It is funny, but it is true that there are many girlfriends and wives in Nigeria who are not proud to be seen in public with their boyfriends and husbands.
They are ashamed to be seen with them in public display of affection.

I have seen lovers and couples who have never gone for a stroll together and when they have to walk in public, you see the girlfriends or wives behaving like they are not together.
In most cases, these girlfriends and wives are those who think their men are not good looking when compared to other men.
The only time you see them together is when they go to church, mosque or special occasions they cannot avoid going together.

There are many female undergraduates in Nigeria I know don't want to be seen with their boyfriends during the day, except in the night.
Many of them are those dating unattractive older men.
They pose with their male peers or other good looking guys during the day, but at night go out with their real boyfriends.
And I have seen wives who are excited to be seen with handsome men they flirt with, but become cheerless whenever their husbands insist on going shopping or events with them.

Majority of Nigerian women don't like to be seen in public display of affection with "ugly" men.
You see a wife either walking far ahead or far behind her husband.
You see a girlfriend very excited to pose with a handsome guy for selfies and other pictures, but she is reluctant to pose with her boyfriend.
I have seen girlfriends who hide going parties from their boyfriends so that they can go alone or go with other guys.

But why date or marry a man you will not be proud of in public display of affection?
Why walk hand in hand with another man on the street, but avoid or shy away from doing so with your boyfriend or husband?

I recall how we mistook a guy as the boyfriend of a girl for years, because they were often seen together on and off campus, but we later found out that she actually had a boyfriend who preferred a very private relationship.
In fact, we thought the man was her uncle or relation, because they never displayed anything romantic between them in public.

I have also seen a girlfriend dressing in short pants and mini skirts in the company of other guys, but she always changed to conservative clothes whenever her boyfriend came to see her.

Many Nigerian wives often lie that their husband don't like romantic public display of affection.
Now you know why many Nigerian girlfriends and wives hide their boyfriends and husbands from others on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. They don't even say they are in relationship. But you see them posing with other guys with hugs and kisses on Facebook and other popular social networks while their real boyfriends only appear once in a full moon or remain unknown to the public.
Why should the girlfriend or wife of another man post sexy pictures of herself on your Facebook wall without showing that she is in relationship or married?

I was once mistaken for the boyfriend and lover of a very beautiful married woman, because we were often seen together come rain or shine. She introduced me to her best friends, including ministers and others. If she did not see me in one week, she would drive to my house and screaming my name from the street and take me away to go out with her. So, people told her husband who became jealous, accused her of dating me and beat her up until she ended up at EKO Hospital in Ikeja, Lagos.
She told me she was once excited to be seen with him in public, but he later became boring and unromantic.

[size=18pt]Women are naturally more romantic than men and if a woman loves you, she will be excited to be seen with you anywhere and anytime. [/size]

Hmmmmmmmm.


It makes no sense,if i am not proud of him then no point dating talkmore of marriage

OP space am out small abeg

Uh yes. It's not "by force" to be proud of ones partner but it the brings to question how ur even in a relationship anyways, if they're not someone you're comfortable being seen in public with.

This excludes magas of coz

MzPecs:
Very true..

I smell lies

osaslord500:



I smell lies

MzPecs:

My brother good observation.

My sister daretodiffer just sent you a PM, Now what are you going to do about?

Didn't read....Mondays are now borin on NL

If am not proud of him, why would I bother myself to date him

Cholls:
My sister daretodiffer just sent you a PM, Now what are you going to do about?

Nothing

You shouldn't be in a relationship with someone you're not proud of, end of.

All these girls saying 'If I'm not proud of him why date or marry him' are the girls that go after ugly men for money disregarding his look claiming 'no be fine me and my children go chop', but dissociate with the man in public

MrsPhyno:
OP space am out small abeg

Uh yes. It's not "by force" to be proud of ones partner but it the brings to question how ur even in a relationship anyways, if they're not someone you're comfortable being seen in public with.

This excludes magas of coz

I don space am well well.