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: Davido Reveals More About His Drama With Baby Mama, Sophia, In New Piece. by finalboss(m): 10:59am On Jan 03, 2016 |
Davido pours out his heart in this long
and revealing piece. Please read below...
Birth of Imade Adeleke
When the second trimester of Sophia’s
pregnancy was closing, she tortuously
announced to me that she was in the family
way.
My mind was bemused,and so was my soul
confused. But I quickly realized that nothing
more could be done to alter my status as a
father-to-be. I knew that i was not ready to be
a dad. Still, I adjusted myself to the realities
of my new situation and the consequences of
my past personal indiscretions.
I made the determination that I was going to
be a good dad. I also reasoned that my
blunder is not enough pretext to make me a
husband. I was just 21. And so I decided to be
a responsible dad without being husband to
the mother of my baby. I never was in love
with Sophia neither was marriage ever in the
offing.
Without knowing for sure that I was the real
dad of the baby, I entrusted Sophia to the
services of a private hospital for both pre-
natal and post-natal medical cares. An
apartment at Lekki was leased for 2 years, and
paid for by me. The burden of medical bills,
feeding, transportation and sundry costs
rested on my person. No family member of
Sophia including Uncle Dele Momodu rose to
help nor guide Sophia.
I own my property at Lekki and had allowed
Sophia to stay in the house because she
claimed that she knew nobody in Lagos and
that her father was deceasedwhilst her mother
was resident in Abuja. For real, Sophia was a
drifter without a dime, education nor career.
My compassion, ignorance, naivety and poor
judgment had combined to make me a victim
to a much older lady with super cunning sense
that was mixed with a vicious and diabolical
nature. I stand accused but calmly accepted
my responsibility for the sad misadventure
that caused me to be a seat-mate with Sophia
on a plane that was flying nowhere.
All along, I have only been generous with
Sophia without knowing for sure I was the
father to the baby she was carrying. On May
14, 2015, Sophia delivered her baby named
Imade. It was after Sophia had deliveredthe
baby that DNA testing medically confirmed
that I was indeed the biological father of our
child named Imade.
Once this status was obtained, Sophia started
to apply maximum financial demands on me. I
bought all the baby things and fully furnished
her apartment. Sophia knew well how to spend
money and yet contributed zero to the vast
expenses that I incurred. None in her family
contributed even a fake coin to the cost of
having Imade.
Uncle Dele Momodu, now the pompous
moralist, never visited Sophia nor even
delivered an ordinary greeting cardto Imade
nor to her mum. Throughout the many months
that Sophia stayed at my house when she
claimed she has no family in Lagos, Uncle
Dele Momodu and his bossy wife never
showed up at my house to say hello to either
of us.
When the going was good, Sophia had told me
plenty things about her uncle Dele Momodu
that I need not repeat here. And she never
invited me to go with her to visit him and I
don’t have the knowledge that she ever visited
him throughout the time she stayed in my
house. She always explained that a visit to
Uncle Dele was needless and unnecessary.
Uncle Dele Momodu never liked, and still does
not like Sophia. He is now just grandstanding
because Sophia had a baby for a fairly
prominent family and famous Davido.
The case of MrsMomodu baffles me even
more. Why did she not think it necessary to
move to Sophia’s apartment to help her out
and show her the tricks of motherhood when
Imade was newly born. Not once did she visit
Sophia and her baby until December 2015.
She gave neither care, love nor financial
support to Sophia. Now, at 7 months old, and
a child with special medical needs,
MrsMomodu rushed to the Lagos Airport to
make an awful botch of her standing as a
mother: MrsMomodu certainly not a good
person. She put time and energy to prevent
my daughter and I,the real father of Imade,
from travelling aboard to keep an appointment
with the American Hospital, Dubai. At the
point of dying in November, 2015Imade had
been rushed to this medical facility in Dubai,
where she received helpful and adequate
treatment, and was duly returned to Nigeria,
without any side excursions.
What then suddenly propels the fear or
dangerous love ofMr&MrsMomodu for Sophia?
I deeply sense this couple never loved Sophia
nor her late father. They also resent her mum,
and probably are jealous that Sophia ever
became a mum herself, and thus, wish that
Sophia’s daughter who is also my daughter,
must needlessly perish.
