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Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by LordOfTheWeed: 10:25am On Nov 10, 2015 |
Frustration: a knotty situation but a reality to be experienced. We are in a society where we are being driven by a neurotic speed and force accelerated by greed and frustration of deviating from the image which we initially created for ourselves because at times, the image has no reflection of us in reality - Yoko Ono.. .. .. Frustration, at times painful but always yields a very positive and essential part of our success, but that still doesn't change the fact that an atom of the reactant (frustration) won't be present in the outcome.. .. .. No matter how satisfied one is on earth, he must surely cross the path of frustration coz it has been necessitated by the Creator that all living creatures must undergo series of frustrations right from their beginning till they eventually die. A classic example can be seen in the life of young children, they strive so hard to take their first step just to become mobile, and after that, they also strive for years before they master a language that would allow them to express themselves clearly and freely, but before that happens, all they do is cry and depend on a loving parent who would be able to interpret their frustrations which might be hunger, pain or any sort of uncomfortable feeling in a way that would relieve them.. .. .. Even at adult stage, frustration is still inevitable, i can boldly say that 85% of the individuals of this nation are currently in position where frustrations led them to, and not a place where they initially wished to be. Our society is a typical example to that; a student who had completed his SSCE was about to further his education in the higher institution, he initially wished to study mechanical engineering but after the whole UTME and POST UTME, he was unfortunate to be given metallurgical engineering, then he was left in a dilemma where he was to choose between accepting the course that was given to him or decline it and may never have that kind of opportunity again. The whole scenario and frustrations derailed his life and he later ended up being a police officer. A writer once said that; "The same frustration which leads a thief into stealing is the same frustration that leads a policeman into a police job. That's why you should always at least try to be nice to them whenever they ask for weekdays/weekends pocket money coz a thief is entitled to a gun likewise a policeman, but the policeman chose to set positive possibilities with his own frustration and the pocket money he is always asking for is the atom of frustration in his success as aforesaid in the 3rd paragraph.. .. .. Unfortunately, the whole challenges isn't our fault, but our brain and central nervous system requires much frustration and constant pressure to develop, grow and maintain dexterity. A good question to ask ourselves is: HOW DO WE DEAL WITH OUR FRUSTRATIONS? Do we see it as a challenge to greater places? Do we see it as an opportunity to blame someone else? Do we just sit and cry and wait for someone to help us deal with it? These are the questions that should always pop up whenever we find ourselves in frustrating moments.. .. .. It's high time we learnt how to differentiate between our failure and frustration, failure is not the problem, but frustration certainly is. A failure that follows frustration will close the door of our mind but if we are able to ignore the failure and seek another opportunity, our situations won't be that of total failure. All we have to do is redirect the substantial energy of our frustration into something productive and turn it into positive, effective, and unstoppable determination that would help us set positive possibilities.. .. .. Originally written by LordOfTheWeed cc: Lalasticlala, Dominique, Kingtom Courtesy: Awon werey 100% 49 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by KingTom(m): 10:40am On Nov 10, 2015 |
Brilliant and well written article. I was frustrated when I couldn't study engineering I was rejected. I got Medicine instead, I did exactly what you wrote, I channeled my frustration into something productive and positive, but I for like dey love-vendor my car engine o 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by LordOfTheWeed: 10:44am On Nov 10, 2015 |
KingTom:I know you'll always have story to tell 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by LordOfTheWeed: 10:48am On Nov 10, 2015 |
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Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by Nobody: 10:54am On Nov 10, 2015 |
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Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by darkskingoddess(f): 12:09pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
STFUareyouGod: And what would that field be? Out of curiosity.. |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by Nobody: 12:15pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
darkskingoddess:Lol. It's an MBA programme/course. Not sciences 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by Joygalore(f): 12:44pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Wow!!! This is fantastic and FP worthy. Everyone has been fustrated in one way or the other but what matters most is how you brace yourself up and know its part of your success story. I was fustrated at one point of time in my life because I wanted to study medicine by all means.I have had my share of tears.Straight to the point,I never gave up anyway and today I am doing my internship. Never would have made it if it wasn't for His grace. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by Nobody: 1:35pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
KingTom: Hmmm now my doubts have been cleared... I see why you sound so much like a mechanic 1 Like |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by Twaci(f): 2:39pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Ok why isn't this on FP? Lalasticlala it's not every time we want to read about how so and so revealed her cleavage and what not....every youth out there should be given a chance to read this amazing writeup. **** Back to the topic..... It's high time we learnt how to differentiate between our failure and frustration, failure is not the problem, but frustration certainly is. A failure that follows frustration will close the door of our mind but if we are able to ignore the failure and seek another opportunity, our situations won't be that of total failure. All we have to do is redirect the substantial energy of our frustration into something productive and turn it into positive, effective, and unstoppable determination that would help us set positive possibilities.... No better way to deal with a nagging frustration than this....i have been there... 7 Likes |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by RAKITIC: 2:45pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Nice write-up |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by LordOfTheWeed: 3:05pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Twaci:Mzz twa twa, thanks ma'am 1 Like |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by lekjons(m): 3:11pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
MadCow1:exactly! reminds me of some things i don't like to remember.. 2 Likes |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by TrollTrap: 3:11pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Nicely put sir I guess weed does open the mind more 2 Likes |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by MadCow1: 3:11pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
This thread is very Frustrating. 8 Likes |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by MrHighSea: 3:12pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Bookmarked. |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by costandi(m): 3:12pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Frustration does not survive with ZOE 1 Like |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by bobcharly(m): 3:12pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
I dey cum |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by tolexy007(m): 3:13pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by tolexy007(m): 3:13pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
LordOfTheWeed: |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by Warlord3000(m): 3:14pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Nice piece From a weird moniker One probably tagged to be high on.. (you know na ) |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by kennyman2000(m): 3:14pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Nice one OP, dearpreye, your input is needed here. Always looking forward to read from that brilliant brain of yours. Come brighten a bro's day with your wise words. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by PLANETMARS(m): 3:14pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
My fellow weyrey I salute thee .....sometimes weed can speak sense proudly werey 100% 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by Emmzalon: 3:14pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
When will children become the Leaders of tomorrow |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by Moneyyy: 3:14pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
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Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by MrPresident1: 3:15pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Interesting |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by Jimmyo3(m): 3:15pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
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Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by armadeo(m): 3:15pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Frustration is worse than failure. Success only follows repeated failures and attempts. Ask any successful person. It is important to accept failure as a springboard and not become frustrated because only frustration is worse than failure. No matter how dark the night is the Sun MUST rise. It has no choice. See you all at the top. 3 Likes |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by Nobody: 3:15pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
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Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by Ayoswit(f): 3:15pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
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Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by CaroLyner(f): 3:15pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
simply knowing your triggers(what causes the frustration) can often help control when you’re presented with one. For example, keep your phone on silent when you need to work without disruption or get up and take a break from a difficult work or school assignment if you can feel it building toward an outbreak of frustration. If you simply cannot avoid the trigger, try your best to realize that triggers are themselves thought patterns that you can choose to allow or not despite how hard it is to change them. Once triggered, take time to think rather than reacting impulsively. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Article: The Frustration Of Life - Lordoftheweed by 4nobody4every1: 3:15pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
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