Miami11:
If she is crazy znd deranged she gives out part of her cheque.

Janix2:
I need honest answers.
Notice this days that Women earn than men.

Demmocrats:
We are in 2015 not 1970
Its only a daft lady that does that

LaRoyalHighness:
If it rocks your boat.... Why not? When I got my first salary I decided to give my husband a part of it(to show appreciation) I had been without a job for two years and he never robbed it in for one day. He took care of me and the whole family without rumbling.

Back to the issue. He turned down the money, asked me to save it our buy something I like for my self because he doesn't care about protocols, and tradition... He doesn't care about my money.

But when they chips are down he reaches out to me and I help out.

Atmmachine:
No.
It's not wise for a wife to give part of her monthly salary to her husband.

It's also not wise for a husband to give part of his monthly salary to his wife.

God forbids any husband to give money to any woman.

TooNoisy:
So what is he giving her husband money for?

If it is to pay part of the bills, then there is nothing wrong. If the husband can give the wife money, why can't the wife give her husband money?

Demmocrats:
We are in 2015 not 1970


Its only a daft lady that does that

missyadorable:
Yes o...esp with boyfriends,husband is slightly different though

TooNoisy:
So what is he giving her husband money for?

If it is to pay part of the bills, then there is nothing wrong. If the husband can give the wife money, why can't the wife give her husband money?

LaRoyalHighness:
If it rocks your boat.... Why not? When I got my first salary I decided to give my husband a part of it(to show appreciation) I had been without a job for two years and he never robbed it in for one day. He took care of me and the whole family without rumbling.

Back to the issue. He turned down the money, asked me to save it our buy something I like for my self because he doesn't care about protocols, and tradition... He doesn't care about my money.

But when they chips are down he reaches out to me and I help out.

Atmmachine:
No.
It's not wise for a wife to give part of her monthly salary to her husband.

It's also not wise for a husband to give part of his monthly salary to his wife.

God forbids any husband to give money to any woman.

sihom:
I think that money should go into a joint bank account created for the purpose of funding family/household projects - but I'm a single lady what do I know.

[s] Three married women I know of have done this sort of thing on a regular basis, it led to their husbands becoming lazy and slacking off on responsibilities like paying school fees, house rent etcetera practically leaving those responsibilities to their wives to handle.

My only concern and fear is that your husband may go the way the men described above did. On the other hand another true life story of a married couple I know was different from the women above.

Tunde (not real name) was unemployed for seven years and all his attempts at business and finding a stable source of income wasn't yielding fruits. His wife (let's call her Kanwulia) on the other hand was gainfully employed and each time she received her salary she would give all of it to Tunde.

I figure she did this to honour Tunde as her husband and the head of the home. Tunde never took things for granted and always used the money wisely & prudently. No one ever knew the situation in that house for as long as it lasted not even their family & friends.

Today, Tunde & Kanwulia handle pre-marital counseling & classes at a certain church and they often share their story with intending couples.

You know your husband better than I do. Will he in the long run behave like Tunde or the other three husbands I mentioned?

A joint account thingy is what I would do in your shoes and since you earn more you can as well fund the account at a higher ratio than your husband with a caveat.

That caveat being that you are both signatories to the account and one person cannot withdraw funds without the knowledge & signature of the other. That way you are kept in the loop and aware of where your monies collectively as a couple is going to.