Dear friends I need your help am in dire situation and this is my story.
When I was in the university I was in the class of guys you would call nerds. I had nothing no money, girlfriend or social life, all I had were my books and I made sure I kept my grades good.

There was this girl though I always fantasized about but the thing is that she was too beautiful for me, I was never in her class. She moved around with the big boys in campus, the ones with cars and money. I was obsessed with her and knew she dated numerous of the big players in campus and lived in flashy apartments while me I shared a small cubicle with a friend in her world I never existed.

But now its 5 years after my graduation and after completing my masters and some courses am gainfully employed in an oil company in lagos and running some personal business. I am leaving my dreams I have 2 cars, house, a personal gym which have made me bulk up and looking good.
Now to my main point I recently attended an old classmate wedding and meant that same girl there, she really hasn't changed and still looking beautiful. I was so surprised she remembered me, we got reacquainted and spent the whole day at the party together talking we exchanged contacts at the end of the event.

Since that moment she calls me everyday and we talk and chat on phone, I just can't stop thinking of her we have gone on a couple of dates to ikeja city mall and shoprite. Though recently she asked me to borrow her some money( kind of huge ) which I did and told her not to bother paying back, we have really been close since then though nothing sexual has happen.

The thing now is that am ready to declare my love for her and likely marry her but my fear is that considering back then in university she never had an atom of a feeling for me and dated the big guys on campus. Am afraid she may only be after my money which will break my heart, but I have to be sure that's why am calling for your advice.

Please I would love to hear from both male and female as am about to make the biggest decision of my life.
Thank you

Re u asking me?

But Bro I understand ur situation, but u need to ascertain her true motives whether she really loves u not ur money becoz some ladies can be funny

Please guys and girls your advice will be greatly appreciated

K...lemme consult amadioha

**singing** - Laye eh! Laye eh! Baby mi ko jorrrr!!

I juss wan let you know, I juss wan let you know oh

U sabi finish dey ask huh?
She never had your tym, buh as u don arrive tym come full everywhere for her corner abi, una never even know finish she ask u first big money.
Guy no give us differ story tomorrow
o, borrow sense na.

Take it slow, try n know her well n her motives too, don't be swayed by beauty, try n ask yourself some questions, would she had have your time if u ain't doing well now? No see fire enter o.

Inconclusive girl

People like this still dey??
people wey no get sense....
tufiakwa...

tgmservice:
Please guys and girls your advice will be greatly appreciated

okay brb

U were/are obsessed with her, not even her, but the thought of her. Sounds pathetic TBH.... And not at all like true love lol. Sorry if that's harsh.

kossyablaze:
Inconclusive girl

Yeah Kossyablaze my man

reminds me of this song though [Hook: Ty Dolla $ign] Every time she call ya, she always got a problem And end up wanting money, she only want your money She only want your money, she only want your
money
She only want some money, want your money
Ooh yeah
[Verse 1: RJ]
How come whenever she call ya she got her some issues? Her problems always be involving some cheese Ay, she keep her hands up in yo' pocket like a jack, boy She don't think nothing is too much to ever ask
for
She ain't a gold digger, call herself a trap star
Ain't got some propositions you can get some
cash for
Cause you can't slide up in it 'less you got a black card
She text me I'm that nigga, I never hit back
She showed me all your messages, I know the
fact
She said you is too soft for her, usually I'm off
of her You fix her wardrobe, pay notes on her car for
her
Lord knows, sign me up
She ain't gon' let you off the phone till you send
her dough
And she don't think that she wrong, she like "We all grown"

Spanner4:


Yeah Kossyablaze my man

How u dey my nigga

kossyablaze:
How u dey my nigga

Am cool my man,Respect!
Hw was today na

Spanner4:

Am cool my man,Respect!
Hw was today na

been on the grind

kossyablaze:
been on the grind

Notin do u my man

Anyway see real niggas catching fun man

Spanner4:

Notin do u my man
Anyway see real niggas catching fun man

lolzzz

kossyablaze:
lolzzz

Hehehehe

The lady would be like: Maga don pay, shout hallelujah
Op is like: Within my heart eh, nobody else.





Back to the topic:
You knew her to be a gold digger in Sch, just think of how many abortions she has had or think of how wide her ____ would be now. .
Do u know one thing about gold diggers? Most always get used spiritually , they are living dead.
If you marry such girl, it's probable that u gonna suffer financially .
As for the lady in question, she might have changed for better but it doesn't change the fact that she was a player in sch and nothing can morally justify ugly past.
I advise u not to get swayed by your feelings, if u do, u might regret it.
So FLEE...

It's been 5whole years , who says she couldn't have changed besides she borrowed money and he asked her to keep it . So the chances that things have changed around her and she takes life more seriously now than her youthful days date all u haven't caught her in any scandal. The the question now is for u op. Do u like her because she's beautiful , did u check her flaws or because of the old crush u have always had u can't wait for hers to be yours? The ball is in your court if you feel and know you guys are good together put a ring on it *cheers*

FLEE! FLEE!! FLEEEEEE!!!! MY GUY.... RUN 4 UR LIVE.. I NO GET ANY REASON, BT RUNNNNN

mimicue:
It's been 5whole years , who says she couldn't have changed besides she borrowed money and he asked her to keep it . So the chances that things have changed around her and she takes life more seriously now than her youthful days date all u haven't caught her in any scandal. The the question now is for u op. Do u like her because she's beautiful , did u check her flaws or The ball is in your court if you feel and know you guys are good together put a ring on it *cheers*

she asked him for money that makes her mature?
such a lame advice.

CaroLyner:

she asked him for money that makes her mature?
such a lame advice.

To borrow her money that's what he said . Stop getting it twisted like you all are all innocent here and if her intention was to even return d money u don't even know