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VERY IMPORTANT! All Parents, Carers, Older Siblins,Baby Mamas/Papas Step In Here by DFemaleBoss(f): 6:40pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
What do you guys think about this and how true are they? Mamas and Papas on Nairaland, I hand over to y'all. Tirukkural by Tiruvalluvar ( a Tamil poet/writer) was written more than 5000 yrs ago. It’s one of the ancient science on Human behaviour, which has not changed inspite of modern education & technology ! SOME GOLDEN THOUGHTS OF THIRUKKURAL 1. If your child lies to you often, it is because you over-react too harshly to their inappropriate behaviour. 2. If your child is not taught to confide in you about their mistakes, you’ve lost them. 3. If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advice them more than you encourage them. 4. If your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public. 5. If your child takes things that do not belong to them, it is because when you buy them things, you don’t let them chose what they want. 6. If your child is cowardly, it is because you help them too quickly. 7. If your child does not respect other people’s feelings, it is because instead of speaking to your child, you order and command them. 8. If your child is too quick to anger, it is because you give too much attention to misbehaviour and you give little attention to good behaviour. 9. If your child is excessively jealous, it is because you only congratulate them when they successfully complete something and not when they improve at something even if they don’t successfully complete it. 10. If your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough. 11. If your child is openly defiant, it is because you openly threaten to do something but don’t follow through. 12. If your child is secretive, it is because they don’t trust that you won’t blow things out of proportion. 13. If your child talks back to you, it is because they watch you do it to others and think its normal behaviour. 14. If your child doesn’t listen to you but listens to others, it is because you are too quick to jump to conclusions 15. If your child rebels it is because they know you care more about what others think than what is right Please forward this to parents. MAY GUIDE OUR MODERN PARENTING. Positive parenting☝ Cc: Lalasticlala Seun What do you think? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: VERY IMPORTANT! All Parents, Carers, Older Siblins,Baby Mamas/Papas Step In Here by jaymejate: 6:45pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
You are very correct. |
Re: VERY IMPORTANT! All Parents, Carers, Older Siblins,Baby Mamas/Papas Step In Here by DFemaleBoss(f): 6:48pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Re: VERY IMPORTANT! All Parents, Carers, Older Siblins,Baby Mamas/Papas Step In Here by Nobody: 7:15pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
I really enjoyed reading this |
Re: VERY IMPORTANT! All Parents, Carers, Older Siblins,Baby Mamas/Papas Step In Here by DFemaleBoss(f): 7:21pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
^^ That's nice to hear. |
Re: VERY IMPORTANT! All Parents, Carers, Older Siblins,Baby Mamas/Papas Step In Here by DFemaleBoss(f): 7:25pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Share your thoughts guys, don't just read and run. |
Re: VERY IMPORTANT! All Parents, Carers, Older Siblins,Baby Mamas/Papas Step In Here by Rukkydelta(f): 8:18pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Correct |
Re: VERY IMPORTANT! All Parents, Carers, Older Siblins,Baby Mamas/Papas Step In Here by missvera(f): 8:25pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Wow! I love this judging from my childhood behaviour, i think the writer is very right at least 80% if not 100%. My Mum must see this. |
Re: VERY IMPORTANT! All Parents, Carers, Older Siblins,Baby Mamas/Papas Step In Here by DFemaleBoss(f): 8:28pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Nice |
Re: VERY IMPORTANT! All Parents, Carers, Older Siblins,Baby Mamas/Papas Step In Here by neocortex: 12:42pm On Nov 09, 2015 |
Nice article. Positive parenting is far better than fear and shame based ones. lalasticlala, Get parents informed. |
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