daretodiffer:


okay

We speak English not Gaelic

We speak a bit of Doric in Aberdeen. Doric is a dialect of English spoken mostly in NE Scotland. It's a dying language anyway.

Gie's a bosie! At least for the explanation

Nairalanders believe everything they hear. This is just Cock and Bull story. Just trash.

olukenzo:


We speak a bit of Doric in Aberdeen. Doric is a dialect of English spoken mostly in NE Scotland. It's a dying language anyway.

Gie's a bosie! At least for the explanation

Oh-kay

Never heard of it

you are just a fool ! nonsense !

FORGET what many ladies are saying here... LOTS AND LOTS of men are housing these kind of women.

lakeside30:




Hmmmm,wao

Ya!

lazeal:
FORGET what many ladies are saying here... LOTS AND LOTS of men are housing these kind of women.

For sure nah

daretodiffer:


Oh-kay

Never heard of it

Really? Pardon my asking, where do you live here? And for how long?

This is the problem with Nigerian women. They dont marry who they loves, but the rich man who is ready to take them to the alter. Then, after that, they'll start making the man's life miserable for him. What a wicked woman you are, trendition. You talked about all the things you did in the past which you are not proud of, yet you are doing the worst in your marriage.

Your husband needs a good woman that will rescue him from your evil grip.

u can't force love, op . he's rich , has green card , or whatever , ur eyes were shinning bcus of dese reasons. but u don't love him !!!. u don't love him. we heard u. u r very wicked , u've punished him enuff, killing his seeds !!! u don't love him , n u don't want his kids !!!! leave him alone nau. both of u hv married the wrong person , it happens , when pple realize dis they know D best way out is divorce bcus love can't b forced. gud thing u've no kids now , u can dissolve the marriage easily. let him find d right woman to treat him right !!!

i do not think she is telling us everything. she wants to get something from the man and move on

Yes you will love your kids. with time, even your husband as the foundation of admiring him is already there. you just need to give it time. And pls grow up mehn, you sound really juvenile.

Trendition, I will be harsh because you deserve it..... If you did not love the man why in the world didn't you leave him for another woman to marry and bear kids for him.

You are wicked! Very wicked, who cares if you don't love him? Who frigging gives a damn? You want to be married and enjoy his money but you don't want to have a family with him... I repeat you are wicked!

He will not eat your food, because you can kill him since you don't love him. Which kind of deception is this? You are one of those types that give women a bad name. Rubbish!

I hope your parents find out the kind of human being they raised..


You say you wanted to start on a clean slate.. Is this your clean slate clean now?

Please leave that man to start his family abeg. Good thing he found out now sef. Rubbish!

KimBerlyie:
Ahan han auntie how on earth can u marry someone u don't love nd u ain't even planning on having kids with him some ppl never cease to amaze me, so now what? Re u planning on using contraceptives till u re 40 or u plan on divorcing him wen u av finish admiring him like a new bride?


Now u re asking for advice, wat sort of advice re u expecting ehn? U were suppose to ask for advice before marrying him. Anyway u better open up to him, tell him how u feel nd apologize. Then u make ur marriage work, I don't advice divorce at all so u better start preparing ur mind from now.

My thought Exactly .......





So she planned taking the drugs uptill menopause? Let her continue and see who waste who's time.






I don't know why she can't transform some the admirations she has for him into love?? She has to start from there just as you rightly said.








#never marry who you don't love... else??....

khattab02:




My thought Exactly .......





So she planned taking the drugs uptill menopause? Let her continue and see who waste who's time.






I don't know why she can't transform some the admirations she has for him into love?? She has to start from there just as you rightly said.








#never marry who you don't love... else??....

As in ehn, it's just annoying me, I seriously pity her husband ooh

Na so all this arrange marriages the mostly be !!!

All this Naija Men living in Diaspora, I don't usually understand some of them..

