Mindfulness:

Two years. And like I said, there are multiple factors involved. I explained WHY people from lower social classes divorce more frequently and why their children are affected more negatively. The are several factors involved which affect children more negatively than divorce itself.

Please spare me British tabloids, you don't think I take such sources seriously, do you?

coogar:


21st century polyandry!!!

what about the long term effect on the children of divorce? people hardly talk about this but these kids make up the majority of the inmates locked down in penitentiaries.

so i looked further to see what it's like in a different clime like nigeria and this was what i found......

Setaje:



Serial divorces isn't good. It just shows the person divorcing is weak as an individual. Divorcing once is enough to make u learn from the mistake. Secondly, she must have lied to save face. I expect her to come up wiv a sad story of a bad parental upbringing or bad experience while growing up just so people can pity her. As it is now, everybody seems to think she has a problem

coogar:


this isn't about social classes....
you seem to be tying yourself in a knot. the issue is if children of divorce fare better than children staying with both parents.

in a nutshell, if two different families are in the lower social class. the kids in the divorced family would fare considerably worse than the kids whose parents are staying together.

so the messenger should be shot, the message is not important? the british tabloids did not carry out the research, they only reported the research.

if you are confused about the statistics in britain, how about this one?

like i told you, stop reaching.....
there's nowhere on this planet where children of divorce are not the reasons there's a breakdown in the society. for every one of them that turned out good, there are several hundreds of them that are spending long years in a correctional facility!

Timbuktou:


I recently heard about this and, frankly, I don't understand the rationle behind it. Does abuse suddenly make one a model/worthy citizen or is there some inherent latent value in a person that slaps and punches awaken that these government are awake of?

pickabeau1:
So is Halle Berry not the angel as purported by people but a real harridanish drama queen

Opinions?

Meet the bigamist woman who has had five husbands - including two at the SAME TIME... and now she's on a dating site looking for number SIX
Ken Cherry married Susan Bozich nine years ago ;The two filed for divorce last year, and that's when Cherry realized his wife never divorced from her last husband.
A judge ended their divorce proceedings by voiding the marriage
He says local police have refused to charge his now ex-wife with bigamy and that she refused to leave the home he owns
Bozich has allegedly already set up a profile on a free dating site, listing herself as 'single'
By ASHLEY COLLMAN FOR DAILYMAIL.COM
PUBLISHED: 06:40, 4 February 2015 | UPDATED: 13:02, 4 February 2015


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2939047/Woman-married-five-times-accused-bigamy-latest-husband-says-just-

Kimoni:
Edwife!!!!!!!! Stop it

I was just going to talk about Elizabeth Taylor what are you doing here by the way? Is the match over

edwife:


We are winning,still cheering my boys!

pickabeau1:
So is Halle Berry not the angel as purported by people but a real harridanish drama queen

Opinions?

edwife:


Halle still a learner,what about Elizabeth Taylor who married 7 husbands?She was actually married 8 times,she married one husband twice.

Check this out:
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Nothing happened to this woman,the local police have refused to arrest his ex-wife for bigamy based on the fact that there is a statue of limitations of only one year for bigamy and his marriage was nine years ago.
However, such cases have been prosecuted in the area before, based on the time the bigamy was discovered. In this case, it was just a few months ago.His ex-wife continues to live in their former home, even though he is the owner and his name is on the title.

Ewuro4:


Well for one, the babe's got very high standard and expectations. She started her career way at the top , it got into her head and affected her love life ,pronto. She couldn't withstand any flaw from men and judged all mistakes for abuse or being taken advantaged.

I don't blame her, experience they say is the best teacher as per her childhood experience (which can make or mar) ... Her mother literally asked Eric to summon himself into a sex rehab when Haley accused him of cheating. And according to him, he cheated on her when they were already separated & was never a sex addict . Eric's music career nosedived after that dumb move he made(rehab).... Haley eventually dumped his azz issuing that press conference-ish statement.

