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Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by empress101(f): 6:41pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
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Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by geez18(m): 6:47pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
a mature woman like you still writing in gibberish? what a shame! 8 Likes |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by Cutehector(m): 6:48pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
Op ur boyfrnd is not ur father, if u hav financial issues, u talk to ur parents or ur relations, dey will help.. I just dnt like it wen girls think its a must thr boyfrnd must be their financial lord and personal saviour.. Its so not nice at all abeg 9 Likes |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by Nobody: 6:55pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
If you assume your r/ship is turning cold, try igniting it. and when he still doesn't change then something is probably wrong somewhere. |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by empress101(f): 6:58pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
mst u do dat.. |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by thorpido(m): 6:59pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
^^^what the guys above me said,pay attention. Can you visit him where he is?You need to have a face-to-face with him. |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by Nobody: 7:03pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
U should stop calling him...Be distant from Him... Try not to be too clingy or parasitic.. In other words, prove to Him U could do better without him, That way he'd cling To U Like Ants On sugar! 1 Like |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by Nobody: 7:03pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
A good advise from me? Have a back up boyfriend fast fast. He's just keeping u too as backup girlfrnd. He don dey fu3k a lady over there. Believe me, dats d truth. Don't quote me if u wanna insult me. I have plans 4 u already |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by StefanSalvatore: 7:04pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
Maybe u asked him 4 help at d wrong tym(maybe e was broke at d tym) u av 2 understand Wen we men work,dat work is really our top priority after all na una wey go still chop d moni If e needs sm space gv it 2 him, he'll cum bak 2 u 1 Like |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by drnsoha(m): 7:15pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
Without offence Madam, if you can't even express your emotional trauma in a simple and understandable collection of English words since you were being schooled till now then I wonder if you can be able to adapt to the lifestyle, desires, wants and needs of a young man in a modern age. Love is not enough to keep a relationship. I won't advise you to pray about it because I am simply making you irresponsible. I will advise you to make your relationship WORK! Stop calling it a quit and accept responsibility. If he isn't the way he used to be, then it is natural. Everyone does that in every relationship. You also are not the way you used to be. Its obvious in men because we are logical beings but you africans interpret it to be infidelity. Final advise! Pay him a visit and re-ignite your emotional bonding. Whatever you guys used to do when you were closer and it boosted your emotional bonding even if its SEX. DO IT IF ITS WORTH IT! 2 Likes |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by empress101(f): 7:17pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
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Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by empress101(f): 7:18pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
thanks |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by Cutehector(m): 7:31pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
empress101:and he was not capable at dat moment of helpin u .. So i dnt see anyreason why u should be disappointed.. Sometimes u ladies duno hw to ask for money... He may hav money buh sometimes u ask wen he doesnt hav money at dat particular moment... If u wana ask someone for money, u ask d person in time, like giv him a week pr few days to arrange himself.. Money isnt plucked from trees! Its hard out thr 3 Likes |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by empress101(f): 7:45pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
Ok Thanks.. |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by kaziblake(f): 7:48pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
I hate it when guys says "your boyfriend is not your father",is he not sleeping with you. Pls dump the stupid boy ass,its his responsibility to provide for your needs |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by publicenemy(m): 7:56pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
empress101: keep trying to make it work. |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by NelsonNeo(m): 8:19pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
@op....it can be pretty hard esp wen it's a new environment, a new hospital, a new challenge. he didn't forget u, he prolly so engrossed in his job.... Trust me, m a Dr 1 Like |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by RoastedCorn(m): 8:38pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
kaziblake:bitches everywhere . . you're talking as if , girls are doing guys favour by sleeping with them . . for Christ's sake, you girls enjoy the sex too 4 Likes |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by kaziblake(f): 8:44pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
RoastedCorn:That your bussiness. |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by empress101(f): 8:49pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
hmmm... too busy thanks tho... |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by Nobody: 5:26am On Dec 28, 2015 |
kaziblake:If you feel money is the perfect prize for sex then you know dif from a prostitute, pls take no offense... If someone is to pay for sex it should be the girls cause you enjoy all the pleasure right from start, while we guys battle all from start, we battle how to make u girls feel good, battle not to ejaculate soon and still loose energy after ejaculation...and u feel u deserve the pay... Pls let's be fair, sex is not the justification for guys to take responsibility no its not. 3 Likes |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by Exponental(m): 6:52am On Dec 28, 2015 |
maybe u guys can't manage distance relationship. talk about it. |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by JustKeen(m): 7:01am On Dec 28, 2015 |
kaziblake:So the girl is now a who.re. that receives pecuniary gains for sex? You see how some of you women belittle most of you? Height of selfishness and sense of entitlement. @ OP, Out of sight, out of mind. Its a sad reality, He has a warmer and nearer company there. He just wants the relationship to die a natural death instead of breaking up with you. You can't force think things, just let him be. If another nigggga that catches ya fancy comes along, get stringed. Cheers 4 Likes |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by younghartz(m): 7:07am On Dec 28, 2015 |
House-manship? a young nurse is nw housing his d**k . |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by kaziblake(f): 7:45am On Dec 28, 2015 |
fruqsy:stop saying all those trash and bullshit. If you like call me a LovePeddler that your bussiness,i will never open my leg for a man who is not my husband.shikena 1 Like |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by Rone16(f): 7:57am On Dec 28, 2015 |
He has seen different varieties of girls to pick from.When I was with my ex ,he said he'd never leave me blA blA blA and he'll always call every day or at most,2days.He went abroad for studies and lol we just had to break up because of that same communication issue and can you imagine that barely a month after we broke up,he started dating someone which means they were hooking up before and he just wanted me completely out before making it official.Maybe he even has a crush on someone there or even has a babe already so ask him if he wants to end it bluntly and if he says yes or if he beats around the bush,end it ASAP. |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by empress101(f): 8:32am On Dec 28, 2015 |
hmmm... maybe u re ryt....thanks for d advice... |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by wazobiaforu(m): 9:08am On Dec 28, 2015 |
The way I see it, As a lady, try as much as possible not to complain to a guy that he has not been calling you the same way he was doing before. The truth is, the guy know what he was doing, he knows he has reduced the calling rate, One of the best way to know if someone is really into you is when there is distance between both of you, no chances for touching or cuddling. Someone that have a serious relationship and cherish the relationship so well and full hope and wish of keeping the partner forever will not have a CONSTANT reasons to be out of reach. My advice: safe yourself some stress, focus on yourself, call him when necessary but not to complain and watch as things unfold. Please, try not write in gibberish if you want people to take you serious and matured. |
Re: Sincere And Matured Advice Needed, Please... by Nobody: 9:44am On Dec 28, 2015 |
kaziblake:So wtf??, how has this got impact on my reply...don't quote me again. 1 Like |
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