Date someone who makes you feel safe. Someone you can tell your deepest secrets to and they won’t judge you. Someone you trust not to give up on you when the going gets tough. Someone whose affection towards you never wavers whether things are going smoothly or when he’s facing a crisis.

There is no malice in his words when he talks to you, no sarcasm in his remarks, and no intention to hurt you. He won’t belittle you in your abilities. He won’t insult your looks and body. He won’t use you for his selfish purposes.

He strives to be the light in your life, the love in your heart, and the forever you believe in. He makes the effort when it comes to you. He isn’t afraid of going the extra mile and he is willing to move heaven and earth to be with you.

Date someone you can trust your heart with and who you know you can always count on.

He knows you are who he’s looking for and he’s certain of his feelings for you.


There are no obstacles too big to be conquered, no wrong timing that needs to be right, and no unwavering of heart that deters both of you from getting together. There are no exes in the picture or in his life. There are no girls he wants to impress or at the sideline waiting to take your place.

You are the only one he wants to know and the only girl in his heart.

He kisses your tears away tenderly and encourages you to pick yourself up and try again. He heals the fragmented pieces of your heart by loving you with his whole heart. He becomes a permanent spot in your life and loves you to infinity and beyond.

He talks to you from the crack of dawn to nightfall and never runs out of words to say. You can feel his presence with you from the moment you open your eyes until you fall asleep with a smile on your face, knowing he will still be there when you wake up. He wants to know what you are thinking and your opinion on everything. He adores your quirks and flaws, as they make you, you.

Date someone who makes love easy.

He doesn’t play mind games with you or deceive your feelings. He doesn’t switch into a completely different person every time you see him, so much so, that you won’t know which version of him is real. He makes you forget about all the insignificant things like who should text first and to refrain from appearing too interested. He makes you want to abandon all your misgivings and hesitation about love and believes in second chances.

Date someone who makes you believe in love.

Not the diluted, cheapened, half-love that modern dating has us believing to be true. The kind of big love that is every bit as magical as you believe it to be. The best friend type of love when you know each other as well as you know yourself. The soulmate love when you find and choose each other to fall in love with and be together against all obstacles.

The love that comes once in a lifetime.

Source: http://www.baesdiary.com.ng/2017/04/you-should-date-someone-who-makes-love.html#more

Awwwww! so nice, but when we find that person, something will prevent us from marrying them.

And they will always take that person for granted......

banjicom:
And they will always take that person for granted......

Not everyone does that......

Some still appreciate true affection.

ToriBlue:
Awwwww! so nice, but when we find that person, something will prevent us from marrying them.

Thanks dear.

Its not everytime something prevents us from marrying them, some people still end up with their 'dream' person.

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Lol.

Do people marry without dating/courting (irrespective of the time frame)?

I mean if dating is a waste of time/resources, then marriage would be hard.

Lovely write up

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U mean u just pick a random girl, and walk down the aisle with her without knowing her first?

Dating/courting is a period where you get to know someone, then you decide if you want to marry them. This is the reason not all dating leads to marriage.....

Bumbae1:
Lovely write up

Thank you. Hope you read it to the end...

Bumbae1:
Lovely write up

hmmm staring @ you with one eye's

Bumbae1:
Lovely write up

hmmm staring @ you with one eye's

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You are so funny.....

Nice one...But they will not learn!

ToriBlue:
Awwwww! so nice, but when we find that person, something will prevent us from marrying them.

sooo true, infact one crate of groundnut for you. 30kobo for your account

I like the write up. But i have a contrary opinion. Just too tired to type it, wish seun can add option for a voice comment cc seun

Bumbae1:
Lovely write up

You are on every thread.

am still waiting for him o bros do come fast o

am still waiting for him o bros do come fast o

obiorathesubtle:
Dating is a waste of time, money, and the million and one other important resources that would've been better utilized even by rearing cattle..

The lady who broke your heart must have been experiencing menstrual cramps when she did. Brutal

firstking01:
You are on every thread.

Really ! You dont mean it

Martin124:
hmmm staring @ you with one eye's hmmm staring @ you with one eye's

obiorathesubtle:


Yes, I will do that..



It's a waste of time dear, don't say I didn't warn you..

I feel your pain bro, besides how much you don make so far.... dey bobo yourself dia, is either you are broke or ugly. Dating is fun mehn. don't quote me pls

Bumbae1:

madam,how far na?

That's how they'll be deceiving you with love, but at the end of it all you get burnt and back to square one, shit_ is just a waste of time jare..

missdashin:
am still waiting for him o bros do come fast o

see me i don come ooo

My experience has thought me never to tell any one my secretes or whatever bothers me, cos I feel they might end up using it against me

Bumbae1:
Really ! You dont mean it

And you hardly sleep.

Op nice writeup. But telling her my deepest secrets is a no no for me, these gals are nt predictable u know.... Btw I have this gal I like very much, but it seems she don't ve any emotion, she once had a failed relationship, but it seems she's not ready to let go. Even when I tell her I love her, she says she doesn't believe those words. Pls what can I do to her ?

enesty77:
My experience has thought me never to tell any one my secretes or whatever bothers me, cos I feel they might end up using it against me

I get your point. Some people will use your secret against you.....

That's why you should know the person well enough, before you tell them your secret.

Try telling them something little first and see how they react to that.

Twizzy30:
Op nice writeup. But telling her my deepest secrets is a no no for me, these gals are nt predictable u know.... Btw I have this gal I like very much, but it seems she don't ve any emotion, she once had a failed relationship, but it seems she's not ready to let go. Even when I tell her I love her, she says she doesn't believe those words. Pls what can I do to her ?

Thank you.

Well, I think you should not rush her to be in love with you. Love is patient. Also, she need's to heal from her previous relationship, so you dont end up as a rebound. Trust me, if you force her to be in a relationship with you, it might not last. She would use you to 'cushion'(read about this on my blog) the effect of hr failed relationship. When she eventually finds someone she feels she loves, she moves on and you feel heartbroken.

Don't rush her, stop telling her you love her for now, just express it in your actions i.e the things you do for her..... If she eventually trust you not to break her heart, she will want all of you, she will want a relationship with you. All the best!