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Is It Wrong To Date Someone In The Same Church As You Are? by Nobody: 12:57pm On Jan 05, 2016
So i noticed i started developing feelings for one girl in my church. She's in the choir, i first fell in love with her voice,, then we got close. I got close to her male friend, then i told him about my feelings for Sandra (not real name), he seriously discouraged me, saying i need to brushup my skills as an Alpha male.

I made the same mistake in confiding in another female member of the same church about it, and i received the same strong disagreement.

So my question to the house, is it wrong to date someone in the same church as you are?
Re: Is It Wrong To Date Someone In The Same Church As You Are? by obiorathesubtle: 1:00pm On Jan 05, 2016
Yes! You won't be able to have sex in peace!
Re: Is It Wrong To Date Someone In The Same Church As You Are? by Tallesty1(m): 1:01pm On Jan 05, 2016
Two people already know that you love her, but the girl in question is not aware of that.




Reminds me of my JSS3 days.
Re: Is It Wrong To Date Someone In The Same Church As You Are? by Sexxkillz: 1:06pm On Jan 05, 2016
[color=#000030]It's not wrong. But you have to admit it's going to be awkward. Consider your freedom gone. You cannot freely talk to another girl without her raising eyebrows.

I personally cannot do it. There used to be a time when I thought I could, but not anymore. Everything has advantages and disadvantages. In my personal opinion though, the disadvantages of this, outweighs the advantages.
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Re: Is It Wrong To Date Someone In The Same Church As You Are? by StefanSalvatore: 1:06pm On Jan 05, 2016
Yes kinda cuz d pastor go dey spoil ur show everytym e strts preaching about all those kind of tinz

U understand grin
Re: Is It Wrong To Date Someone In The Same Church As You Are? by utenwuson: 1:16pm On Jan 05, 2016
jst imagine d pastor. preaching agains fornication! preaching on why d boy dating u is deceiving u, telling u dating. is a sin. n all sort of tins u av in common wt d lady! my brother guilt will finish ur carrier
Re: Is It Wrong To Date Someone In The Same Church As You Are? by Nobody: 1:19pm On Jan 05, 2016
Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]It's not wrong. But you have to admit it's going to be awkward. Consider your freedom gone. You cannot freely talk to another girl without her raising eyebrows.

I personally cannot do it. There used to be a time when I thought I could, but not anymore. Everything has advantages and disadvantages. In my personal opinion though, the disadvantages of this, outweighs the advantages.
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Yeah bro cheesy. I'm considering changing church
Re: Is It Wrong To Date Someone In The Same Church As You Are? by Nobody: 1:22pm On Jan 05, 2016
obiorathesubtle:
Yes! You won't be able to have sex in peace!
lol, who talked about sex here? :-P
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