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Should Spirituality Dictates The Relationship? by Mc4larin: 11:39am On Dec 27, 2015 |
I want all nairalanders to please come to my rescue with my girlfriend. There is this lady we have dating for 6 months now. It all started when I broke up with my ex girlfriend of over 3 years because of tribe (she's Igbo, while I'm Yoruba). I attend the same church with this lady, we've been best of friends for over 8 years. She has a guy she was dating before, but they couldn't continue because her mum told her she went for spiritual enquiry and she was told they're not compatible. Around June this year, I approached her declaring my intention of how much I love her and want her to be mine. She told me before she can accept my proposal, I should first do a spiritual consultation so as to know our compatibility in order to avoid another occurrence of the issue she had with her boyfriend. I did as she requested by calling a pastor I trust so much to help me do a spiritual enquiry to the relationship and marriage respectively. He called me back after few days that it is safe to go into a relationship with her. I communicated the report of my findings to the lady, she further requested for another spiritual enquiry from my parish pastor. I obliged and did as she requested because I was madly in her at this point. My pastor gave me her own findings that we are compatible that there will be an "antagonist" to the relationship in her family. I knew at this point that the antagonist is her mother because she told me she discussed with her mum that I asked her out and the mother refused on spot. But she agreed to date me, that she will talk to her mum as time goes on. We started dating, the relationship became so interesting and envy to all. Fast forward to six months, she started misbehaving and wasn't flowing as she used to. I noticed this changes in her and I decided to investigate what was going on. After several attempts, she agreed to discuss the issue. She told me that recently she has been receiving messages from different prophets that we are not compatible and she will regrets it if she goes ahead and with the relationship. Then I became confused of what was going on If God is an author of confusion. I didn't know what to believe anymore, because I was suspecting it's her mum that is doing those things and this is a lady I love so much and even planning to propose to by the ending of next year. Nlders I know you guys have never disappointed in helping out in this kind of issue and I'm trusting on your intellectual ability to help me because this is killing me emotionally |
Re: Should Spirituality Dictates The Relationship? by Cybertext(m): 11:41am On Dec 27, 2015 |
I don't know, lemme ask Iffa... #MODIFIED..... Bros Iffa said you are compatible but... |
Re: Should Spirituality Dictates The Relationship? by sinaj(f): 11:55am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Spiritual Consultation to knw if u love someone? ![]() Naija I hail o ![]() If u feel u ain't comfortable or attracted to someone u Wana date or get marid to, simply back out! It's simple! |
Re: Should Spirituality Dictates The Relationship? by ronald4lif(m): 12:02pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
The believe that one should inquire from a pastor and other fraudulent so called men of God before getting married is the most laughable, fatuous and preposterous thing for any sound mind to do. For a sound mind with active neurons to undermine and debilitate their own sense of discernment while subverting their autonomous right to freewill thereby soiliciting for opinion from one duplicitous man who calls himself man of God means their foolishness is irredeemable. I don't know about you but anyone who can bypass their own judgment to solicit for opinion in such issues from another, be it whoever, is exactly the kind of person I wouldn't want for a second in my life. Such characters are the ones who would want to consult dubious so called men of God in every confidential issues when you get married. Can you cope? Keep your distance from that lady and her mum before they infect your unborn kids with their family ingrained imbecility. |
Re: Should Spirituality Dictates The Relationship? by shegxi(m): 12:20pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
u and dat ur gf are obviously babies.........and some hungry pastors/prophet use dat avenue to mislead and confuse gullible ones. op, look on d bright side thou, dat ur gf mother is all shades of sorcery and ogbanje. find babe go front. |
Re: Should Spirituality Dictates The Relationship? by Nobody: 12:28pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
*keke, stop here* As 4 you d @OP, i dont no wat to tell u. Its obvious, run b4 u are ruined |
Re: Should Spirituality Dictates The Relationship? by theSpark(m): 12:42pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
Why don't you ask God and hear for yourself? |
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