Jamean:


hehe..so you have a Feminist as a sister
my parents only told me they have 1 son... at least I knew when he was born..

where you come from

Jazmiynne:

Yes that's the essence of the thread, we are reminding us all that our brains are the key.. A balanced female is just what the world needs to get many things right.
We would need help from the male folk too though... All the support we can garner

karleone:


I don't know what you personally think about it, but reverse is the case for me. I'd love to work with an intelligent, attractive and very beautiful lady.

As for big ladies, it's a no no for me. If you like get all the brains in this world, I'll hardly look at you.
Exceptions: Work place or business related only.

ProudOlodo:


Well, while discrimination against the petite female at recruitments is news to me, the "equal opportunity" concept is one idea I suppose has been spreading wide in recent times though ethnicity and disability are the central issues for now. If this discrimination is true, the theme may advance on to other areas like the "petite-ness" in the future. I've always thought size is the subject of discrimination in the men's world only. With the number of guys I've met who have that special soft spot for petite women, I bet getting support wouldn't be a hard one

Emasel:


If you can reason logically like this, how come you are an "Olodo"

Emasel:


see as you fall my hand publicly because I jokingly call you Feminist sometime ago, u no dey forget sef.

Anyways, I'm your brother from another mother.

ProudOlodo:


Well, while discrimination against the petite female at recruitments is news to me, the "equal opportunity" concept is one idea I suppose has been spreading wide in recent times though ethnicity and disability are the central issues for now. If this discrimination is true, the theme may advance on to other areas like the "petite-ness" in the future. I've always thought size is the subject of discrimination in the men's world only. With the number of guys I've met who have that special soft spot for petite women, I bet getting support wouldn't be a hard one

Jazmiynne:


A good point you have made truly..
The "equal opportunity" concept has gained tremendous awareness but that has mainly been in the conceptualization of the matter. The practicality still leaves a lot to be yearned.....

Yes many men have 'that special soft spot' for petite men... But what really does the soft spot entail for them?

A slender body that can be easily maneuvered during pre-intimacy OR a remarkably intelligent albeit delicate creation?

Which is the REAL scenario?

tolutweety:




The highlighted caught my interest. Can you please expatiate on that.

Jazmiynne:


A good point you have made truly..
The "equal opportunity" concept has gained tremendous awareness but that has mainly been in the conceptualization of the matter. The practicality still leaves a lot to be yearned.....

Yes many men have 'that special soft spot' for petite men... But what really does the soft spot entail for them?

A slender body that can be easily maneuvered during pre-intimacy OR a remarkably intelligent albeit delicate creation?

Which is the REAL scenario?

ProudOlodo:


Well, I'll agree with you on that. That "soft spot" means different things for different men. For some it's just one of the two scenarios, and for others, it's a combination of the two. In all honesty, men will, at least, admire you in plain appreciation of your fine petite config or at most, go on beyond plain admiration to imagining "things"...we're just naturally hardwired to appreciate our natural female complement in our different ways.

But definitely, admiring a woman of any type is one quality you can't separate from us men. Though it mostly starts from what we see, it's not limited to just that alone. We appreciate intelligence in women too; I assure you that every man knows an intelligent woman when he sees one. How we handle it may only differ

Jazmiynne:


I am liking your reasoning... Really liking it alot in fact.
We need men to start seeing beyond the physical benefits of having a beautiful petite lady to not only acknowledging but also respecting her brains

I am not one for gender equality... Just let the respect for my intelligence be duly accorded... no demeaning comments in the name of teasing

ProudOlodo:


Thanks I guess we share a common thought on gender equality - if everyone is given a chance according to their individual capacities without gender bias, we wouldn't need gender equality...I'm impressed

Amazinpeace:
Nice write up op! Am motivated. Am a petite nd am proud of it!!

tollyB:
I Am petite, beautiful and I take control of my life...
Cc: missmossy
Cutehector
Nihilist
Lero15
seun
Misspicy
Godmother
breezyrita
Cetona
Jamean
Estharfabian
And all my beautiful ladies...
We want to hear your views too

Lero15:


And beautiful guys... You didn't include that

jealousy...

Estharfabian:
jealousy...

Lero15:


Hehehehehe. She cc me as "beautiful ladies"

Thank God you replied with a smiley sha. Thought you dislike me

Why would you think that?

tollyB:
I Am petite, beautiful and I take control of my life...
Cc: missmossy
Cutehector
Nihilist
Lero15
seun
Misspicy
Godmother
breezyrita
Cetona
Jamean
Estharfabian
And all my beautiful ladies...
We want to hear your views too

Estharfabian:
Why would you think that?

Lero15:

Awww. And she "likes" me again
I like you too

Lero15:


And beautiful guys... You didn't include that

Cutehector:
she made us look like gays

Estharfabian:

Lero15:


OK OK.
Well....Some ladies though... Especially the beautiful ones. They give more attention to their beauty than work or skills.
You will see their pix at work everyday if you have them as friends on bbm.

With what I've seen so far. A higher percentage of them do that.

Shout out to the beautiful yet hardworking ones.


Another thing that can help is to build your self-confidence not matter how petite, big, fat, not-so-pretty you look. This proves doubters wrong big time!
It shouldn't always be about just the looks... Even our Father in heaven is more concerned with the heart of worship. However, looking good/ "packaging" yourself should not be discouraged.

Cheers.

Lero.

Jazmiynne:

O dear! You have brightly colored my evening. .. Thanks a lot We are really glad you enjoyed it

Cutehector:
well, as for me, nigerian recruiters need some training... The way they go abt recruitment processes here in nigeria is so so lame, unprofessional and mediocre. They really need to be trained alot..

Jazmiynne:


Lero you are so right... Self-confidence all the way.
I think sometimes even we as females forget that it shouldn't all be about our looks.

In fact sometimes I think we are the causes of our own woes... Some females already have their brain tuned in to believe that their beauty is all they ever need to have to achieve Anything. We need to start changing that. We want men to value us for more than pleasure and yet sometimes I feel like some women don't value themselves beyond the pleasure they can offer.

In fact some time ago I was shocked when one lady posted a 'Definition' of Man and Woman.... I can't really remember the exact words..... But the summary portrayed Males as sole provider and Females as fit only for man's enjoyment! Trust my craze! I immediately told her to correct it and specify that she is fit only for enjoyment cos I most certainly refuse to agree that the only thing I and every other female is good for is just pleasure. Imagine that!

The Big Question now is: If we as females can't respect and value our very own potentials/capabilities, who will?

Lero15:

WOW