Most women have an innate insecurity mechanism. We worry about one thing or another like cellulite, wrinkles, stretch marks or our weight for example.

For many women the thought of flirting with men to initiate contact is worse than giving a speech to an audience of 1000 people. Why? Because we doubt ourselves. We convince ourselves from the outset that a guy won't be attracted to us. This can be the case even if we receive lots of evidence contrary to our self-opinion, like men looking at us, paying us compliments and pursuing us. Our perception of ourselves will always be the opinion that we listen to.
They say you should always face your fears. So I am going to lay down 3 challenges for you to take up. Add them to your bucket list, phone a friend for moral support or do them with a friend but you must complete all of the challenges within a month of reading this article. Think of me as your personal coach. We all need a coach to motivate us, to push us outside of our comfort zone so we realize our potential. Like my yoga instructor says, quoted from the creator of Bikram Yoga - Bikram himself, "You have much more under the hood than you realize." You can do these tasks easily.
Challenge Number 1

Write your name and number on a piece of paper and walk up to 3 different men over separate days that you see while out and about and like the look of, hand them this note and walk away. You don't need to say anything to them. This is called flirting in the 21st Century. Men are often too scared to approach us and immune to our subtle flirts. This method removes all confusion by telling them that you are feeling it loud and clear. Who cares if they are taken or doesn't call. Obviously, don't approach a man if he is with a woman. You have nothing invested in this, you didn't even strike up a conversation with them - so don't think of a no call as rejection because it really isn't!

Challenge Number 2
Walk up to man that you are attracted to, he could be in a bar or club or on the street and kiss him on the lips. I don't mean a peck either. I'm talking tongue action. I suggest you ask him first, but this will increase your confidence immensely and build you up for challenge number 3.

Challenge Number 3
Your last challenge is to go out clubbing or bar hopping and ask 100 men on the same night if they will give you their number. I recommend you do this challenge with someone else. You will get numbers and you don't need to do anything with them, although you can if you like. The last rule is you can't hone in on any of these men until you have asked 100 men for their number. After that you are free to zone in on the one or ones that you liked. This rule will not only help you to finish the challenge but it will increase men's perception of value in you because you are making them wait for your attention.
All of these challenges are designed to improve your confidence so that you can get a relationship you want with a man that you want. I don't recommend you employ challenge number 3 as an ongoing dating strategy because men should be the ones asking for your number. You can give them yours but they should do the calling and pursuing because men want to hunt women and find that role more natural than taking on that role than the persona of the one being pursued.

CONTINUE READING............
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Lmao... Let's turn the tables around for the shy dudes and let's focus on d result of task number two


I bet ur guess is as good as mine

Jesus are u the teaching ladies hw to be professional prostitut.es or what

Any lady who try any of dis wit me, i swear she'll receive a dirty slap.
Such cheapness

How to be a professional prostitute

Girls that are shy should just get laid because most girls lose their shyness upon penetration.

Sex solicitor general

If u kiss me in public I will emmbarass you

op I can see (m) jst after ur name,y r u den personalising dis issue "we","us"

Lolz. No be for Naija here oh. Our babes will rather die than initiate conversation with a guy. No wonder old single ladies dey full crusades dis days, praying for God to do the undoable

Durenttt:
Jesus are u the teaching ladies hw to be professional prostitut.es or what

Any lady who try any of dis wit me, i swear she'll receive a dirty slap.
Such cheapness

Missmary
08134628545

Orisi risi Nonsense.

the average naija girl will rather have her nípples crushed with a blunt object than initiate a conversation with a guy.

missmary:

Missmary 08134628545

*slaps her*

Durenttt:
*slaps her*

you slap me.. You slap me... *slaps back* *picks slipper and runs away*

missmary:


you slap me.. You slap me... *slaps back* *picks slipper and runs away*

Runnin to where oya collect dis one befor u run

falconey:
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This is not for Naija girls lol,they might want to try this but people go call dem Ashi