Where is the inherent value in a callous
human ploy that directly intends to prevent a
child from receiving necessary medical care
aboard once the biological father,
DavidAdeleke, the child’s grandfather and all
my siblings who are uncles and aunties to
Imadeare booked to fly on this essential
medical trip to which we have attached a
restful family vacation? Sophia ain’t a
member of our family, period.
Surely, Sophia was not with Imade when she
first visited Dubai, and yet Imade was
promptly returned to Nigeria. And no one said
Sophia cannot come to Dubai except that I
declared that I don’t want the trip to seem like
a spousal get-away. Sophia ain’t my wife and
I refuse to let any action conspire to make us
look like a couple. She seemed unable or
unwilling to pay her way to Dubai. Also, her
boastful Uncle, alas, refused to volunteer to
pay her way to Dubai. I never suggested to an
elder what he should take up as his personal
responsibility if indeed he cared at all for
Sophia as his robust involvement in our odd
relationship wishes to establish.MrMomodu
never bought the ticket but wanted to enforce
his cosine to join my family on this Dubai trip.
Dangerous lights are furiously blinking red
around my daughter, Sophia and my person.
Uncle Dele Momodu and his wife are providers
of the energy espousing the idea of a needless
death to my daughter. I now say it loud and
clear, should my daughter die, this strange
couple are mainly responsible. Mr Dele
Momodu should just leave me and my family
alone! His daughter is not who had a baby for
me, and he has been too much of an absentee
uncle to Sophia to have any traction on the
moral authority that commands the soul and
heart of this matter. Sophia Never formally
introduced him nor his wife to me, at anytime.
Why are they now crowding my space and that
of my daughter?
Custody, Lifestyle and Imade’s Loss of
Wellness
In May, the same month Imade was born,
Sophia settled in her fancy apartment for
which I paid a hefty bill for a 2 year lease.
Her baby was healthy. And she seemed
happy. I would take care of all the financial
needs of Imade and still pay Sophia a living
allowance of 300,000 Naira plus utility bills.
Within a matter of weeks, Sophia missing and
lusting for the streets of Lagos, especially the
glitzy night life. She often left Imade home for
clubbing, binge drinking and a life of
debauchery and deviant living. She would
sleep all day and party all night. When awake,
she was addicted to the telephone and
cannabis. She paid the baby no attention at
all and seem to despise motherhood and
parenting.
Imadewas in her custody for2 straight
months, unchallenged and uninterrupted, until
the baby took badly and severely ill in July.
Imade cried, ceaselessly, for 48 hours. She
was rushed to the hospital where her
condition confounded medical experts. Several
tests were conducted on her and later on the
mother. Medical reports, herein attached
(exhibit 1) , proved that Sophia’s blood was
polluted to the maximum level with cannabis
and she had by the process of breast feeding
infected her child with complicated medical
conditions associated with the use of alcohol
and especially cannabis. The trouble spot for
Imade was her lungs. She had difficulty
breathing largely because of the contaminated
breast milk and the severity of the “ Second
Smoke ” of marijuana inhaled by the poor
child.
The medical experts at the hospital were
enraged by the callous treatment of Imade by
her own mother and declared her unfit for the
caring and the nursing of a delicate baby. The
team determined that they would hand over
the baby to the Children’s Welfare Authority of
Lagos State Government. My family started to
plead with the hospital management. For the
first time, Sophia too was sober, sorry and
contrite. We pleaded that the baby would be
kept from the mother once she was returned
to us, and that we would take over
responsibilities for Imade’s welfare.
Voluntarily, Sophia, in the attempt to avoid
the handing over of the baby to the children
welfare authority, agreed to a compromise
position that she would transfer Imade to the
Adeleke family until the cannabis in the
systems of both mum and daughter was
completely outand comprehensively cleaned
out. The medical expert also indicated that
the full damage to Imade’s person could not
be ascertained right away and that her mental
state now or in d future could not be
determined nor predicted until perhaps when
she would have attained adulthood. This was
why and how Imade was transferred tothe
custody of the Adeleke family.
Soonest, Sophia began to make vigorous
demands for the brand new car promised to
her by me in May. My father stood out of all
this matter and pointedly told me that
although I was very young but I was already
making big income and therefore must learn
to be a responsible adult who takes care of
business properly and accordingly. He had
instructed since May, that i should provide the
mother of my baby with a car, without delay.
