Demigods:



Plz meaning of awon werey

Lol.. .. .. you can't know coz you don't belong

sonofananimal:
because you have someone who is encouraging you.

The worse type of frustration is when you don't have anybody to encourage you or to give you a little bit of hope. That type of frustration can lead to suicide or even joining a group of frustrated people to damage the life of others living in a good life (example boko haram)

People join THEM because there are frustrated in life to the breaking point which the government are not trying at all. If you want to live a happy life, make sure your environment are also living a happy life

This message is for those who wanted to join the bokos!

Remember! SOMONE IS always there for you!

sonofananimal:
because you have someone who is encouraging you.

The worse type of frustration is when you don't have anybody to encourage you or to give you a little bit of hope. That type of frustration can lead to suicide or even joining a group of frustrated people to damage the life of others living in a good life (example boko haram)

People join THEM because there are frustrated in life to the breaking point which the government are not trying at all. If you want to live a happy life, make sure your environment are also living a happy life

This message is for those who wanted to join the bokos!

Remember! SOMONE IS always there for you!

bronzegoddess:
but u sound,look and comment like a garage boy. Hmmmmmm wonders shall never end

Kennedyiheme:
"because there ought to be" is the right reply to a question I asked after reading a good constructed write up? Anywa
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its hard to find intelligent people on nairaland nowadays. Imagine me asking someone if there is GOD and if he can prove it, he said "I don't know but there is GOD".

The same way you replied me. I'm not frustrated I'm living fine and okay. I'm not an athiest either I just love to ask questions and get response from intellectual people which you aren't

LordOfTheWeed:

Bro, calm down, no be fight.. .. .. You also know that the question you asked is irrelevant, you just wanna cause unnecessary argument.. .. ..
And also, this is my thread and i have the right to quote anybody! As a realist, that's the perfect answer i could give before you took it ballistic, if you ain't satisfied, you can ask your spiritual father since you said you ain't an atheist, i don't gain interest in the paranormals.. .. .. Cheers

Teempakguy:
i agree partially.

you see, most people don't know what frustration is or how to react to it. they see it as a bad thing, as a torture from nature. but in reality, frustration is a call to action. it means the subconsciousness is dissatisfied. that one can be more.
I'm usually the one encouraging myself. but then, i was enlightened. i am educated. unlike the boko boys. i know what to do with my emotions. they don't. And THAT is the problem.

Kennedyiheme:
I'm sorry I had no idea you were the one that opened the thread. Nice writeup though

No qualm bro, we good

Twaci:
Ok, Mr. Intellectual Know-it-all, just what is your problem?

Nairaland isn't a thinktank forum neither is it google. If you have problems with the individuals in this forum or how they reply, you might as well get out quietly....no one would notice, i promise you.

Wonder what development you have contributed to your environment (lets not start with your country) with your acclaimed "intellectuality".

Do not vent your frustration on the OP, he has done his part. Its left for you to read and understand, like an intellectual being should.

LordOfTheWeed:

Brilliant one!

Kennedyiheme:
okay cycopath, for starters I don't know you. Secondly The reason I asked the question is the same reason why there's "nairaland". People give different views and can comment on anything. After reading his writeup about frustration I wondered why people still live in hardship if there's a God. How does that bring about contributing to the society and nigeria? I only take quotes from girls seriously on when there's a topic in the romance section. Because 90percent of your spicies in this forum are epileptic in nature. Quote me again and receive insult of ur generation.

Twaci:
*Face palm*

Too bad Mr. Intellectual, i don't exchange words nor insults online, its a sign of immaturity. Rather i voice my displeasure when one does just so.

My point is clear, appreciate the OP's work and...thats all, not throw silly jabs at him.

I am done with you son.

KingTom:
Brilliant and well written article. I was frustrated when I couldn't study engineering I was rejected. I got Medicine instead, I did exactly what you wrote, I channeled my frustration into something productive and positive, but I for like dey love-vendor my car engine o

Karleb:
Whenever you are frustrated; calm down, lay low, re-strategize and get your asș back into the game.


Whatever you do, don't quit!

"Quitting was never part of the game, don't quit yet - you're almost getting there. " - Truckpusher.

LordOfTheWeed:

Lol.. .. .. you can't know coz you don't belong

Contumely:


That's a lie from hell for wisdom equally consists in knowing when to quit.

When Paul Allen and Gates dropped out, it was as if they had quit.