Always telling their mama, papa or friend to find wife for them from Nigeria #haba...nd 80% of the girls mostly found are usually gold diggers, ex-oloshis, ill-manned, hypocrites...
When you mistakenly cari dem come abroad ,

Mehn sorry na ur name, dey go rake ur destiny nd ministry...
Na so dem rake my uncle life, na just Oluwa observe am small, him own for don finish ..

Trendition:
Got married two years ago to a now 34year old man, and I am 26. Met him through my mum when he came into the country 3years ago, so we dated for about 9months. We got married but he had to remain in canada while I stayed back.


Truth be told, I never loved him. He's rich, okay-looking, charming and all but I just do not love him. I married him cos I kinda saw him as a clean slate, a chance to start anew cos I have lived life, done things that I am not proud of, gotten heart broken. And I just don't want kids with a man I do not love. They say u can fall in love after marriage but not here, I just admire my husband.

Hubby comes home in December and stays through to february. I kept d pills in an empty bottle of multivitamins but never thought he'ld look closely at d inscriptions on the tablets cos I had gotten away with it the past years. No one has been on my neck about getting pregnant though.


He was so angry I thought he'ld throw me out that night. He's been sleeping in d guests', doesn't eat my food, he says I am a selfish and wicked woman. I'm sooooo scared he'll call my parents, I'll just die.


Do I just walk out now and risk my parents knowing what really happend? Will I find such a gentle man again? Do I get pregnant? will I love my kids? He's such a wonderful man but I don't love him!!!



PS: I never cheated on him

if na me, i will throw you out of my house, show ur parents the evidence, since am rich there are lots of girls who are willing to love me, or i will bring in another girl, get her pregnant, if u will complain, i will throw u out, u will refund the brideprice, may fire from above rape u there

tellwisdom:
You see what i talk about these Nigerian women??....Why did you agree to marry him when don't love him? WHY?

hehehehe..............



Fresh cool money and luxuries.. Most women hardly turn that down.

If u keep taking the what eva u taking ,it will only worsen u ,heart BROken common gul ,I wnt say I blame u we all r human bt @ least why not find a thing u love abt him love ,love him for some thing. Go shopping with him ,stay close to him everyday nd u will see changes....

Just be upfront and tell him that all you ever wanted from him was money. Do yourself a favour and be honest for once and all time so every party know what's at stake.

If I'm in your maga-husband's position, I will divorce you after than Usain Bolt can run, since I now have a reason not to give you a single penny.

Dis kind woman fit kill her husband and run away wit his money...

Tufia!!!
#ajo nwanyi!

U must one of olosho

KimBerlyie:



As in ehn, it's just annoying me, I seriously pity her husband ooh

I tell you..



Lol...

[quote author=Trendition post=41457747]Got married two years ago to a now 34year old man, and I am 26. Met him through my mum when he came into the country 3years ago, so we dated for about 9months. We got married but he had to remain in canada while I stayed back.


Truth be told, I never loved him. He's rich, okay-looking, charming and all but I just do not love him. I married him cos I kinda saw him as a clean slate, a chance to start anew cos I have lived life, done things that I am not proud of, gotten heart broken. And I just don't want kids with a man I do not love. They say u can fall in love after marriage but not here, I just admire my husband.

Hubby comes home in December and stays through to february. I kept d pills in an empty bottle of multivitamins but never thought he'ld look closely at d inscriptions on the tablets cos I had gotten away with it the past years. No one has been on my neck about getting pregnant though.
PLS MA, READ THIS BIBLE TEXT: MARK 10:1-12. TNX

Trendition:
Got married two years ago to a now 34year old man, and I am 26. Met him through my mum when he came into the country 3years ago, so we dated for about 9months. We got married but he had to remain in canada while I stayed back.


Truth be told, I never loved him. He's rich, okay-looking, charming and all but I just do not love him. I married him cos I kinda saw him as a clean slate, a chance to start anew cos I have lived life, done things that I am not proud of, gotten heart broken. And I just don't want kids with a man I do not love. They say u can fall in love after marriage but not here, I just admire my husband.

