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Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by malaika(f): 8:25am On May 10, 2009 |
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Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by spikedcylinder: 8:48am On May 10, 2009 |
Unless they carry her bound and gagged to an operating room, I'd suggest your friend chooses a delivery method BEST FOR HER. Bleeding hell, she's not a robot for MIL or husband to manipulate as they please. |
Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by Nobody: 10:22am On May 10, 2009 |
The husband is a selfish idiot. Did he marry for his mother or for himself and his wife? Men like that are better lost than found. |
Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by ifyalways(f): 12:08pm On May 10, 2009 |
Never knew men so selfish,heartless and stone cold like this still exists |
Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by touchmeder: 1:44pm On May 10, 2009 |
Is this a joke or what? |
Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by prittigrrr(f): 2:13pm On May 10, 2009 |
Even tough a c-section is fairly "routine", it is still very serious. The baby should be allowed to come when God dictates, not when hubby and mother in law choose. This is so inconsiderate. |
Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by Secretz(f): 3:47pm On May 10, 2009 |
prittigrrr: Absolutely!!! If it's God's choice that the mother in law will see the child, then so be it! If it's his choice that she will not, then so be it! Can you just imagine that this was to go ahead and something (God Forbid) awful was to happen to the child?? Please advise your friend to ignore them, simple! And let them and her know 'God's time is the best time'. Arrant nonsense, unless they are going to strap her down, then there is nothing they can do. Her health and baby's health is at most paramount! Unless her husband wants to lose all 3? |
Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by Nobody: 11:36pm On May 10, 2009 |
Doesn't your friend have parents of her own? If she hasn't, cant someone give her moral support. Obviously her husband is distraught at losing his mum but encouraging his wife to pull out a kid when it's not time yet seems bizarre. |
Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by mohawkchic(f): 1:46am On May 11, 2009 |
~Oh Dear! ~The best you can do is Give moral support to your m8 . . . This suitation is enough stress to warrant early labour & no doubt she needs all the support she can get to go thro this sticky suiation. . . Its obvious the husband & MIL arent been considerate & are acting on their own selfish purposes with little or no regard for your m8's feelings! ~Good luck to her whatever decision she makes,i hope it doesnt ruin her Birth Experience! |
Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by tope5000: 1:47am On May 11, 2009 |
malaika: This had better be a joke o. . . . . . . pls tell me u r kidding? |
Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by Sissy3(f): 3:25am On May 11, 2009 |
hmmm . . really hard one. the woman is 36wks almost due with no complications. may i ask whether the doctors gave the MIL weeks, days etc to live? that her husband is so desperate like this that he doesn't seem to consider the well being of his wife and baby? this is surgery we are talking about here, and it always carries its risks. what if out of his desperation the baby is pulled out and something goes wrong? is he even thinking about that? I can definitely understand his feelings on wanting his mom to see his kid but then he also needs to consider his own wife's feelings too. what if the wife goes ahead with the surgery and minutes into it, the mom dies without seeing the baby? the husband needs to leave nature to take its course. if it is willed that the mom will see the baby she definitely will, the baby is already around the corner, 4 more wks isn't really that far. and if it is not willed that she sees the baby so be it. Also since there is no sign of complications as of yet, not all doctors will agree to perform the CS. If the pregnancy was at the 40wks mark or there was complications then it will be a go ahead. |
Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by Oxone(m): 5:08am On May 11, 2009 |
cant believe any sane person would ask his wife to go thru this the man is a selfish fool & should be castrated without anaesthetics if the MIL is that desperate to see the child, then am sure she can somehow hang on until the due date or kick the bucket for the peace of all concerned its not wise to undergo caesarian section until absolutely necessary |
Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by Akinagirl(f): 6:03am On May 11, 2009 |
How inconsiderate. Pulling a baby out before its time can be fatal to both mother and child. Gods time is the best time. |
Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by prittigrrr(f): 2:39pm On May 11, 2009 |
Even if the wife has the c-section, depending on the health of the MiL, the doctors may not allow a baby in her hospital room. The same applies for the baby. There may be unforseeen health issues with the baby that preclude the child from leaving the hospital. The husband has not thought these issues through. |
Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by zeya: 5:58pm On May 11, 2009 |
do not take desicion that will make your wife dislike you, just allow the birth of your baby to take its natural course |
Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by malaika(f): 6:53pm On May 11, 2009 |
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Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by sistawoman: 8:52pm On May 11, 2009 |
The stardard here in the US is delievery at anypoint 38 weeks and beyond. They will only induce labor as early as 38 weeks and only for a very good reason, MIL dieing is not one. If she does do it she can have VBAC's (Vaginal birth after c-section), if the cut is horazontal and not vertical. I had 4 vbac's. The recovery from a c-section is far more painful and far longer, thus the reason they give 8 wks perternity vs the normal 6 wks. Do they even allow the doctors to do that over there? |
Re: Her Husband Is Forcing Her To Have A Caesarian Section! by Outstrip(f): 6:08am On May 12, 2009 |
Has anyone sat her husband down and explained what a c-section is? It is surgery. It can kill. Just because it is done more now does not mean it is not a serious thing. This is not just about this baby. There is risk of blood clots, the mortality rate of babies and mothers double with c-sections and lets not forget higher risk of blood infections. They should be sure that they will be willing to live with any consequences. If anything happens to that child, his marriage will be over, the mother will be dead anyway and so could the baby. |
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