U never tell us wetin you really do

Omg!

I think he should just have helped you finish up. Why was he angry nau

masturbation is a sin it is not biblical even islamically so my sister u need to ask for forgiveness from GOD and to your husband 4 what u did

I don't think u understand what is really happening

niggi4life:
He's not serious, that should have turned him on and he would have simply join you in the action.
You guys are husband and wife not BF and GF and you should explore your body and sexuality to the fullest.
Remember, you are spending the rest of your life with him, so he should be ready to give it to u steadily.
Do not talk to him about it, let him bring the conversation and then u tell him that there is totally nothing wrong in what u are doing

I can see that most people are not addressing the issue but are just giving u childish ideas.

Please, what on earth do u need 8 nieces for? Young couple when u should be enjoying the early stages of marriage.

Firstly.........send those kids back to their parents, u can keep one or two maximum

Secondly.........don't ever sleep in different rooms, for God sake you came home after like two months and what u could think of is sleeping in different rooms? Am sorry.........it doesn't look like you and your husband are emotionally matured and ready for marriage

Thirdly......work it out, it took u more than two months before coming home. Haba!!! Madam, did u travel out of the country?
Two weeks max pls.

Fourthly..........there is nothing wrong with you masturbating, the problem is doing it when your husband was right at home. What stopped u from inviting him to the bath?

Fifth....someone even suggested u should not talk about it! Chai,what a deluded fellow. Pls, sit your husband down. Talk about it, tell him how sorry u are, plan out how u wanna live your life and like I said earlier, the first mistake was the kids...8!!! It's like u are running a motherless home.

Next time pls, move closed to an elderly woman who u can take as a friend ,sister and mother(not a family member) who is matured and godly that u can speak with. If you keep coming here, ur home might not stand because of childish comments here, most of them are below 15 years. Everybody has access to phones now.

I wish you all the best

Idunnowhat2do:
Hello fam,

I got married and I only lived with my husband for a month before I got a job in another state, since we needed the money, I had to move. We've not seen for about 3 months. I just got back and I was welcomed by my nieces from both sides. We are currently hosting 8 of them, they are fun to be with. I love other people's children, I'm terrified of having my own.

We live in a 2 bedroom apartment, I sleep with the girls while my husband with the boys. Since I got back, we've been able to do it just once with the kids sleeping in the room. It was not enjoyable or comfortable. He gets back from work late and I am exhausted when he gets back because of the kids. It's 2 weeks now and I want to get down with my husband. He wants it too. My husband walks around shirtless and it turns me on every time I see him or hear his voice. We are a very sexually active couple whenever we are around each other.

The problem is that I could not take it anymore so I went to the bathroom, he opened the door and he caught me pleasuring myself today. I couldn't lock the door because the lock was bad. He's crazy and very angry.

What do I do?

I think the problem is having 8 kids in their home. 10 in a two bedroom flat!
I also agree with you, she should have dragged him closer

kilode100:
He is angry?? I don't understand! You too dull biko!!

The moment he walked in was when you should have put your fingers soaked with pussy cum into his mouth..

If na me eh... I for....

Why would he be angry ?!?!?

Imagine your husband jerking off in the bath while you are just 5m away and not sick neither are u handicap .


It's embarrassing

megafone:
You guys should live your lives. Allow your nieces go and start your couples life. Your present arrangement is wrong! Tell him you want more than he is giving right now.

Exactly...good point

Bossken:
Hmmmmmm 8 kids in a two bed room apartment? That's too much. I suggest you guyz do something about it fast so you both can have space and time for ur affections. Your marriage to me is too young to begin to suffer some hitches now.

If I were ur husband, I won't get angry seeing u in that act. I would rather understand that u need s*x and then make immediate plans to satisfy u.

Excellent points bring raised

peedeeasobie:



she asked you to advice her and not to insult her husband...

I Wonder Ooo!