alterswerve:
OP, though i don't call girls much, I've never asked that stupid question before.

And in fact, i stopped asking them questions sef, since the day i asked how her day was and also if she was fine and she just said

Fine

And its an answer far below wah i wanted to hear.. I wanted to hear all the yiddi yadda

I think when girls reply with a boring response to a meaningful question, it makes guys come down to their boring level... Not me tho

Merlissa:


Lucky you!!!
They ask via whatapp, Bbm and when they call!!!!

It's just so

DeeTus:
You made me laugh.

Your question sounds a little controversial but it's cool.

The reason most guys ask is they try to be nice. But I would rather talk about something else like cooking skills with a woman and so on, than ask her what food did she eat.

Food talk is like sexual pre-intimacy to women.

Merlissa:
Good Morning,


Please guys why is it that out of all the questions in the world, why do you ask ladies 'What did you eat today?''

You don't ask how their day was


You don't ask if they are fine


You don't ask for their favourite colour!!!


Why food

captainking:
hahaha hahaha.... Olee

PunkyVeer:


Self-awareness is one heck of a skill to have. Not all women gets talked to/with like doorknobs. Conversation should vary. If her conversation skills were up to scratch, the man/men she speaks with, would in turn follow lead & up their game. She gets asked dumbass questions because they probably don't know what else to talk to her about since she never showed them that she's knowledgeable & capable of talking about anything else other than what she ate, cooked, etc. Not every woman finds food talk stimulating & not every woman gets talked to about food either, unless in passing. The common denominator here is her. Go figure!

Jolllyjoy:
Cant even remembered the last time a guy asked me that...

Only boring guys do that when they are blank or probably nervous.

Like what did you eatfine,have nt eaten,am hungry,.,...

What next


God will provide na since i don push u for tight corner.


NB:,guys if you knw u wouldnt be able to provide food for a gurl,dnt ask what she ate.,

PunkyVeer:
Maybe you're dull hence you get asked trite questions
. I don't see what the big deal is, just give an answer & steer the conversation to a more interesting direction. Simple. It's like you're just mute & waiting to be asked questions. Why don't YOU ask him "fun" questions if a fun conversation is what you want? Smh

Merlissa:
Good Morning,


Please guys why is it that out of all the questions in the world, why do you ask ladies 'What did you eat today?''

You don't ask how their day was


You don't ask if they are fine


You don't ask for their favourite colour!!!


Why food

SSpeter:
I perceive you are quite opinionated can you please educate the other females drifting with the wind that when you ask people if they have eaten you are not asking because you want to buy them food...You asking because on a normal work day when you are under pressure you tend to lose count of time nd then skip meals...it is always lovely to have someone who cares to put a reminder across. The guys also probe further to ensure you are taking the right classes of food.....Pls inform the ladies, when they are hungry they should buy food nd eat and not wish or hope that the next guy asking about their feeding habit/pattern is willing to dish out food.......just courtesy...

SSpeter:
The thing is people like you are boring. People like you don't have a mind of your own. You always want to copy the trend. I hope am not quoting a 16yr old. Let me assume am quoting a matured lady, did you know that people do have busy days nd they skip meals? From your perspective l can deduce this : You angry with the question because the guy after asking will not provide food.....lol......The main reason for " Have you eaten"? is to ensure you are not skipping meals and you did not forget to eat nd also to ensure that you are eating right.....babe if you dey find who go buy food for you well ...FYI....it is not a stupid or silly question. it is a question well groomed people ask not because them go buy you food.....if you don't like the question I guessed someone suggests you bring up exciting qstns yourself.....nd not wait for the guy to ask......Nonsense.....