Even our Linda Ikeji had to quit from magazine publishing after like 5 publications.

You don't continue with seemingly inauspicious venture under the mantra of not quitting.

LordOfTheWeed:
Frustration: a knotty situation but a reality to be experienced. We are in a society where we are being driven by a neurotic speed and force accelerated by greed and frustration of deviating from the image which we initially created for ourselves because at times, the image has no reflection of us in reality - Yoko Ono.. .. ..

Frustration, at times painful but always yields a very positive and essential part of our success, but that still doesn't change the fact that an atom of the reactant (frustration) won't be present in the outcome.. .. ..

No matter how satisfied one is on earth, he must surely cross the path of frustration coz it has been necessitated by the Creator that all living creatures must undergo series of frustrations right from their beginning till they eventually die. A classic example can be seen in the life of young children, they strive so hard to take their first step just to become mobile, and after that, they also strive for years before they master a language that would allow them to express themselves clearly and freely, but before that happens, all they do is cry and depend on a loving parent who would be able to interpret their frustrations which might be hunger, pain or any sort of uncomfortable feeling in a way that would relieve them.. .. ..

Even at adult stage, frustration is still inevitable, i can boldly say that 85% of the individuals of this nation are currently in position where frustrations led them to, and not a place where they initially wished to be. Our society is a typical example to that; a student who had completed his SSCE was about to further his education in the higher institution, he initially wished to study mechanical engineering but after the whole UTME and POST UTME, he was unfortunate to be given metallurgical engineering, then he was left in a dilemma where he was to choose between accepting the course that was given to him or decline it and may never have that kind of opportunity again. The whole scenario and frustrations derailed his life and he later ended up being a police officer. A writer once said that; "The same frustration which leads a thief into stealing is the same frustration that leads a policeman into a police job. That's why you should always at least try to be nice to them whenever they ask for weekdays/weekends pocket money coz a thief is entitled to a gun likewise a policeman, but the policeman chose to set positive possibilities with his own frustration and the pocket money he is always asking for is the atom of frustration in his success as aforesaid in the 3rd paragraph.. .. ..

Unfortunately, the whole challenges isn't our fault, but our brain and central nervous system requires much frustration and constant pressure to develop, grow and maintain dexterity. A good question to ask ourselves is:

HOW DO WE DEAL WITH OUR FRUSTRATIONS?

Do we see it as a challenge to greater places? Do we see it as an opportunity to blame someone else? Do we just sit and cry and wait for someone to help us deal with it? These are the questions that should always pop up whenever we find ourselves in frustrating moments.. .. ..

It's high time we learnt how to differentiate between our failure and frustration, failure is not the problem, but frustration certainly is. A failure that follows frustration will close the door of our mind but if we are able to ignore the failure and seek another opportunity, our situations won't be that of total failure. All we have to do is redirect the substantial energy of our frustration into something productive and turn it into positive, effective, and unstoppable determination that would help us set positive possibilities.. .. ..

Originally written by LordOfTheWeed

cc: Lalasticlala, Dominique, Kingtom
Courtesy: Awon werey 100%

seunayeni:
beautiful post, learned alot, we should have more of this on FP

I'm honoured bro.. .. ..I really appreciate your commendation

KingTom:
Brilliant and well written article. I was frustrated when I couldn't study engineering I was rejected. I got Medicine instead, I did exactly what you wrote, I channeled my frustration into something productive and positive, but I for like dey love-vendor my car engine o

LordOfTheWeed:

I'm honoured bro.. .. ..I really appreciate your commendation

scentmarlc:



Ironic. Ur moniker na----------lipsealed.

Scentleaf

KingTom:
Brilliant and well written article. I was frustrated when I couldn't study engineering I was rejected. I got Medicine instead, I did exactly what you wrote, I channeled my frustration into something productive and positive, but I for like dey love-vendor my car engine o

Karleb:


After Allen, Gates, Zuckerberg and Seun dropped out of school did they just sit at home and do nothing hoping to Lord of heaven to grant them their wishes? (which is the correct definition of quitting)

Linda quited magazine publication, did she quit blogging?

Seun has a lot of websites whose general traffic are not up to the population of a street in my village but did he quit programming?

There is a need for re-strategization(if there's any word like that) or change in the area of concentration when one fails but quitting just makes one nothing but a loser, a sore one at that.

Demigods:



Plz meaning of awon werey

LordOfTheWeed:

I know you'll always have story to tell