Hello fellow Nairalanders! A few days ago I sought for your advice concerning my strained relationship with a girl(now my ex) that happened to be my first love. And I wasn't disapointed, for I got constructive advices that I needed. So, I acted based on the advice by ditching the girl in question.

It is a common place practice, that as guys; even if you are in a committed relationship with a lady. Your eyes(interests) may still be on a few other ladies around you, who are not necessarily in a relationship with you or your friends, but in some opinion; they serve as plan B to you, should the current lady you are dating falls short of your initial expectations. In all, this case scenario happens to be the track of my ordeal currently.

After I ditched that girl, I headed to one of the ladies(plan B ladies) to see if I could start up a relationship with her, because I have been admiring her character dispositions from afar, even when I knew I was already with a bae. As I appraoched this girl, and opened up my intents. She declined by saying, she couldn't date me, that I appear too handsome to her liking. When I asked her why she made such statement she said, “please! You don't understand...I can't date you, because you look too fine to me. Moreover, I don't want to drag you with other girls around.”

Yesterday again, I talked to another bae. This one politely said no with humour and laughter. Infact, she put it this way, “bros...(laughs), I don't want trouble oo...(laughs). Oda chicks go dey worry oo. Moreover, I can't have an affair with somebody finer than I'm.”. She later said we could be casual friends.

Pals! I have been noticing this. Most ladies that I have chatted-up to appear to loose confidence in themselves. They usually appear uneasy, whenever I'm around them. Like seriously, my Ex, even though, she is very beautiful, appears to be acting strange then when we where together.

What do I do please!? In pidgin, “na me create myself?”

Note: I'm 23.

you must have approached pigs.

E b like say na to ugly win am dis days o. Na d second time wey pesin dey complain say even as e fine, no level 4 am b dis o.

finest boi pele o

Coff Coff ....Op make I no swear for u now

ok this is it,I give up.......Am going to get a gun..op it's you first

Teempakguy:


you must have approached pigs.

Bros! Is not so. They are clean a pretty gurls

hertz9te:
ok this is it,I give up.......Am going to get a gun..op it's you first

Gun!? Hahaha!!! Funny you bro.

Lolll funny situation, so girls rejected you because you are too handsome, my broda go and consult the people from your village, they might have masquerade your face, or maybe is your ex hand work.

LordOfTheWeed:
Hmmmmm.. .. .. Bros if you the same person on that DP, then you are indeed handsome!!!

tnx, but I do feels somehow rejected.

Laugh is killing me o, if dat u on yur D.P den gals will continue to run frm you o.rofnlmao

Na waoo were dat one d happen

Op is beaurifool

Hmmmmmm................
............OBJ...........em...
........ I mean OP.....

Mehn! U funny die

U fine, U resemble OPC...

This life eh,u fine wahala..u no fine trouble.which way to go??..well i sense insecurity on the ladies part.

prettythicksme:
Op is beaurifool

Just stop dis for ones.
Ave seen a lots of yaa comments, you can't detect when some ones is actually serious on a matter dat concerns him/her, just stop dis abeg.It looks creepy to me

prettythicksme:
Op is beaurifool

Lolz...

gab264:
Just stop dis for ones.
Ave seen a lots of yaa comments, you can't detect when some ones is actually serious on a matter dat concerns him/her, just stop dis abeg.It looks creepy to me

for ones or once?btw stfu and gerrrahaimehnnnnn!shiiit!!who fuvking cares on how i choose to comment?learn how to mind ur bis okay

Davindal:
Lolz...

prettythicksme:
for ones or once?btw stfu and gerrrahaimehnnnnn!shiiit!!who fuvking cares on how i choose to comment?learn how to mind ur bis okay

She don vex

Laveda:
She don vex

nah

gab264:
Just stop dis for ones.
Ave seen a lots of yaa comments, you can't detect when some ones is actually serious on a matter dat concerns him/her, just stop dis abeg.It looks creepy to me

Bro. U knw? Most ppl like making gest of everything. They think is a funny stuff. They don't know what I'm passing through cos of my look and physique.

Davindal:
Bro. U knw? Most ppl like making gest of everything. They think is a funny stuff. They don't know what I'm passing through cos of my look and physique.

What r u passing through? dat guy gab246 created a thread this morning similar to what u wrote up there and received the bashing of his life!!I think he's pained!u guys r just okay not really goodlooking as u both claimed!!take it or u leave it!!

chomytex:
This life eh,u fine wahala..u no fine trouble.which way to go??..well i sense insecurity on the ladies part.

It ain't been easy to me. But I must surely overcome.

prettythicksme:
What r u passing through? dat guy gab246 created a thread this morning similar to what u wrote up there and received the bashing of his life!!I think he's pained!u guys r just okay not really goodlooking as u both claimed!!take it or u leave it!!

Really? Hmm... I never knew he created a tread this evening.

if them ask me to define handsome wit example for exam n I define am cum use u as example, am certain I will fail....

Davindal:
Really? Hmm... I never knew he created a tread this evening.

Yes he did,dis morning!d thread was on fp.

valdes00:
if them ask me to define handsome wit example for exam n I define am cum use u as example, am certain I will fail....

See guy or Oga! The essence of anything in this life...be it beauty, power, intelligence etc...is divine(God). That is why in life, take for instance, if you feel you are intelligent; you will marvel when you realize that where your intelligence ends or stops, that is where another persons' intelligence starts, and the phenomenon goes on. Suggesting that the essence of anything is divine(God), ie only God has all complete.

What am I saying in summary? I haven't been the person refering to myself as handsome. It have been people all around wherever I visit. Moreover, what I wrote above is a matter of concern to me. It is aimed at getting a kinda advice, not this crap you wrote.

I respect ppl a lot. But, I could be rude when pushed. Yes! God created all man, but not equal in everything. Nevertheless, on this ground, since your have pushed me. I think I'm far handsome than you could ever think you are. If we are to me physically compared, I'm sure to beat you both in height, facial look, physique,gait etc. So man back out. Note: I don't brag; so don't take offense at my words.

prettythicksme:
What r u passing through? dat guy gab246 created a thread this morning similar to what u wrote up there and received the bashing of his life!!I think he's pained!u guys r just okay not really goodlooking as u both claimed!!take it or u leave it!!

Lolz" I never knew that I was bashed honestly i didnt have time to read all that comments but i will still do that l8er.
I have picked some vital advice that are cool to me.
And mind you that what I put down there is not to portray maa physical look or what not"Is just to lay down a kind of complain or to seek an advice on how to handle "stereotype" friends of mine.
Am not goodlooking and to be sincere I don't need it at all, because it is nothing ( I just hope they will see me dat way.

But still if u don't have anything to contribute or to comment on a thread u can just back off is not necessary that u must post unreasonable comments of urs.
Don't just be a post "derailer" (Advice)@prettythisckme