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Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by exlink10(m): 7:17pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
By Ogochukwu Anioke The family of a deceased woman has suspended her burial rites until her ‘husband’ who she was cohabiting with performs her wedding rites. The woman Chinyere Mbam was been bitten to death by a snake while returning from the wake-keep of her friend, Oge Ogashi who passed on. She was taken to a traditional healing home in the area for treatment and thereafter back to the husband’s home where she gave up the ghost when she could not respond to the treatment. Her uncle, Ishiali Ikwe confirmed her death. But the deceased’s family have mandated his ‘husband’ Stephen Mbam of Enyi Igwe village Ezzainyimagu community in Izzi local government area of Ebonyi State, to carry out her traditional marriage rites before she is buried. It was gathered that the woman had been co-habiting with Stephen for three years and their relationship produced a child even though he did not fulfill her marriage rites. According to the Uncle, the family has put the burial on hold until Mbam performs traditional marriage on the deceased. He further said that Mbam’s family, in line with the tradition of the land, have scheduled a date for payment of the bride price to be preceded by the wedding. http://www.exlinklodge.com/2015/10/nigerian-man-forced-to-marry-dead-wife.html#sthash.LFVUbRQE.dpuf 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by RemyMartins(m): 7:22pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
sweetorgasms: You would have just passed the thread or even input a Smiley instead of this poo!!! I am a Firstly a Nigerian from the South South Area (Niger Delta) full blooded. Though i'm not a traditionalist but correct me if I am wrong "the woman cohabited with the man before her death" all her people want is for her brideprice to be paid so she can be given a befitting burial. Our tradition is who we are. Forget the shiiii we are borrowing from the west. Crucify me if you wish. IT IS FINISHED hope4nigeria: Do you think that man can claim his child if that rite is not performed? A people's tradition defines them. Lemme use a little example. If you go to a drink joint and you are served a bottle of drink and in the process of you using cork screw the bottle of drink slips and shatter, wont you pay for the drink? If my brain dey my shoe, then keep on wearing your slippers 148 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by Fmartin(m): 7:23pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
When and where is the marriage rites gonna take place? Can't miss d jollof rice nd oda foods.......RIP to d dead wife. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by midehi2(f): 7:27pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
when bride price is like 'whooping' how will a common man marry.....mtcheeeeeew tradition 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by Gabaleve(m): 7:27pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
Y r pple so barbaric 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by excellencyabia1: 8:30pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
if I condemn it what my own that people don't value, well for the family to accept it that means that the tradition is well rooted in them. |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by AfricanApple(f): 11:05pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
talk of about the power of naira |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by Bonapart(m): 12:36pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
They all need Christ 6 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by chaz007(f): 12:37pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
They really want to impose the 'widower' title on him. Oh well, he shld do as demanded, cos I'm sure he pays before eating in "mama put's canteen" 6 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by lekjons(m): 12:37pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
sweetorgasms:Which one is Niger-Delta which is Biafra i been think say all of them na igbo.. nawa oo if Nigeria is to break, Her pieces will be over 100+ Back to the topic.. Nigeria and her nonsense traditions.. SMH!! 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by tolexy007(m): 12:38pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by ZYZZA: 12:38pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Gabaleve:is that so |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by Icecomrade: 12:38pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Na tradition |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by Lincoln275(m): 12:39pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Na ebonyi tradition be that, dtz y I no dey near ebonyi girl ooo 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by Nobody: 12:39pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Kokene ya ofuma 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by akins56(m): 12:39pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
cave people, am not surprised. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by Blessed4God(m): 12:40pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Na him kill the person 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by musafat(f): 12:41pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
:oI'm sawi to say, dahs y I dnt lyk igbos at all . So cruel 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by Honestly1: 12:41pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Hey... 7 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by onyepapa(m): 12:41pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
What's the meaning of a Nigerian man? Who post this bullihs?? 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by agarawu23(m): 12:41pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Marriage of the dead. Watch out for the movie soon |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by DaPhilosopher(m): 12:41pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Some Traditions though |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by Raymondville(m): 12:42pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Barbaric 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by Balkan(m): 12:42pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
It's not unusual. It happens in many tribes meanwhile, the op is a liar. If you are living with someone's daughter and she dies, would it not be better for you to pay the pay the bride price to make you claim your child?. It's only right for the man to do the needful. No body is marrying any dead woman here 8 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by Kingbilo(m): 12:42pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Well, if it's done for the sake of the child then I can just slightly understand .. But if it just for bride price then they are really bad ppl in my opinion.. Stopping the funeral of their own daughter over someone else sounds totally ridiculous.. If he says he won't do anything nko? Will they leave her in the morgue? |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by onyepapa(m): 12:42pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
musafat:foool 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by Nobody: 12:42pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Sharap there, its an Igbo tradition and we do it inmy own part of Igbo land Lincoln275: 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Forced To Marry Dead Woman In Ebonyi - Despicable by jendhorlee(m): 12:42pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
i tell u....diz is the work of APC 4 Likes 1 Share |
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