I nursed a silly thought that she had a BD. who knows , being in a public eye ain't no joke.

Stopped following her story after Eric's drama and only focused on her achievements as an INDEPENDENT SUCCESSFUL BLACK WOMAN. That's my forte.

So to your Q, a saint? hell no . but she ain't stupid.

pickabeau1:




Cool

But why make her exes look bad so she looks clean when she is also paranoid

armyofone:
@ Ewuro4
You are right, she has very high standard. Who wouldn't when you are beautiful and rich....ain't gonna take less from any son of Adam. I really don't know what Martinez did...the attacking of someone at the airport? There maybe more to what went wrong. I hope she finds a good bed mate and confidant not husband. Not necessary anymore .

Ewuro4:


Simple really: She's the greatest HB of all time, she's publicly loved and believable. She will get away with almost everything because she can. Need I say more?

TV01:

Rational It's feminist driven policy - not sure the two words belong in the same sentence. Apologies, I am simply not progressive enough to make sense of this. Best call on one of our resident Feminist ideologues.


TV

Timbuktou:
Don't known man, it's just crazy. Is it parliament that enacts these laws or do they just delegate femcentric laws to some feminist NGO to take the piss.

cococandy, timbuktou, ewuro4, armyofone - let me get this right, your take is that the problem here is poor mate selection and high standards

Timbuktou:

Don't known man, it's just crazy. Is it parliament that enacts these laws or do they just delegate femcentric laws to some feminist NGO to take the piss.

TV01:

1. It'as not crazy if you are a nutter - especially a feminist one !

2. There are now mutterings of ending jail time for women - the rational being that only men are inherently violent . I guess they conveniently forgot the DV stats for gay dyke lesbians .

3. It will either get to a tipping point, at which stage there will be a backlash, or it will lead to the ruination of the West as we know it. Perhaps some combination of the two? Whatever happens, it will do a lot of damage and be a long, hard road to recovery...if!

4. IS will be happy to fill the gap - it may be so bad, some may even find them preferable. I know who my money would be on in a face-off between them and the radical progressve liberals of which feminism & faggotism are mainstays.


5. let me get this right, your take is that the problem here is poor mate selection and high standards



TV

coogar:


it's a compensational ideology.....

the idea is men have ruled for thousands of years & it's only fair for the women to be given excessive rights so as to compensate for what has happened in the past.

look at the black people for instance. the 400 years of slavery & racism is being compensated for in a way. black people can use the n-word or any racial slur as they please, the white folks cannot.

another example is the gay folks....
faggòts now have all the rights. sometimes they even verbally discriminate against straight folks. if you as a straight guy mistakenly say anything discriminatory towards them, you would be jailed.

TV01:

It'as not crazy if you are a nutter - especially a feminist one !

There are now mutterings of ending jail time for women - the rational being that only men are inherently violent . I guess they conveniently forgot the DV stats for gay dyke lesbians .

It will either get to a tipping point, at which stage there will be a backlash, or it will lead to the ruination of the West as we know it. Perhaps some combination of the two? Whatever happens, it will do a lot of damage and be a long, hard road to recovery...if!

IS will be happy to fill the gap - it may be so bad, some may even find them preferable. I know who my money would be on in a face-off between them and the radical progressve liberals of which feminism & faggotism are mainstays.


^{cococandy, timbuktou, ewuro4, armyofone - let me get this right, your take is that the problem here is poor mate selection and high standards}


TV

coogar:
1. Half of all American children will witness the breakup of a parent’s marriage. Of these, close to half will also see the breakup of a parent’s second marriage.” (Furstenberg, Peterson, Nord, and Zill, “Life Course”)

2. Among the millions of children who have seen their parents divorce, one of every 10 will also live through three or more parental marriage breakups. (The Abolition of Marriage, Gallagher)

3. 40% of children growing up in America today are being raised without their fathers. (Wade, Horn and Busy, “Fathers, Marriage and Welfare Reform” Hudson Institute Executive Briefing, 1997)

