5minsmadness:


Shndy follow the two advices above except for the striken out part (sorry kimoni). He DOES NOT want to hear anything concerning the baby or your pregnancy now. Mentioning it to make him feel guilty or whatever will backfire very very badly.
Take this from a man's perspective pls. Thanks.

OK sir, thank u

shndy:
Hmm, thanks so much for all the contributions. Cancerlib, bless u for sharing ur experience, a live one will sure help her.
Kimoni, onegai, my peeps from Newborn Thread bless u

Bless you babes

prettysassygirl:

Get lost nigga ,you lack creativity, u jes dishing out local and stale yabs,go find sumtin berra

This exactly why your parents should have sold you to buy suya,you are completely worthless and now you have added smelling to your long list of evils.

DonTim1:
Wherever 2 women or more are gethered, evil lurks and awaits its unleashing

not kul to say dat

She got pregnant and he's cheating,all are betrayals. I find it hard to believe that he even requested for an abortion. She failed in their agreement but his reactions are unbelievable. I pray God remember ttcers,families that really need these babies. People who got things on a platter of gold most times place no value.

EfemenaXY:


You know, they say hindsight is a beautiful thing.

If I'd known what I know now, I would have waited maybe two or three years after marriage before having kids. What really was the rush? Even away from the Nigerian society, the mentality still sits with you. Gosh, I always wanted to travel to the North pole. Visit the Ice Hotel and the Sahara.

Oh Efe see your lofty dreams Ice Hotel huh? Now you would be lucky to even have a decent weekend get away without feeling guilty. Those times when you want to go chill with a good book and no noise are gone for a loong time. No probs dear, you can catch up when they all grow and leave home but am told its not so much fun then.

Amhappy:
She got pregnant and he's cheating,all are betrayals. I find it hard to believe that he even requested for an abortion. She failed in their agreement but his reactions are unbelievable. I pray God remember ttcers,families that really need these babies. People who got things on a platter of gold most times place no value.

I so much like your post.

The woman is wrong for the betrayal,
but the man is worse.

Very selfish man,why did he not use birth control?
Dose the man know the impact the abortion or birth control will have on the wife.

In future, he will be the one saying my wife has been trying to conceive and so on.

Even using his wife's pregnancy as an excuse to cheat
I blame the woman,she knows the kind of man she got married to.

smartmom:


Oh Efe see your lofty dreams Ice Hotel huh? Now you would be lucky to even have a decent weekend get away without feeling guilty. Those times when you want to go chill with a good book and no noise are gone for a loong time. No probs dear, you can catch up when they all grow and leave home but am told its not so much fun then.

Lol! Tell me about it, my sister. True talk. (sigh).

As per the stricken bit, I reject that one oh! It MUST be enjoyable with or without the kids by-fire-by-force