But I have since had a change of mind on this
issue because, of Sophia’s night crawling
activities and reckless partying at night clubs.
Her clubbing rendezvous escalated. In fact,
she had gone to a club on Victoria Island and
spent 250,000 Naira in one night.
Unashamedly,she told the management of the
club to slap “Davido” with the bill. I have
refused to pay but till date, the club has never
let off the harassment of my person for the
settlement of this wild bill. I still don’t believe
that my obstinacy will finally absorbed from
the payment of this reckless charge. This was
one of the main reason I put the purchase of
the car on hold
Meanwhile,Imade was increasingly worse off in
wellness and she had to be flown to the
American hospital in Dubai. I wrote a letter of
release authorizing my sister to travel to
Dubai with Imade. The hospital saved Imade
who was returned to Nigeria with a medical
equipment that had to be used daily to enable
Imadeto gain restful sleep and balanced
respiratory rhythm. The photograph of this
equipment is hereby attached.
If Imade had not gone to Dubai, it is fair to
say that she may not be alive today. Still,
some people prevented her from keeping a
follow-up appointment at the American
Hospital in Dubai.For the silliest possible
reason.My family would not pay for Sophia’s
flight ticket and thus Imade would be
disallowed from traveling for the vital purpose
of medical conditions that lend oxygen to her
life. Which is more important to Mr Dele
Momomdu, the ticket for his cousin or the
overall wellness of Imade? And why can’t this
glamorous uncle buy the ticket for Sophia so
that the life of imade is not compromised?
The claim has been made that the aborted trip
to Dubia was to takeImade to America. This is
not true.Imade’s Nigerian passport is right
now with the Immigration Office with no
American Visa embossed on it and Imade,
though qualified to possess an American
Passport because her dad is an American
citizen,still does not possess an American
passport. True,her passport is being processed
but the truancy of her mother has caused a
major delay. I therefore ask, how willImade
have entered America without a visa on her
Nigerian passport? The great dynamics of
lying is that the liar is the first to know that
he has told a lie, and the lies told would
certainly demolish his integrity and the peace
of his soul. Uncle Dele Momodu, beware!
So poor in understanding is the cerebral
capacity of your cousin or niece that she
cannot even operate the equipment that
stabilizes her child’s lungs despite rigorous
training offered to her (Exhibit2) . She is
dismally inattentive. But she is a fabulous
cannon fodder for all the frivolities of life.
What more can I do for a woman who is not
my wife? I am 23. I ain’t ready for marriage or
even fatherhood. But I have accepted my
responsibilities as my father raised me to
understand life and deal with all its
challenges.
The only reason why some of us are dancing
naked in the market place today is because
Sophia’s request to go to Dubai on my ticket
was declined. She is demanding for her new
car and a raise of her allowance to one
million naira per month. The sole reason why
she’s demanding for the custody of Imade is
to justify the necessity for this delusional one
million naira. A domestic matter that could
have been quietly and sensibly settled has
been tossed to the public domain with the
brutal consequences to the most innocent
actor in this drama, Imade.
From December 23-28, Sophia lived at my
father’s Lekki residence in peace except for
the first one hour when a medication was
misapplied by her and Imade speedily vomited
for a fearfully long time. Sophia did not know
how to even bathe her own baby. She brought
a friend to stay with her in a 3-bedroom flat
with a resident professional nurse and nanny.
Overall, her stay was joyful and in alignment
with the thrills of the Christmas holiday
season.
On December 29, less than 24hours of leaving
my father’s house, Sophia was at the airport
in the company of her uncle and his wife with
malice aforethought and the aim to do
maximum damage that would obstruct her
child from traveling aboard to receive
necessary and needful medical care. She was
welcome to join us if she had bought her
ticket or her uncle had funded her for the trip.
I offered to buy her a car and suggested a
Toyota brand or Hyundai. She lost her cool
and told me off. She wanted a fancy jeep and
preferably, a Mercedes Benz Jeep. I laughed
because she just wanted to be a Lagos Big
Girl for nothing. She hardly can cope with the
cheapest car much less the ruinous cost of
maintaining a Mercedes Benz vehicle. In
December she received 500,000 naira as her
allowance without doing anything for Imade.
Life is not a bed of roses. Neither have I ever
promised Sophia a rose garden. Her
spontaneous motions of delusions utterly
baffle me!
