This is a girl i love so much, helped her to secure a little job, always giving her something whenever she comes around, recharge her phone with credits, do the best I can to show how much I love her. I noticed the picture of a guy on her phone screen and I try to ignore it, i felt something is wrong somewhere, so attimes whenever she is making one of her randy calls, I looks at her suspiciously, and she will say what is it. To cut the story short, a day came she said she want to tell me something,and then she said she has someone else, someone of her tribe and the person his from her tribe unlike me and she CANNOT leave the person. I felt hurt, not because she has someone but because she said she can never leave the other person, and since then i cut my Communication with her.. The last time I saw her I felt pity for her, she wasn't looking good at all, she cried to me why I stop calling her, i remember sending her a greeting on whatsapp which she didn't reply so I use that to defend myself and she said she would have replied but she didn't have data or credit, I just shook my head, I have feelings for her, I felt like going on with her but I just can't share her with anyone else, and this left me thinking.. Your advice.

You are confused... leave her, there are many ladies out there... Don't get emotionally hurt

Welcome to the Friendzone bro

Go and look for your own, leave her alone let her 'someone else' take care of her

meimoks:
Go and look for your own, leave her alone let her 'someone else' take care of her

thanks, kind of crazy how one love someone that love someone else

you let her be na, is it too hard for you?

That girl is a gud girl..she say she has someone else,if it is anoda girl she wont mind dating 6 guys..

i heard 4 every guy there ar ten ladies. Dat -1.unto d nxt one.

So many beautiful, hard working single ladies looking for a guy like you outside and you are here killing yourself. By the time you woo one to four girls, you will see the one that love you.

I believe that at least 80 ‰ of girls can be gotten if you lay down your trap right..

Op, if a lady has invested in a guy by having sex with him, given him her time, used her money on him etc you can hardly get her but if not, she is yours for the taking.That's if the relationship is up to 2 years.

Besides most girl use the hard to get line of, I have a boyfriend stuff. She will use her emotions to justify why she cheated on him..

In the 48 laws of power, law 16 it states that you should use absence to create respect and honor.

You too play hard to get on her. When she calls don't pick, call after 3 days and tell her you were busy. If she sends you a message on whatsapp, read it and reply after 30 minutes. Don't compliment her you are not her ego booster. Act as if you no longer care but do it with maturity..

She will chase you thereafter.

Ooh Lord see suffering all in the name of love

E be like say OP no get orientation at all.
So she received your msg on whatsapp but couldn't reply due to lack of airtime/data?.
Question is, how did she then receive the msg without airtime/data?.
Use ur head bro, move on.

Leave that mami alone.....
Look for another one...

Why do we like bringing trouble to ourselves..

Showty just told u she has a bf and ur sad and shiiit cos she can't leave him?
Mtchewwwwwwwwwww

All these kind guys mehn

It happens. The best you can do for her as well as yourself is to "let go". Help her if you can but if you can't; "free her". Let's learn to sometimes give without expecting anything in return.

Move on dude. You will do yourself a lot of good if you define what you want at the outset of any relationship.

I still don't see reason why guys do try to adopt series of manipulative techniques on ladies~ Let love find it's course na

Maga don paid, assume na man u no go fit help am secure job ooo, c wetin woman dey cause. Guy leave dt leave babe, go luk 4 anoda one perhap no b only girl wey dey dis world

free the girl... babes are very surplus

OP is a classic definition of a SISSY

PiperAlpha:
OP is a classic definition of a SISSY

mind your words, don't just judge. I rarely go after ladies and if I do I channel my love and emotions towards it. I am not a SISSY.

Daninya11:
I believe that at least 80 ‰ of girls can be gotten if you lay down your trap right..

Op, if a lady has invested in a guy by having sex with him, given him her time, used her money on him etc you can hardly get her but if not, she is yours for the taking.That's if the relationship is up to 2 years.

Besides most girl use the hard to get line of, I have a boyfriend stuff. She will use her emotions to justify why she cheated on him..

In the 48 laws of power, law 16 it states that you should use absence to create respect and honor.

You too play hard to get on her. When she calls don't pick, call after 3 days and tell her you were busy. If she sends you a message on whatsapp, read it and reply after 30 minutes. Don't compliment her you are not her ego booster. Act as if you no longer care but do it with maturity..

She will chase you thereafter.

thanks for your advice bro