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Strictly For Ladies!! 7 Signs You Are Dating The Wrong Guy by ify123destiny(m): 1:28pm On Nov 22, 2015
In view of the above, most ladies finds it difficult & challenging to easily identify guys/men who are not serious in r/ships but only want to attain their personal avaricious desiderata after which they’ll flee & thus, bringing to fore heartbreaks & emotional trauma. Some tips are to be adhered to in order to be able to spot & know when a BAD EGG approaches you or probably got caught up with you in a web of daliance. Below are few tips to keep a jealous eyes upon for your own safety;
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1) Any guy who cannot delay gratification but wants everything from you even before marriage needs to be watched. He wants early sex, undivided attention and adoration, he is all over you all the time and is extremely jealous, he disrespects your values in life and your opinion does not really count; he wants you to disconnect from your friends and family members and focus only on him. Such guy is a wrong guy!

2) Any guy who finds it difficult to be open or transparent to you and avoid talking about his past relationships, failures, financial challenges, emotional problems and is very good at concealing negative things about himself to make a good impression, must be re-assessed before you commit. Relationships cannot grow
without transparency.

3) Any man who cannot take responsibility for his life but blames everyone for his challenges except himself is not worth your hand in marriage! He may also not take responsibility for his marriage!

4) A man who is a fault-finder and a
perfectionist is difficult to please. In his
world, there is no room for mistakes of
any magnitude and if you make a mistake, be ready for harsh criticism. On the other hand, if he is good at messing up everything around him, unfortunately he could mess up your life too!

5) Never consider getting married to a lazy man who does not have a realistic vision for his life! A man who is going nowhere will lead his wife nowhere! A man’s responsibility is to provide leadership and direction to his family! On the other hand, when a woman with vision marries a man without vision, she naturally becomes the leader of the home which will eventually lead to conflict or disorder! Believe me; it does not work out well in marriage!

6) Never marry a man who does not have a relationship with God unless you too do not have one. A man who loves and respect the Lord will love and respect you in obedience to the Lord!

7) Be mindful of a man who is hot
tempered, if he flares up because of things
that are not significant or at a slightest
provocation, it might be dangerous getting
married to him unless he changes. Any
man with this trait could be aggressive,
physically abusive and unpredictable in
marriage.
A man who cannot control his temper is a time-bomb waiting to happen! grin
Re: Strictly For Ladies!! 7 Signs You Are Dating The Wrong Guy by surestsam(m): 1:31pm On Nov 22, 2015
Incase..
Re: Strictly For Ladies!! 7 Signs You Are Dating The Wrong Guy by BrownCookie(f): 1:41pm On Nov 22, 2015
Who knows grin

True though.

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Re: Strictly For Ladies!! 7 Signs You Are Dating The Wrong Guy by jamex93(m): 1:42pm On Nov 22, 2015
surestsam:
Incase..

u b woman?
Re: Strictly For Ladies!! 7 Signs You Are Dating The Wrong Guy by IamLEGEND1: 1:45pm On Nov 22, 2015
NL: the land overflowing with PhD holders in human relationships
Re: Strictly For Ladies!! 7 Signs You Are Dating The Wrong Guy by Innodon(m): 1:50pm On Nov 22, 2015
Just in case
Re: Strictly For Ladies!! 7 Signs You Are Dating The Wrong Guy by obiorathesubtle: 1:53pm On Nov 22, 2015
undecided what the fÛck?
Re: Strictly For Ladies!! 7 Signs You Are Dating The Wrong Guy by tosyne2much(m): 1:58pm On Nov 22, 2015
Thank God I don't possess any of these qualities cool
Re: Strictly For Ladies!! 7 Signs You Are Dating The Wrong Guy by tigar007(m): 2:03pm On Nov 22, 2015
Ooto lo so
Re: Strictly For Ladies!! 7 Signs You Are Dating The Wrong Guy by immortalvoices(m): 2:06pm On Nov 22, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
NL:
the land overflowing with PhD holders in human relationships


Even those who have broken relationship and those who have never been into a relationship of sort are forming expertise in one
Re: Strictly For Ladies!! 7 Signs You Are Dating The Wrong Guy by Nobody: 2:06pm On Nov 22, 2015
I read strictly for ladies and only guys have commented so far. Abi dem be disguised babes?

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Re: Strictly For Ladies!! 7 Signs You Are Dating The Wrong Guy by immortalvoices(m): 2:07pm On Nov 22, 2015
tosyne2much:
Thank God I don't possess any of these qualities cool

Oga mi the hustle is real grin
Re: Strictly For Ladies!! 7 Signs You Are Dating The Wrong Guy by IamLEGEND1: 2:10pm On Nov 22, 2015
immortalvoices:

Even those who have broken relationship and those who have never been into a relationship of sort are forming expertise in one
the whole thing just get as e be.

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