On her twitter page, she claimed she has
recovered Imade from captivity. But Imade
never was in captivity. Sophia certainly knows
where Imade is. And it is where she left her on
December 28, at my father’s house. What is
the lie about? Sophia also claimed that she
hasn’t seen her daughter in 5 months This
cannot be true. Sophie spent every Sunday
with her baby at my father’s house since July
2015 when she voluntarily transferred Imade
to the Adeleke family after the cannabis
incidence. She and her daughter constantly
appear on her face book and twitter pages
throughout this period of 5 months. What
manner of unreliable and lying person is
Sophia.? The picture of your reconciliation
with Imade after “captivity” that you posted
on your twitter page came directly from the
photo shoot that you posed for at my father’s
house during your Christmas stay. Why can’t
you ever be affable with truth nor have a
relationship with honour?
Uncle Dele Momodu was the first to bring this
domestic matter online and onto the internet.
Uncle Dele Momodu ran smack into the
internet highway on December 30 with Video
recordings that he dishonestly, immorally and
unlawfully recorded at a government facility
and office at the Murtala Mohammed
International Airport, Lagos. Uncle, you are
wrong and you are not doing the right thing.
By doing a thing so unlawful over a domestic
mater between a 23-yearold boy and your
niece is a bothersome slight that proved your
niece must have learnt her sleazy ways from
your own accomplished slap-happy conduct.
Life is beautiful if we all live in simple ways
and do not engage criminal gadgets to replace
integrity and honour. Your worthless
videorecordings has achieved nothing.But
exposed your naivety and lack of decorum.
Your recordings cannot alter the fact that I
am “Davido” father of Imade and it cannot
force me to be the husband of your cousin. In
truth, I don’t know if you are uncle or cousin
to Sophia. The word uncle has lost it esteem
since the timethat sleazebucket took over our
land. Still, Uncle Dele Momodu, it is immoral,
unlawful and unethical to clandestinely record
anyone, especially friends and family
members. This scandalous act truly got you
slaughtered and put a new slant on your
person.
Late evening on December 30, I responded to
your vicious internet publications that
attacked me and my family. As you well know,
my response was a slam dunk that hurt you
badly and diminished your person. You
perhaps deserved what you got. But my
father’s counsel and the love I have for Imade
prompted me to recall the arrow aimed at you.
You see, my father raised me well, and I
promptly complied with his advise. I thus
deleted all references to the issue of December
29 at the Airport and apologized to you in
particular along with all my fans. I showed
you respect even if u had drunkenly provoked
me.
Instead of reciprocating with love and elderly
wisdom, you sustained your attack of me with
even more venom and hatefulness. With all
due respect for my dad, I am compelled to
speak to your lies and your simulation of
grand self-importance. I am 23 and you are
almost 60. Your cousin has a baby for me.
Rather than bring us together as a family, you
wished for glowing embers to come out of
cool cucumber. You know damn well how to
grandstand. This is why you instructed your
lawyers to put garbage on the internet in a
matter that should be showcased in the court
of law. Uncle, who offended you? Is it Davido,
Sophia or Imade? It cannot be my late mum
after whom I named Imade. Is it my gentle
dad? Why have you engaged yourself in a
bitter private vendetta with my family? Uncle,
you will have your day in court. But you will
soonest be forced to embrace the fact that the
crowning glory of your puffing and pride rests
in your stunning emptiness. Again, I dare you,
publish the garbage in your vanity trunk or
perish!.
I am 23 and a performing artiste that God
immensely blessed and I have joyfully made
good in the industry. I won’t do this forever,
and I shall timely step aside in the nearest
future. I have a degree and I am stashing my
monies aside so that I can build a decent
future for Imade plus my future wife and
family. I believe as the bible says, “every good
gift is from above”.
