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My Wife Finally Opens Up by satowind(m): 11:27am On Nov 11, 2015
Some days ago I created a topic on why people hide there salary from there spouse.

https://www.nairaland.com/2713974/why-people-keep-salaries-secret

I didn't even know my wife was that active on nairaland and she felt bad and apologized. She said she didn't know the salary issue bothered me this much and was a little bit angry I didn't tell her it bother me that much before taking it to the forum.

I didn't want the topic to hit front page but am glad it did cause it saved my marriage and she showed me every thing, her pay slips, her investment and her two bank account details and for the first time it seems as if I now know her. And we will soon be opening a joint account for family welfare. It just feels so right and is as if our marriage just began last night. At least now I have seen a future with her.


But o boy she rich oh and yet she is loyal at least that love or I think.



Thank you Seun and lalasticlala for saving my marriage.

Thank you all those that condemned the act and pls those that still hide, marriage is more fun when you share and communicate.

To those that gave a bad advice or said my wife is cheating ...thanks too

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by satowind(m): 11:28am On Nov 11, 2015
Pls seun and lalasticala I really want this one on front page.
Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by Donlino(m): 11:32am On Nov 11, 2015
Good for you...... NEXT!!

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by hob(m): 11:35am On Nov 11, 2015
Good 4 u @op

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by 48noble(m): 11:41am On Nov 11, 2015
When Amaechi said he has never taken bribe who would ve thought Orubebe was watching?

May ur words be true

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by SirLegal(m): 11:44am On Nov 11, 2015
Good for you.

Keep on enjoying your marital life.

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by SirLegal(m): 11:51am On Nov 11, 2015
HATERS & NAYSAYERS BE LIKE ....
kilode100:
That your wife must be a learner.
Just negodu this golddigger?

How much of your money will be going into that joint account Mr brokeassman??

Smh*

See his mtn gworo stained he is using to thank nairalanders.. If I marry you eh, I go reformat, reboot and reshuffle that your yamayama head.


This Aunty has given this one license to cheat on her recklessly.

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by shoksimba: 12:03pm On Nov 11, 2015
I sabi pple like u, Na una dey fall mugun pass for man. Na mouth u dey...wen u finally get married open a forum and tell us how bad and rudely you treat you husband...Nothing but ***badbelle***
kilode100:
That your wife must be a learner.
Just negodu this golddigger?

How much of your money will be going into that joint account Mr brokeassman??

Smh*

See his mtn gworo stained he is using to thank nairalanders.. If I marry you eh, I go reformat, reboot and reshuffle that your yamayama head.


This Aunty has given this one license to cheat on her recklessly.

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by Ginaz(f): 12:04pm On Nov 11, 2015
nice, kiss your wife for me.

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by shoksimba: 12:11pm On Nov 11, 2015
@op I found this, and if your wife submits...you're to submit to God too. Wish you the best bro

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by brainzdh(m): 2:05pm On Nov 11, 2015
This good testimony is as a result of sound contributions from intelligent NLs, not those that start comments by abusing the OP or the wife.

@OP, you're lucky to have a good wife; God bless your marriage.

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by cococandy(f): 2:19pm On Nov 11, 2015
When did you get married?

Congrats o.
Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by GodnGold: 4:44pm On Nov 11, 2015
I was touched by her reaction until ..."she rich ooo" and "is just like our marriage began last night" and "we are opening a joint account".
I may be wrong but ...
hmmmm!
To be content with what you know in marriage is fun enough!
#myhumbleopinion
Thank her for me!

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by JustOzito(f): 4:56pm On Nov 11, 2015
I will not show my husband anything concerning my money. I don't want to kno his so he shudnt bother abt knowing mine. I only want him to provide his own quota to the family I'l gladly support him. Anyways Her family, her business. My life my business.

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by tellwisdom: 5:24pm On Nov 11, 2015
Foolish Nigerian women. They don't have sense one bit....They are confused set of being who honestly don't know what they want. Dem go dey haul their money still dey chop ur own join till u go broke; come begin tell u, "are u not the man of the house " . Nzuzu angry

Na just 2% of them dey assist their husband. Why??

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by tivta(m): 8:00pm On Nov 11, 2015
JustOzito:
I will not show my husband anything concerning my money. I don't want to kno his so he shudnt bother abt knowing mine. I only want him to provide his own quota to the family I'l gladly support him. Anyways Her family, her business. My life my business.
marriage is not meant for you.

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by GHoJes: 8:05pm On Nov 11, 2015
Na now wey you wan shift your responsibility for wife nai marriage wan start.
Toh for your wife.

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by JustOzito(f): 9:09pm On Nov 11, 2015
tivta:
marriage is not meant for you.
U are noticed
Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by tivta(m): 9:23pm On Nov 11, 2015
JustOzito:
U are noticed
You have been advised...

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by DollyParton1(f): 11:48pm On Nov 11, 2015
satowind:
And we will soon be opening a joint account for family welfare. It just feels so right and is as if our marriage just began last night. At least now I have seen a future with her.
But o boy she rich oh and yet she is loyal at least that love or I think.
Aswear!!! Your seem like a gold digger.
Now that your wife is sharing the bills with you, I hope you are sharing the house chores with her too.

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by nnamdibig(m): 7:13am On Nov 12, 2015
JustOzito:
I will not show my husband anything concerning my money. I don't want to kno his so he shudnt bother abt knowing mine. I only want him to provide his own quota to the family I'l gladly support him. Anyways Her family, her business. My life my business.

You wan marry so?

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by thotianna: 7:31am On Nov 12, 2015
DollyParton1:

Aswear!!! Your seem like a gold digger.
Now that your wife is sharing the bills with you, I hope you are sharing the house chores with her too.

I was just about to say this.

OP's wife it sounds like your marriage is still young.
You see, the thing that makes women hide their money from husbands is because if they find out you have small money they will want you to spend it first and exhaust it before you ask them for theirs forgetting that it is their job to provide. Infact the more a woman has, the less willing the man is to provide anything for the family. So the woman ends up being both husband and wife, both provider and homemaker, hustler and childcarer, breadwinner and kitchen CEO.
Let me not draw wrong conclusions anyway.
@OP's wife: since you both are now operating a joint bank account and now jointly providing money for your needs, please ensure that you are also jointly running housechores and childcare and cooking.

I wish you happiness.

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by SURElee(f): 8:57am On Nov 12, 2015
God bless you, bless your wife, kids and everything/projects you embark upon. Show her my msg, am proud always of humble, loyal and supportive women as wives.

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by zed7: 9:30am On Nov 12, 2015
With all these replies you don't need to guess why frustrated singles ladies are raomaing the streets. There is so much bile and built up frustration that they attack any woman whom they perceive as loyal and dutiful to her man and home.

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by JustOzito(f): 9:36am On Nov 12, 2015
nnamdibig:

You wan marry so?
Y did u say so
Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by nnamdibig(m): 10:36am On Nov 12, 2015
JustOzito:
Y did u say so
There should be no secrets between couples

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Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by JustOzito(f): 1:16pm On Nov 12, 2015
nnamdibig:

There should be no secrets between couples
I didn't know, thnks
Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by miqos02(m): 1:47pm On Nov 12, 2015
ok
Re: My Wife Finally Opens Up by Gagged: 1:59pm On Nov 12, 2015
DollyParton1:

Aswear!!! Your seem like a gold digger.
Now that your wife is sharing the bills with you, I hope you are sharing the house chores with her too.

Picture of your big boobs or I don't believe you're DollyParton undecided

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