4. Of all children born to married parents this year, 50% will experience the divorce of their parents before they reach their 18th birthday. (Fagan, Fitzgerald, Rector, “The Effects of Divorce On America)


5. Studies in the early 1980’s showed that children in repeat divorces earned lower grades and their peers rated them as less pleasant to be around. (Andrew J. Cherlin, Marriage, Divorce, Remarriage –Harvard University Press 1981)

6. Teenagers in single-parent families and in blended families are 3 times more likely to need psychological help within a given year. (Peter Hill “Recent Advances in Selected Aspects of Adolescent Development” Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry 1993)

7. Compared to children from homes disrupted by death, children from divorced homes have more psychological problems.(Robert E. Emery, Marriage, Divorce and Children’s Adjustment” Sage Publications, 1988)

8. Following divorce, children are 50% more likely to develop health problems than two parent families. (Angel, Worobey, “Single Motherhood and Children’s Health”)

9. Children living with both biological parents are 20 to 35% more physically healthy than children from broken homes. (Dawson, “Family Structure and Children’s Health and Well-being” Journal of Marriage and the Family)

10. Most victims of child molestation come from single-parent households or are the children of drug ring members. (Los Angles Times 16 September 1985 The Garbage Generation)

11. A child in a female-headed home is 10 times more likely to be beaten or murdered. (The Legal Beagle, July 1984, from “The Garbage Generation”)

12. A study of children 6 years after a parental marriage breakup revealed that even after all that time, these children tended to be “lonely, unhappy, anxious and insecure. (Wallerstein “The Long-Term Effects of Divorce on Children” Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry 1991)

13. 70% of long-term prison inmates grew up in broken homes. (Horn, Bush, “Fathers, Marriage and Welfare Reform)

14. Children of divorce are 4 times more likely to report problems with peers and friends than children whose parents have kept their marriages intact. (Tysse, Burnett, “Moral Dilemmas of Early Adolescents of Divorced and Intact Families. Journal of Early Adolescence 1993)

15. Children of divorce, particularly boys, tend to be more aggressive toward others than those children whose parents did not divorce. (Emery, “Marriage, Divorce and Children’s Adjustment, 1988)

16. People who come from broken homes are almost twice as likely to attempt suicide than those who do not come from broken homes. (Velez-Cohen, “Suicidal Behavior and Ideation in a Community Sample of Children” Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry 1988)

17.Children of divorced parents are roughly 2 times more likely to drop out of high school than their peers who benefit from living with parents who did not divorce. (McLanahan, Sandefur, “Growing Up With a Single Parent: What Hurts, What Helps” Harvard University Press 1994)
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mindfulness, you need to go & lie down. these are various researches & i made sure i sourced out the ones with references so you can go and read them in your leisure.

everything you are trying to paint fell flat on its face when one research actually claimed the death of a parent is less devastating to a child than divorce.

checkmate!

pickabeau1:
So is Halle Berry not the angel as purported by people but a real harridanish drama queen

Opinions?

cc: stillfire -you refer to her a lot
cougar
Timbuktou
s_ kimono
edwife
Ewuro4

Stillfire:


Refer to Halle a lot? When, how, in what way? Scratching my head...

Timbuktou:



Crazy way to institute equality if you ask me. But what do I know, I'm just a bush caveman spear-wielding misogynist from the heart of Africa.


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pickabeau1:

Maybe its not you
Someone does that a lot here to show abuse can happen to even the primadonnaz

Stillfire:


Definitely not me. I even did a quick search and nothing links me to Halle except this thread and a reference from coogar.

cococandy:
Which kind high standard?
Where did you read that one?

cococandy:
More like some sort of emotional imbalance and yes poor mate selection.

Mindfulness:


Nothing in this post disproves that children in dysfunctional families show behavioral problems before the divorce takes place and that to many children divorce is a relief as they show improved behavior after divorce.