I don't know,why or how, but I just notice that when I get friendly with kids the next thing is negative teases.
On a first meet, children want to pinch me, pull my goatee without fear. It doesn't happen with other people. And being hostile to them doesn't sit well with me, yet it seems they don't fear me.
You go see five year old pikin go dey yab me say I fart.
Yet I love them kids. Especially the fine ones.
Anyone with similar xperience and possible solutions?

I don't mean to offend you with this but you should really ponder on the parable 'as goat take stand for market na dem dey price am'

Am having this feeling that the children in question don't like ur spirit. #No offence.

yea kids do that in their innocence especially when you are too attached to them like you play a lot with them, things like that are bound to occur, but mind u, u have to caution them at times so as to avoid them making it a habit and ultimately to insults

Then they really like you and get overly comfortable with you.

Same thing used to happen until one of them called me an idiot.




I still wince for him when I remember the beating I gave him.






After that, they started treating me with a whole lotta respect

Probably because you play with them a lot. You've got to draw strict boundaries at times.

Lmao @ "pulling my goatee without fear". Why should anyone pull your goatee with fear?

the kids in our fear me like snake... any fvck up from them, gba! gba! gba!!! gba!!
but i still buy them something when am in a happy mood

You allow them to have their way all the time, you don't act like an adult around them, you need to change.

My little advice is stay away from those or atleast draw a boundary. Moreover remember Mr Jackson ( child molestation trail)