Hey wat ya'll gotta say bout dis? Gurls tend to fall over for rough guys who "won't" treat them like ladies. it might be hard to believe but the right combo of "rudeness" and "cockiness" would keep a gurl asking for more! im not saying a guy should generally start behaving crazy but gifts,flowers,2 much affection and ur gurl would run away! am i right gurls?

I HALF AGREE WITH U.

FIRST OFF ALL GIRLS ARE DIFFERENT, SOME GIRLS LOVE FLOWERS EVERYDAY AND ALL THAT MUSHY STUFF.

But alot of girls I know personally (most of them in fact), don't like too much mushy stuff. That is not to say we like rudeness or cockiness like keltoch suggested (not here in England anyway and I am sure the same goes for Naija). But too mcuh soppines can be a put off just because of culture or because it resembles insincerity. Every girl likes gifts - it just depends on what the gift is i.e. I think flowers are a once in a blue moon thing and don't really like them, but if u like, kit me out with bling every day, Gucci every saturday, and holidays abroad every birthday, lol! It is an individual thing but no one likes to be treated badly even if they love a bad boy, they love it when the boy is bad to others not themselves.

the reason is simple.they simply want to find out wat u r not seeing in her that other guy dying 4.at the end of the day she is more into u b4 she realise it

wtf?! i wudnt run afta a man they aint worth it and if they did they wudnt make ya run afta them. i'm not a man chaser and any man dat treates me wit no respect/no care. His ass is sure out da door 4 shizzzle!!

no waste of time, life's 2 short so enjoy it why it lasts.

WRONG BOY!!! what in the world gave u that idea? 

Hey what ya'll gotta say bout this? Girls tend to fall over for rough guys who "won't" treat them like ladies. it might be hard to believe but the right combo of "rudeness" and "cockiness" would keep a girl asking for more! im not saying a guy should generally start behaving crazy but gifts,flowers,2 much affection and your girl would run away! am i right girls?

hahaha, that´s the funniest thing I have ever heard, the girls that run after such guys, are either ugly in the inside or really have self steam problems. When a girl knows she can get the best, why should she be running after a looser?

Actually, girls are naturally crazy and one will need the full impart of the spirit of God
to fathom what they need and mean since they say things different from what they
mean and mean something different from what they say. They are naturally attracted to evil.

Actually, it seems like a fair assessment to me.

However, I come from a class of people considered "Extremely Beautiful".

So maybe it is just me, who is easily bored with the guy who slobbers over me.

I am a little more thrilled by the guy who acts as if it is not affecting him.

My new neighbor, who himself is extremely beautiful, is playing hard to get right now himself.

He is being extremely nice but does not give me the time of day as far as indicating that he is interested.

However, my even harder attitude towards him has driven him to start being overtly nice to my children. Now they get his clothes and all these other very nice expensive things from him.

So he is winning because he knows that I have to keep coming to him and acknowledging his extreme goodness while looking at all that prime beef body and beautiful shiny black skin.

He is forcing me with kindness to bow to him.

And I love it.

@osegwa
is that what you think?

Knowing how to treat a girl is a secret most guys don’t know how to unlock
but for me, it's no big deal.

First, you must learn to apperciate  her.
ie tell how how good she is, how beautiful she looks co's No matter how ugly a guy is, a girl will usually be flattered when she is told this.  and don't forget to keep her smiling all day. if you keep doing this, you 'll find out that the more genuine and specific you are, the better you boost your relationship between both of you.

am i right ladies?

Ain't gat the nerves for such 'ish

@crazykid

for me, a relationship or marriage is like an xmas gift, accept it, then better expect to accept its contents! So if a lady says 'yes' she should best expect all that the guy is worth cos guys can be deceptive, the worst daters have the best lyrics that girls would give anything for. Its an unfortunate twist but thats how it is.
Whether u keep running back or not, u said yes in the first place, and we know that there's always a catch in every good deal, so if it looks too good to be true, it probably is too good to be true!

It It is a only a bird that will perish, that will not mind the coming of the Arrow?, how can u go for something that will you really know that it will end up with tears i mean it is not reasonble, let think again, you know girls (most) like you to pet, and to see the beauty in them, it is only mumu girl that will see fire and put her hand inside, how can u cope wit your enemy?

Fish Brain and West Fagina people, over to you.