many ladies these days..they would remain single till their 50's..

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