bebeto234:


I have seen the doctor and I had a protective sex. Could the guilt be the cause of wht i am going through?

Yup very correct...its the guilt

bebeto234:
Hi All,
I had an intercourse with a prostitute and after then i noticed that i have erectile dysfunction . The intercourse was done in my matrimonial home. I have called the prostitute and she says she doesn't have a hand in it. Could it be because I have a high blood pressure? or Could it be spiritual. your advise would go a long way for me.

Thank you

u dey play like bebeto abi....

abeg upload ur dp make i see ur face

samphemmy5:
lobatan...................
confession time

i am dead serious and if you have some advise i will really appreciate that

JustHere2Observ:


Yup very correct...its the guilt

I couldnt sleepproperly and I had to take drugs on medication to make me sleep. i have taken 4.5mg of lex today and have been able to just sleep for less that six hours in total

bebeto234:


I couldnt sleepproperly and I had to take drugs on medication to make me sleep. i have taken 4.5mg of lex today and have been able to just sleep for less that six hours in total

Sorry, forgive yourself for violating your body and dishonoring your wife. You will be fine

jopretty:
if you're a Christian meet your pastor, if a muslim meet your imam.

nd if na traditional worshipper, meet ur baba

JustHere2Observ:


Sorry, forgive yourself for violating your body and dishonoring your wife. You will be fine

Thanks so much. How do I forgive myself? I had prayed earlier on and asked for forgiveness from God.

bebeto234:


Thanks so much. How do I forgive myself? I had prayed
earlier on and asked for forgiveness from God.

Make peace with yourself, what is done is done.

bebeto234:


I did it on my couch in the living room not my matrimonial bed

well, you did it in your matrimonial home.. On your matrimonial couch.. Doesn't make too much difference to me..

obiorathesubtle:
well, you did it in your matrimonial home.. On your matrimonial couch.. Doesn't make too much difference to me..

Yes I have acknowledged my act as being bad and i am very remorseful . What do you suggest I do that will not jeopardize my marital life?

JustHere2Observ:


Make peace with yourself, what is done is done.

How do I go about that assuming you have alternatives?

bebeto234:


How do I go about that assuming you have alternatives?

Alternatives?

JustHere2Observ:


Alternatives?

Sorry i meant making peace with myself...my mind is messed up at the moment

bebeto234:


i am dead serious and if you have some advise i will really appreciate that

Op your matter no hard at all! Just visit baba sura corner and ask for ALEKO then come back to testify about the potency of your manhood

Awoofawo:
Op your matter no hard at all! Just visit baba sura corner and ask for ALEKO then come back to testify about the potency of your manhood

who and what is baba sura please?

bebeto234:


who and what is baba sura please?

Just ask awon area fathers around your place that you aleko, they will show you the way

JustHere2Observ:


Make peace with yourself, what is done is done.

Could you please send me a PM with your number i need to share(discuss) somethings on the issue with you personally.

Thanks

bebeto234:


Could you please send me a PM with your number i need to share(discuss) somethings on the issue with you personally.

Thanks

Don't know how to

JustHere2Observ:


Don't know how to

eghosaehis[at]yahoo.com

falconey:
@falconey @bebeto234

that is no reasonable excuse, would he die if he waited? where is the love when you break the trust and become unfaithful and ungrateful, well, i wish your wife same excuse when she travel for months too, next time you'll understand the pain and betrayal.

I am not even married but i know this. i will not even do such to a mere girlfriend i intend in marrying.

WebSurfer:


that is no reasonable excuse, would he die if he waited? where is the love when you break the trust and become unfaithful and ungrateful, well, i wish your wife same excuse when she travel for months too, next time you'll understand the pain and betrayer

I totally agree with you ...however, i pleaded with her severally to come for the break explaining how a mans system is different from a womans. I am totally disgusted at the moment and my guilt just wont let me be. I need your help on how to get out of this situation please

bebeto234:


eghosaehis[at]yahoo.com

i just sent you a message on your gmail.

thank you

bebeto234:
Hi All,
I had an intercourse with a prostitute and after then i noticed that i have erectile dysfunction . The intercourse was done in my matrimonial home. I have called the prostitute and she says she doesn't have a hand in it. Could it be because I have a high blood pressure? or Could it be spiritual. your advise would go a long way for me.

Thank you

Your wife get strong head o!! She has annoited her matrimonial home with prayer oil and water.
But why would you take a prostitute or any other girl to your matrimonial home and climb her mountain?
Simply live with the 3rd leg malfunction, hopefully soon the 3rd leg would regain it's turbo boost!!!

bebeto234:


i am dead serious and if you have some advise i will really appreciate that

Ok..I will advise you do a 3 days prayer and fasting ASAP

Make sure u pray well, bind and cast..and above all ask for forgiveness from God. The girl is probably possessed

bebeto234:


I totally agree with you ...however, i pleaded with her severally to come for the break explaining how a mans system is different from a womans. I am totally disgusted at the moment and my guilt just wont let me be. I need your help on how to get out of this situation please

well, it happened already.. I wouldnt say confess to her as i do not know the type of woman you married.
When trust is broken, it might be very dificult to amend and might lead to her being vulnerable trying to get back at you or worse.
If you think you trust her enough, you can tell her and promised you will never go bsck to it again knowing fully well how it felt like already.

Sametime , i think you should just pray and ask for forgiveness for Adultery but only if you wont go back committing same sin. I believe you can pay for it by becoming a better person with a life free of that sin since you wont go back. I just hope its not karma getting back at your wife tho.

If you are a christian try checking the implications of adultery and guide yourself by it. You'll be set free when you know the truth and accept it as it is other than justifying your actions. Thank you

bebeto234:


I have seen the doctor and I had a protective sex. Could the guilt be the cause of wht i am going through?

You were a good man who was led astray by temptation, distance and bad friend

Confess your sins to God sincerely with a contrite heart... And give yourself few days to clear your guilty conscience.. You will come back to normal


Remember you own your wife an apology but handle that aspect with care