ronald4lif:
You've said it all yourself. All signs point to the fact that she's into her far away boo more than she is to you. What this means is that you're an adjutant boyfriend and would only be into the picture for as long as the other lives abroad or when he ditches her. She just doesn't want to be lonely and need a close-by loverboy to express her physical emotional needs with while boo is away.

What you need do is either enjoy the affair while it last expecting the worse; sudden break up or quit it before you become too attached.

dachaste:



Give me one reason y she should leave u. When u r foolishly falling prey and enjoying it.




Babe said she got a guy, wot else do u wanna hear?




If u must know. Truth is u r footing her bills pending wen her real nigga will return



Shikena

neyop85:
I met this girl about a month ago, she walked into my office with her friends, they enquired if they could work as IT student. As soon as i set my eyes on her, i immediately took their IT letters and accepted three of them all because of her.
They started working for me and i took special interest in her. After a week, i asked her out and she declined, i kept pestering for like a month before she said YES to me.

So we started dating, within a week, i bought her a Zanotti bag, a shoe and a gold necklace just so she could know i was serious.

The problem now is that we have never seen eye to eye

we keep arguing and quarrelling.

She told me she has a boy friend who has left for South Africa, i have noticed that she truly is into this guy, she keeps using his pictures as social media profile picture, the guy's picture is on her wall in her room.

The guy is main reason we quarrel cos i can't take it, i see it as an insult because i feel she should not make me see all those picture stuff.

Now, my dilemma is this, we fight and i promise never to call her again, she calls me aftr two days and i forgive her again. its been like tjis since we started.

Why can't she leave me alone?

why can't she just focus on the one she loves who is far away?

o u think she loves me and if she does why will she flaunt her boy friend's picture when m around.

The way she talks makes me feel she loves me, she keeps telling me to be patient.

I have a good job and i have so many girls around me but i love her so much.

ladies, what do i do? should i just forget her and move on? we argued this evening and i'm almost certain she will be back.
Advice me pls.

neyop85:
I met this girl about a month ago, she walked into my office with her friends, they enquired if they could work as IT student. As soon as i set my eyes on her, i immediately took their IT letters and accepted three of them all because of her. They started working for me and i took special interest in her. After a week, i asked her out and she declined, i kept pestering for like a month before she said YES to me.
So we started dating, within a week, i bought her a Zanotti bag, a shoe and a gold necklace just so she could know i was serious.
The problem now is that we have never seen eye to eye, we keep arguing and quarrelling. She told me she has a boy friend who has left for South Africa, i have noticed that she truly is into this guy, she keeps using his pictures as social media profile picture, the guy's picture is on her wall in her room. The guy is main reason we quarrel cos i can't take it, i see it as an insult because i feel she should not make me see all those picture stuff.
Now, my dilemma is this, we fight and i promise never to call her again, she calls me aftr two days and i forgive her again. its been like tjis since we started. Why can't she leave me alone? why can't she just focus on the one she loves who is far away? Do u think she loves me and if she does why will she flaunt her boy friend's picture when m around.
The way she talks makes me feel she loves me, she keeps telling me to be patient.
I have a good job and i have so many girls around me but i love her so much.
ladies, what do i do? should i just forget her and move on? we argued this evening and i'm almost certain she will be back.
Advice me pls.

neyop85:
I met this girl about a month ago, she walked into my office with her friends, they enquired if they could work as IT student. As soon as i set my eyes on her, i immediately took their IT letters and accepted three of them all because of her. They started working for me and i took special interest in her. After a week, i asked her out and she declined, i kept pestering for like a month before she said YES to me.
So we started dating, within a week, i bought her a Zanotti bag, a shoe and a gold necklace just so she could know i was serious.
The problem now is that we have never seen eye to eye, we keep arguing and quarrelling. She told me she has a boy friend who has left for South Africa, i have noticed that she truly is into this guy, she keeps using his pictures as social media profile picture, the guy's picture is on her wall in her room. The guy is main reason we quarrel cos i can't take it, i see it as an insult because i feel she should not make me see all those picture stuff.
Now, my dilemma is this, we fight and i promise never to call her again, she calls me aftr two days and i forgive her again. its been like tjis since we started. Why can't she leave me alone? why can't she just focus on the one she loves who is far away? Do u think she loves me and if she does why will she flaunt her boy friend's picture when m around.
The way she talks makes me feel she loves me, she keeps telling me to be patient.
I have a good job and i have so many girls around me but i love her so much.
ladies, what do i do? should i just forget her and move on? we argued this evening and i'm almost certain she will be back.
Advice me pls.

Idydarling:
op, I woulda sympathised with you, but the fact that you mentioned what you bought her (d bag, shoe and necklace. .. u even mentioned the brand sef )
imo op, I think you're a proud individual who keeps count of whatever good he has done to anoda.

...and yes, she's using u 4 the time being, in order not to feel too emotionally lonely now that the main boo is away. gd luck!

MRBrownJ:


didnt they teach you to..... NEVER EVER mix business with pleasure?!



so in your world, buying present in order to try to impress a gal means you are serious?!



dont you see her everyday at work?! you mean you have never seen her outside of work?! then how did you gave her the presents?!



you guys are not compatible, let it go!



AGAIN, you guys are not compatible, let it go



the real insult here is that you keep hoping to get between this gal's life even though you got the message loud and clear that she is UNAVAILABLE.... btw: of course she is gonna take your presents (and possibly everything you got), what do you take her for?



why do you forgive her if you really dont want to see her again? we know why she is coming back to you.... you are her private ATM



and say no to many presents from her top mugu?!



she wants her cake (aka her man) and have it too (aka presents from her mugu)



this lady dont give a damn about you, its your wallet that she is attracted to.



bro, talk is cheap, its her ACTIONS that you should evaluate... i mean, come on, she hardly spends any time with you



pls stop talking about what you have no clue about... there is no love here, only a mugu infatuated with a gal who is taking him to the cleaners.

Thank u so very much

Richiy:
This is the point where you pick up the bits of your heart and run.

I know this story. If she loves you, she'd run after you with willingness to give up EVERYTHING.

But, why I no dey meet this kin guys sef

kaziblake:
She already told you she have a boyfriend so why are still disturbing her...leave her alone and look for another girl or else she will keep you as a side boo

neyop85:



Cos u are like her.

Richiy:


I don't play this kinda games. If I don't like you, you will be the first to know.

Suigeneris93:
This is just dumb. What do u tink op,uve been tryna buy her affections with ur money and she can do w/o u bt nt w/o ur money so she'll always come back until u receive brain

elampiro:

Walesadeyemi:
Its very simple, you're her plan B or C or D........ Most women do this so that when the choice of their heart fails them, they can fall back on the other plans in order not to end up at prayer city at age 35 looking for husband.

My advice: let her go Coz if you think she'll choose you later on if you show more affection, then you'll be thinking like a looser or if you think you want to 'chop and run' you'll still end up hurting yourself Coz no breakup is ever easy.

So Bro LET HER GO now Coz the longer you wait, the tougher it becomes.