Compliments of the season fellow NL'S, its been bordering my mind and it baffles me when a guy and a lady are into eachother, I mean love, affection is there and everything seems to be going on well only for the lady to withhold sex as if its are ACE. I have this lady that we have been dating for a while & everything seems ok, though she is on service in a neighboring town but we communicate often and anytime she come around we spend time together, I really love her and she loves me too but my problem with her is that she hold on too sex as if it's her Joker despite the fact that we've done all things you can ever imagine between 2 loved birds asides sex and her reason is best known to her, she gives flimsy excuses like tiredness, I don't feel like now. I don't make a big deal out of sex nor desperate about having sex with her because I know what to do if I want to get it. A friend of mine is experiencing such too & I know of people that experience such I'm sure of thing which is the fact that all this things & talks arise when you are trying to build up a serious relationship because no side chick or a lady you ain't really into can try such nonsense with guys(sharp guys). So to the ladies abeg why una dey do that thing to someone you love and love you in return? Moreover what is the way out too? Matured responses plz and insult is allowed because he it won't move me an inch

u mentioned that u don't care about it why bother us here.next post pls

It mustn't always be about sex naw, as long as your lady is faithful, loving & caring, you guys can just be the best of friends & lovers, I promise u bros she will be d one begging for it if u really play your card well but don't make sex a necessity...Shikena

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Mjshexy:
It mustn't always be about sex naw, as long as your lady is faithful, loving & caring, you guys can just be the best of friends & lovers, I promise u bros she will be d one begging for it if u really play your card well but don't make sex a necessity...Shikena

it mustn't be about sex but sometimes sex builds confidence and it makes someone feel more secured as a man that where the necessity issue comes in and a guy one's told me that it gives him I have nothing to loose syndrome should in case anything happens

cruzita:
u mentioned that u don't care about it why bother us here.next post pls

but there is a difference btw don't care about it and wanting to do with your partner and it wasn't mentioned anywhere in the post that the OP doesn't care but he can get alternative if he wants but then he feels like doing it with is girlfriend

lawnreigh:
it mustn't be about sex but sometimes sex builds confidence and it makes someone feel more secured as a man that where the necessity issue comes in and a guy one's told me that it gives him I have nothing to loose syndrome should in case anything happens

Hmm i assume u don't also see the relationship going far from ur reason above, but like i said earlier just don't force it, if u play ur part well she will be d one begging for it. She probably is a V not ready to give in now...

Simply because that's the only thing they have to Offer..shikena

They know they become useless to us once we have it..

Am out