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well, you have to tell yourself that if she comes out plain to actually reject you, how are you going to feel? Cos its just her attitude you are noticing now.

I actually had a boyfriend whose mum was a total snub and that was the major reason that led to our breakup cos after so many attempts to greet the mom without replies, i stopped greeting her and eventually left her son for her. Well i wont advise you to go ahead but if your heart is in it and your boyfriend can talk to his mum, then you shouldnt have a problem.

thanks Joyce, i really appreciate that.

Still waiting for more response.

My ex-mother-in-law and I were at each others throats from day one. Our r/s was one that was hot and cold even during our dating years.

She never thought he would actually marry me but he did and she did everything in her power to make my life hell. He did not stand up to her, he did not put her in her place, she even cussed me out in public at the mall once. I just walked away and allowed her to scream by herself. My ex-h was there and was such a mommies boy that he did not say anything to her, her husband had to step in and tell her I was the bigger woman for walking away.

Anyway, this is how our r/s continued. Hot and cold, until i had enough and pulled her up one day. I told her she would never see her grands again if she did not show me respect. I told her I did not like her and she does not like me, I dont care, but she will respect me as her sons wife and mother to her grandkids or she would never see them again. From that day to this we respect each other but cant stand each other.

I would say, if he is the type that is a mamas boy then he will never stand up to her or defend you. But if he is not then he has to put his foot down now and demand his mother show you respect.

Just talk to him and ask that he at least get his mother to show you respect now before the marriage intentions are announced. That way you can decide if you can handle her or not, or should I say if your man can handle his mom or not.

How long have you been dating your boyfriend?

for 6mnths