Candyrain:


Is there a way to give you 1000 likes? You are so on point. Chatting with some girls can be so boring and annoying always waiting for the guy to do the talking. Some lack conversation skills. A guy asks question, the next is they give direct answer and they keep quiet waiting for the next question to be asked. Of course there's definitely going to be a time when the questions will run out. I'll say this bullshiit is common among Nigerian girls. I've had chats with few foreign ladies and I must say they know how to keep conversation alive. Only few Nigerian girl has this. When a question is asked these few know how to answer and keep the talk going. Some give just one word response and how do they expect there to be a conversation. I think OP is one of those girls who lack conversation skills. Merlissa, a guy asking what a girl ate isn't bad as you are trying to make it look. Here is Punkie, I've asked her that several times, she responded and the talk continues. It's just like every normal conversation.

Punkie I've recommend you teach some of these girls how to engage people in a conversation.

Morning.

DeeTus:
You made me laugh.

Your question sounds a little controversial but it's cool.

Obviously, the reason most guys ask is that they try to be nice. But I would rather talk about something else like cooking skills with a woman and so on, than ask her what food did she eat.

Food talk is like sexual foreplayy to women.

utenwuson:
wat else do u wanna hear? ur fav colour on a daily basis? I. ask. my bae if she is fine, how her day n wat she has eatn or cook! like favourite colour? for real?

PunkyVeer:


Hey stud muffin

I received your message but can't access my inbox at the moment due to a network glitch. Will reply later, ok?

Morê back

Candyrain:


I think this is exactly what it is. Matured ladies don't think like this.

Jolllyjoy:
Cant even remembered the last time a guy asked me that...

Only boring guys do that when they are blank or probably nervous.

Like what did you eatfine,have nt eaten,am hungry,.,...

What next


God will provide na since i don push u for tight corner.


NB:,guys if you knw u wouldnt be able to provide food for a gurl,dnt ask what she ate.,

Jolllyjoy:
Cant even remembered the last time a guy asked me that...

Only boring guys do that when they are blank or probably nervous.

Like what did you eatfine,have nt eaten,am hungry,.,...

What next


God will provide na since i don push u for tight corner.


NB:,guys if you knw u wouldnt be able to provide food for a gurl,dnt ask what she ate.,

Candyrain:


Oh I see.

Morê back what?

Punkie have you eaten and what did you eat?

PunkyVeer:
Maybe you're dull hence you get asked trite questions
. I don't see what the big deal is, just give an answer & steer the conversation to a more interesting direction. Simple. It's like you're just mute & waiting to be asked questions. Why don't YOU ask him "fun" questions if a fun conversation is what you want? Smh

SSpeter:
and how and why is it a silly question? You just wanna form a hard or macho dude......lollll.....lets be reasonable for a second pls

PunkyVeer:


It's odd because I find the "what did you eat" question endearing & cute. Guys here in my country don't ask such questions , so it's quite sweet when someone shows care that way.

I thought it was a strange question too at 1st, because like I said, it's never part of a conversation here. But now I've gotten used to it since I started talking to the likes of you. It's a sweet touch

Maxi112:
u sound like a hungry girl to me.... Is it true? u sound like a hungry girl to me.... Is it true?

Candyrain:


People like the OP don't see it this way. According to her, if you can't buy her food then you shouldn't ask if she's eaten. Really shallow I must say.

PunkyVeer:
Maybe you're dull hence you get asked trite questions
. I don't see what the big deal is, just give an answer & steer the conversation to a more interesting direction. Simple. It's like you're just mute & waiting to be asked questions. Why don't YOU ask him "fun" questions if a fun conversation is what you want? Smh

PunkyVeer:


Self-awareness is one heck of a skill to have. Not all women get talked to/with like doorknobs. Conversation should vary. If her conversation skills were up to scratch, the man/men she speaks with, would in turn follow lead & up their game. She gets asked dumbass questions because they probably don't know what else to talk to her about since she never showed them that she's knowledgeable & capable of talking about anything else other than what she ate, cooked, etc. Not every woman finds food talk stimulating, that's number one & number number two, not every woman gets talked to about food either, unless in passing. The common denominator here is her. Go figure!

Margauxluv:
If he didn't ask, u will complain dat he careless.
If he ask u still complain.
Kk