After my first baby I have not been frick about sex, and my husband complaining already.

So what do u want us to do?

Go and ask fenando torres. How he rediscovered his form. After winning the champions league.....go back to drawing board and make your hubby happy

EllyB:
After my first baby I have not been frick about sex, and my husband complaining already.

Babes try and relax ur mind... Eat a lot of fruits (watermelon , pineapple etc) eat chocolates.. Do kegel exercise, read romance novel ... Tell ur hubby to play romance games/acts very well with u, its not all abt Penetration.

Try all u can to be in d mood, men are very unreasonable especially when it comes to sex, they don't care what ur body went thru at child birth to cause the way u r feeling now... They seriously do not care...they are very self centered.. So pls try and help urself get in the mood. Even wives who give it to their husbands 247 and in different styles still have Hubbys cheating on them, not to talk of not being in d mood wife. He will only use that as an excuse to carry all those " free for all public toilets " to destroy ur home

Dont worry,another lady is observing if you like dont do your homework

Why are you making him complain??
Just tell him he should get you drugs that helps improve sex drive, with the drugs you both can both be on the same level of sexual desire night and day... Hope I helped?

@ OP...How long ago did you have your baby?

Wonders.just look at the posts above me from air heads pretending to be men
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EllyB:
After my first baby I have not been frick about sex, and my husband complaining already.

I heard breastfeeding helps release hormones(oxytocin) that will help you feel freaky again.

SAMBARRY:
Wonders.just look at the posts above me from air heads pretending to be men
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Tell him to do some reading on women, libido and pregnancies. Many women have a lower se.xual drive after delivering a baby, it can last up to two years. A mature husband can handle it.

Mindfulness:
Tell him to do some reading on women, libido and pregnancies. Many women have a lower se.xual drive after delivering a baby, it can last up to two years. A mature husband can handle it.

Thank u so much for ur advice.

Mindfulness:
Tell him to do some reading on women, libido and pregnancies. Many women have a lower se.xual drive after delivering a baby, it can last up to two years. A mature husband can handle it.

Thanks a lot.

lilmax:
Dont worry,another lady is observing if you like dont do your homework

What's ur own? If u don't hav any better thing to say just keep short. More over dats why am here to sick advice am a new mother n would want to kw why its like dat.

Do what sarah did in the bible. Go and get a househelp from ur village (even if she ugly) to help u in ur marital and bedwarming duties.

Just draw sex timetable btw u and her from sunday to saturday and dose her well with contraceptives. Shikena! Sha no jealous her later o.

DuchessLily:


Babes try and relax ur mind... Eat a lot of fruits (watermelon , pineapple etc) eat chocolates.. Do kegel exercise, read romance novel ... Tell ur hubby to play romance games/acts very well with u, its not all abt Penetration.

Try all u can to be in d mood, men are very unreasonable especially when it comes to sex, they don't care what ur body went thru at child birth to cause the way u r feeling now... They seriously do not care...they are very self centered.. So pls try and help urself get in the mood. Even wives who give it to their husbands 247 and in different styles still have Hubbys cheating on them, not to talk of not being in d mood wife. He will only use that as an excuse to carry all those " free for all public toilets " to destroy ur home

Thanks a lot.

JudgementHammer:
Do what sarah did in the bible. Go and get a househelp from ur village (even if she ugly) to help u in ur marital and bedwarming duties.

Just draw sex timetable btw u and her from sunday to saturday and dose her well with contraceptives. Shikena! Sha no jealous her later o.

Lol. I taya o

Try&xplain things to him.

EllyB:
What's ur own? If u don't hav any better thing to say just keep short. More over dats why am here to sick advice am a new mother n would want to kw why its like dat.

when you see it happen thats when you know i said the right thing,dey there dey form weak

The way we harbour resentments for the opposite sex!
Dear op,you are not alone on this,it happens to a whole lot of women.
My advice,try,try,try.Even when you don't want to,just try.Try reading romance story more like a poster stated.
Get your head into this.
With time you will get used to it.
It is called #conjugalduties.
Don't let hubby complain or you will be the chic complaining when some random hottie starts taking him to eldorado and back.
#myhumbleopinion

There is a liquid but i don't really know d name. I have seen some women in my office take it & i learnt dat it put dem in d mood as any touch from their partner catapult them to d point of no return. Do ur findings. Remedies abound!

EllyB:
Thanks a lot.

U r welcome dear. The Lord is ur strength

This childbirth thing is not easy on women. Wallahi.

@Op Apparently this is a common case amongst many women after childbirth, must be all the stress the body went through for 9 months.

Please take the reasonable advise here or better still ask Google, you'll be shocked to find many women going through what you're presently going through.

Don't worry, women are quite complicated species emotionally.

The LIBIDO is not lost, it will be back.

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I think communication with your husband would be advisable as opposed to telling him to go and read books on the issue.
Most marriages fail because they fail to tackle the loss of libido as a team. If you've gained some weight during the pregnancy, you could try losing some, if you haven't been taking care of yourself as you did before you had the baby, give that a try.
Finally, talk to your man. I meant TALK DIRTY to him. Whisper some things you've been wanting to do to him, send him romance texts and such.
This is how you keep your marriage, because periods like this are where the cracks appear and no amount of praying will help. In my humble professional opinion.

Guys and sex sha.a woman should b given her space after pregnancy.

DuchessLily:


Babes try and relax ur mind... Eat a lot of fruits (watermelon , pineapple etc) eat chocolates.. Do kegel exercise, read romance novel ... Tell ur hubby to play romance games/acts very well with u, its not all abt Penetration.

Try all u can to be in d mood, men are very unreasonable especially when it comes to sex, they don't care what ur body went thru at child birth to cause the way u r feeling now... They seriously do not care...they are very self centered.. So pls try and help urself get in the mood. Even wives who give it to their husbands 247 and in different styles still have Hubbys cheating on them, not to talk of not being in d mood wife. He will only use that as an excuse to carry all those " free for all public toilets " to destroy ur home

Don't always talk like this.It's not every man that treats his wife the way you think.

thorpido:
Don't always talk like this.It's not every man that treats his wife the way you think.

Always?? . yeah not every man , like 1.5% out of 100% don't do like i stated

DuchessLily:


Always?? . yeah not every man , like 1.5% out of 100% don't do like i stated

How did you arrive at your percentage?