Hubby comes home in December and stays through to february. I kept d pills in an empty bottle of multivitamins but never thought he'ld look closely at d inscriptions on the tablets cos I had gotten away with it the past years. No one has been on my neck about getting pregnant though.


He was so angry I thought he'ld throw me out that night. He's been sleeping in d guests', doesn't eat my food, he says I am a selfish and wicked woman. I'm sooooo scared he'll call my parents, I'll just die.


Do I just walk out now and risk my parents knowing what really happend? Will I find such a gentle man again? Do I get pregnant? will I love my kids? He's such a wonderful man but I don't love him!!!



PS: I never cheated on him

so u just married him for the money right?

This is not fair ooo. Well, just try and beg him and pray dat he rebuild d trust in u cos he may likely just go back and abandon u for another woman he could trust. And i am very sure u wouldnt want to imagine dat whether u love him or not

daretodiffer:
The man must have been one of those men that scremas ashawo, hoes, sluts etc. He must have called second generation Nigerian women names and made them promises he knew he wouldn't keep. He could have knocked up quite a few and just couldn't be bothered because he is a smartass.

How on earth did you come up with all these?

I still don't get why every one is saying it's too late...is it by force to stay in marriage...these are one of the major causes or domestic violence and murder..when pple marry for strange reasons like I'm getting old or its an opportunity I dnt wanna miss,or d guy is rich. Etc... my point is..she doesn't love d dude...she can always take a hike nd begin again...its not a good thing being someone u dnt love for crying out loud this a for ever, till death do us part transaction...how the hell do u even sleep with someone u dnt have feelings for...u be olosho??...babe waka from that relationship...uve made a mistake marrying him u don't have to live a mistake continously just cos u dnt wanna offend ur folks or u scared to start over...if u don't eventually fall in love with him..there will come a time u won't be able to stand his mere presence in the other room..and if care is not taken,u'll do something drastic just to to be free

U are jst fortunate and lucky do u knw how many ladies are out there that are looking for half of what u have jst to bear MRS? U better get pregnant ASAP and pray for twins with that he will forgive u instantly

Trendition:
Got married two years ago to a now 34year old man, and I am 26. Met him through my mum when he came into the country 3years ago, so we dated for about 9months. We got married but he had to remain in canada while I stayed back.


Truth be told, I never loved him. He's rich, okay-looking, charming and all but I just do not love him. I married him cos I kinda saw him as a clean slate, a chance to start anew cos I have lived life, done things that I am not proud of, gotten heart broken. And I just don't want kids with a man I do not love. They say u can fall in love after marriage but not here, I just admire my husband.

Hubby comes home in December and stays through to february. I kept d pills in an empty bottle of multivitamins but never thought he'ld look closely at d inscriptions on the tablets cos I had gotten away with it the past years. No one has been on my neck about getting pregnant though.


He was so angry I thought he'ld throw me out that night. He's been sleeping in d guests', doesn't eat my food, he says I am a selfish and wicked woman. I'm sooooo scared he'll call my parents, I'll just die.


Do I just walk out now and risk my parents knowing what really happend? Will I find such a gentle man again? Do I get pregnant? will I love my kids? He's such a wonderful man but I don't love him!!!



PS: I never cheated on him

This is why it's difficult for diaspora folks to trust the love of a naija woman.
I think previous comments have done justice to my opinion

Askseek:


How on earth did you come up with all these?

Nairaland

Are you new?

See wat I hate abt nowadays female, now is dd time dey wil think things are fallin apart, when u were tearin them apart, u didn't knw. Well all u wil do is meet ur husband, tel him ur mind nd let him decide what to do, nd u av nothing to do cos u are faulty, secondly I tot u said u are 26 yrs old nd stil afraid of ur parents? Dat sucks, face ur responsibility. Nd go for who u love so u can get rid of usin contraceptive. Good luck