I noticed a trend on facebook. Young girls expressing how much they won't take 'Shit' from their husbands. Expressing how they won't pet him or sweetly apologise to him when they are wrong.

See! If you're a young girl reading this. Let me advice you.
You see all this arrogance and rebellion towards the headship of a man in marriage? Its the devil's trick.
If you wrong your husband, It is due that you ask him for mercy.
See, if he 'Forms'
There's no option than to pet him, Do the things he like, Cook the food he loves..
You are not being a fool please.
In as much as you were wrong, You are obliged to do anything possible to appease him.

As a man do same to your wife when you offend her.
It must be mutual.
This little things keeps people together..

When I hear ladies say they're not gonna do all these things to appease their husbands, I just laugh.
This is marriage, Find a strategy to make it work. Learn to be sacrificial.
If you feel cold and relaxed to settle a conflict between you and your spouse, It'll keep propagating till it becomes unbearable.
Treat an issue while its bearable.

Also. This issue of men forming for their wives tho...
Sha, let's Say they want to feel wanted and they wanna see the depth of their spouse's remorse.
But I don't support much of it.
Because your spouse wronged you, doesn't mean you should 'form' forever. Don't take advantage of their mistakes and then become so impossible.

Back to the matter.
Lady, you are reading this..
I'm not a chauvinist or profeminist.
But believe me, You must acknowledge a man's headship in marriage.
I'm not in any way in support of abusing women, But a man was made the leader in marriage.

Any lady that goes about on social media shouting and threatening the headship of men in marriage, that lady hardly gets married.
Even if she does, She'll not last in marriage.

These people that call themselves 'Feminist'. Watch their lives, Most of them are unmarried or divorced.
Only few of them understands that feminism isn't about rebelliousness towards the leadership of a man in marriage.
Most feminist are just stranded and if you run to them for advice in your marriage, they'll help you tear it down.

This radical feminism is sweet on Facebook, its easy to say it, Trying it in your marriage will finish your marriage.
I dey tells you wetin I sabi

A man was made the leader in marriage. That doesn't make a woman insignificant.

IamSARANG.

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all this story you are writing and your point is ?

did you notice nobody is commenting,lemme help your ministry by bringing my pple,i can see you are new here.....mister goodytwoshoes


punkyveer....help me out

What a joke, Op you're the confused one, going back and forth on issues you know nothing about

There was just one statement, LAUGH , caught my fancy.


So, Yes! Just laugh all them gossips off. . . Girls are nothing but a bunch of Ginebra!

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misspicy:
all this story you are writing and your point is ?

did you notice nobody is commenting,lemme help your ministry by bringing my pple,i can see you are new here.....mister goodytwoshoes


punkyveer....help me out

Yea im new..

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Some are here already....