Hi guys, i need all sincere advices on how to deal with something as troubling as this.
I have this cousin but she's not related to me by blood.....her mother died when she was very young and now she's 15. Her dad got married to my aunt when she was growing up as a kid. The problem is my aunt which is her step-mom now complains abt her everytime that she's being rude to her out of the blue. Now, my aunt is almost at the verge of sending her packing.
Me, i have also experienced it too as i am somehow close to the family. She is sometimes coldhearted.

If someone is not that related to you, and everytime she takes good care of you, u have no right to behave rudely to them.

Can u guys tell me what her problem is? Please.

You are funny, you should tell us her problem

Oyind17:
You are funny, you should tell us her problem

I dont think i understand her at all. That's all.

She's going through adolescent crisis which is normal . ...she will realize and come back to her senses later. ...tell your aunty to just take it easy with her

Hhh

pet4ril:
She's going through adolescent crisis which is normal . ...she will realize and come back to her senses later. ...tell your aunty to just take it easy with her

which one is adolescent crisis again? I passed through my teenage years and wasn't rude to my seniors cos I know the kind of flogging and house work I will do if the report gets to my parents. A spoilt child is a spoilt child

pet4ril:
She's going through adolescent crisis which is normal . ...she will realize and come back to her senses later. ...tell your aunty to just take it easy with her

Alright. Thanks

lofty900:
which one is adolescent crisis again? I passed through my teenage years and wasn't rude to my seniors cos I know the kind of flogging and house work I will do if the report gets to my parents. A spoilt child is a spoilt child

Lolz

There is nothing wrong with the 15 year old child. You and your Aunt have to be patient with her and continue to show her love to earn her trust in return.

She misses her mother and her dad whom she craves for, may not be giving her the much needed attention.

Push her too hard and you all will loose her for good.

she's perfectly normal, just being a teenager. It will pass with time, biological parents too get to deal with that from their wards. Patience pls.

15 years and rudeness,maybe that's how she wants to live her life.......i know of a gurl like that who lost her parents and stays with her uncle all does is to insult everybody in the neighbourhood...i tire for d thing.

uboma:





There is nothing wrong with the 15 year old child. You and your Aunt have to be patient with her and continue to show her love to earn her trust in return.

She misses her mother and her dad whom she craves for, may not be giving her the much needed attention.

Push her too hard and you all will loose her for good.

Thnx, was helpful

Wenebadu:
15 years and rudeness,maybe that's how she wants to live her life.......i know of a gurl like that who lost her parents and stays with her uncle all does is to insult everybody in the neighbourhood...i tire for d thing.

Then i will have to talk to her

CozyDblake:
Thnx, was helpful

You are welcome.


Remember that your Aunt can either be her best friend or her enemy. Its all up to your Aunt and you....

All the best to your Aunt and the 15 year old child.

uboma:



You are welcome.


Remember that your Aunt can either be her best friend or her enemy. Its all up to your Aunt and you....

All the best to your Aunt and the 15 year old child.

Thank u so much. Sir