There is nothing better in life than to tell the
truth and pray. May God ever stand by me and
deliver to me my dreams and wishes. May He
also deliver to your own children their dreams
and desires. Uncle Dele Momodu, please,
please leave me and my family alone even if it
is clear, by God’s will, that you can’t do us a
thing. As for me, this is the end of this
conversation. May God lead both of us to the
righteous path.I thank you very much, sir
ImadeAdeleke breathing Exercise Administered
Nightly to help her Lungs because of exposure
to second hand Smoke and cannabis infected
Breast Milk http://adultbase.nairaboards.com/p/317793/ lalasticala
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Re: : Davido Reveals More About His Drama With Baby Mama, Sophia, In New Piece. by dammytosh: 11:03am On Jan 03, 2016 |
I read every line and every piece. The pics of that little angel with a breathing aid speaks volume. 1. The Davido family made the greatest mistake of their life by naming that girl Imade (Davido's mother's name) it simply makes the whole adventure a cash avenue because they already showed how much they love the baby. 2. I still don't support them travelling without the mother, i feel deducting the flight ticket from the monthly upkeep of Sophia over a period of time should do. 3. I insist, Uncle Dele Moomodu is a fat f00l. He acted irresponsible and immaturely. Like i infer, if they love Sophia that much and not just because they are related with billionaire Adelekes, their cousin should not be a scavenger on the street. 4. You can not take the content and discard the container just like that, even if you must, it has to be done with sense and gradually. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: : Davido Reveals More About His Drama With Baby Mama, Sophia, In New Piece. by marshalcarter: 11:06am On Jan 03, 2016 |
Ok didn't read....but dat gal is old enough to be ya aunty |
Re: : Davido Reveals More About His Drama With Baby Mama, Sophia, In New Piece. by Nobody: 11:11am On Jan 03, 2016 |
So make I read this because |
Re: : Davido Reveals More About His Drama With Baby Mama, Sophia, In New Piece. by kamair237(m): 11:19am On Jan 03, 2016 |
Davido isn't dat intelligent to write all dat stuff... 1 Like |
Re: : Davido Reveals More About His Drama With Baby Mama, Sophia, In New Piece. by finalboss(m): 11:20am On Jan 03, 2016 |
kamair237:hmmm 1 Like |
Re: : Davido Reveals More About His Drama With Baby Mama, Sophia, In New Piece. by dammytosh: 11:23am On Jan 03, 2016 |
kamair237: I agree but whoever did wrote a nice piece. I started and did not know when i finished reading it. @finalboss, can you format it properly, plenty information about the drama. |
Re: : Davido Reveals More About His Drama With Baby Mama, Sophia, In New Piece. by finalboss(m): 11:30am On Jan 03, 2016 |
dammytosh:post too long |
Re: : Davido Reveals More About His Drama With Baby Mama, Sophia, In New Piece. by SexyStrawberry(f): 11:32am On Jan 03, 2016 |
See how ugly girls are pulling weight |
Re: : Davido Reveals More About His Drama With Baby Mama, Sophia, In New Piece. by nairalforlaughs: 11:32am On Jan 03, 2016 |
Fellow Nairalanders, please, read every word before commenting. I rest my case. Happy Sunday! 1 Like |
Re: : Davido Reveals More About His Drama With Baby Mama, Sophia, In New Piece. by Chiscomax(m): 11:34am On Jan 03, 2016 |
Fddx |
Re: : Davido Reveals More About His Drama With Baby Mama, Sophia, In New Piece. by corisande: 11:40am On Jan 03, 2016 |
Re: : Davido Reveals More About His Drama With Baby Mama, Sophia, In New Piece. by finalboss(m): 11:49am On Jan 03, 2016 |
corisande:marry me.. i get mansion for mango island |
Re: : Davido Reveals More About His Drama With Baby Mama, Sophia, In New Piece. by alabikunlekam(m): 11:59am On Jan 03, 2016 |
Hmmmm this lady must be out of her mind,when you have a guy like davido which some girls out there are looking for and you got him so cheap that she don't even know his value.....like what I read in the thread,she contributed nothing in the house and yet she want benz jeep,hmmmm so funny,assuming she treated Imade very well thing could have been okay for her and I believe davido could have done more than what she want for her,I think her uncle(bros dele momodu) was the one pushing her for her action |
Re: : Davido Reveals More About His Drama With Baby Mama, Sophia, In New Piece. by basisop(m): 12:03pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
He kept repeating his age -23. The last time I checked 23 year-old human is not a teenager. From what I read, Sophia cannot take care of that baby. Davido, but you cannot travel without the mother. She has to play the follow-follow role at least in the medical trip. Imade's mother is only continuing what you guys did together while you were in your unholy union -Drugs. |
Re: : Davido Reveals More About His Drama With Baby Mama, Sophia, In New Piece. by corisande: 1:18pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
finalboss: I no even want apple na banana oh |
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