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Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by GreatManBee: 11:18am On Jan 07, 2016
Godwin10123:

How some Ladies are destroying their Marriage without knowing

If you are one of those ladies who no longer respect people who are older than you because of the things you see in social media then you can't be my friend; I will keep you at bay. Respect for ones elders is one of the cardinal principles I learn from my parents and I live by that. Many marriages are failing today because women want to be equal with men blindly, hence there is no peace on many homes.

Read this interesting eye-opener from a married woman...

When I got married, I was amazed at the instant, overwhelming sense of responsibility I felt to love and care for my husband. Suddenly, a huge part of someone else’s well-being and happiness was largely affected by my choices and actions.

Women, we need to be careful about how we are caring for our husbands and marriages. Don’t let the small stuff ruin the things that will bring you the greatest happiness in life.

Here are just a few ways you might be unknowingly destroying your husband and killing your marriage.

1. Living outside of what you can afford
A wise old woman from my church congregation once advised: “The best thing you can do as a wife is to live within your husband’s means.”

Wives, show sincere appreciation and respect to your husband by carefully following a budget and making the most of what you have. Be wise about your finances.

Constantly complaining about not having enough to fulfill your lavish desires or racking up astronomical amounts of debt for yourself and your husband is a poor way of saying “thank you” to a faithful spouse who works hard every day to provide for the family.

Yes, you may not have enough to buy that deigner shoes or bag you’ve had your eyes on recently, but your husband will love and appreciate the fact that you honor him and are grateful for what he provides.

2. Constant negativity
You hate your hair, the messes around the house, the neighbor across the street, your dumb co-worker, the old dishwasher, and everything in between. As soon as your husband walks through the door, you launch into action and dump every negative and angry thought that’s crossed your mind.

Can you imagine having to carry that burden? Negativity is draining. Men like to fix things, and constantly being hounded with complaints makes it difficult for him to help solve your pains.

If there is one thing I’ve learned from marriage is that a good man wants you to be happy, and if he can’t help you do that, it makes him unhappy.

3. Putting everything else first
When your children, mom, best friends, talents, or career in front of your husband, you send a clear message to him that he is unimportant. Imagine having that message sent to you every day for many years. What would that do to your self esteem?

Put your husband first! Although it sometimes seems counter-intuitive and counterproductive, I think you’d be amazed to find that it’s often the key to the greatest happiness in marriage. So many couples get divorced these days, because of neglect and to a large extent disrespect.

If you choose to put him first, you will find a lot of joy.

4. Withholding physical affection
Men crave and need physical affection with their wives. When you constantly decline intimacy, it wears on them. Sex should not be used as a tool to control your spouse; it should be viewed as a sacred tool to draw you closer to one another and to God.

It is a great blessing to be wanted and needed by a loving, romantic husband who wants to share something so beautiful and important with you — and you only. Even though you might not always be in the mood, it’s worth it to give in (unless you are sick) and spend that time bonding.

5. Not speaking his language
Don’t waste your time giving subtle hints that he won’t understand: Speak plainly to him. Be honest about your feelings, and don’t bottle things up until you burst. If he asks you what’s wrong, don’t respond with “nothing” and then expect him to read your mind. Be open to your man and grow your marriage.

http://www.olufamous.com/2016/01/how-some-ladies-today-are-killing-their.html?m=1
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by fabulousmann(f): 11:31am On Jan 07, 2016
Lordskyes:
Tell them baba
na man?
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by anukulapo: 11:34am On Jan 07, 2016
Nice one
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by ReneeNuttall(f): 11:34am On Jan 07, 2016
tnxs wen d time comes i will apply d formular

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Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by MistadeRegal(m): 11:37am On Jan 07, 2016
GOD bless the writer. I wish you could come and tell her the last part of your writes. I spend time trying to read her mind when she gives me the ''Nothing'' as reply when I notice she's unhappy and honestly this kills me inside. She is ok in every other aspects except this only. We have talked about it several times but she hasn't fully let go of this attitude.

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Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by Nobody: 11:40am On Jan 07, 2016
ournaijablog:
This should relate to both men and women because everything you have stated here is a trait of both sexes
yes, more of a woman than a man

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Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by DeRay98(m): 11:40am On Jan 07, 2016
Ijaya123:
This makes sense to me.

But the question is, will they learn?
My bro, they won't learn. They would rather use the time to read such and learn, for gossiping who is wearing the latest fashion design. Every stubborn girl thinks she is smarter the other girls that had marital problems until her own suffers similar fate and she starts blaming another person...

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Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by fadareabiodun: 11:56am On Jan 07, 2016
Love is a beautiful things if all this clues can be consider...nakosinto..
Godwin10123:

How some Ladies are destroying their Marriage without knowing

If you are one of those ladies who no longer respect people who are older than you because of the things you see in social media then you can't be my friend; I will keep you at bay. Respect for ones elders is one of the cardinal principles I learn from my parents and I live by that. Many marriages are failing today because women want to be equal with men blindly, hence there is no peace on many homes.

Read this interesting eye-opener from a married woman...

When I got married, I was amazed at the instant, overwhelming sense of responsibility I felt to love and care for my husband. Suddenly, a huge part of someone else’s well-being and happiness was largely affected by my choices and actions.

Women, we need to be careful about how we are caring for our husbands and marriages. Don’t let the small stuff ruin the things that will bring you the greatest happiness in life.

Here are just a few ways you might be unknowingly destroying your husband and killing your marriage.

1. Living outside of what you can afford
A wise old woman from my church congregation once advised: “The best thing you can do as a wife is to live within your husband’s means.”

Wives, show sincere appreciation and respect to your husband by carefully following a budget and making the most of what you have. Be wise about your finances.

Constantly complaining about not having enough to fulfill your lavish desires or racking up astronomical amounts of debt for yourself and your husband is a poor way of saying “thank you” to a faithful spouse who works hard every day to provide for the family.

Yes, you may not have enough to buy that deigner shoes or bag you’ve had your eyes on recently, but your husband will love and appreciate the fact that you honor him and are grateful for what he provides.

2. Constant negativity
You hate your hair, the messes around the house, the neighbor across the street, your dumb co-worker, the old dishwasher, and everything in between. As soon as your husband walks through the door, you launch into action and dump every negative and angry thought that’s crossed your mind.

Can you imagine having to carry that burden? Negativity is draining. Men like to fix things, and constantly being hounded with complaints makes it difficult for him to help solve your pains.

If there is one thing I’ve learned from marriage is that a good man wants you to be happy, and if he can’t help you do that, it makes him unhappy.

3. Putting everything else first
When your children, mom, best friends, talents, or career in front of your husband, you send a clear message to him that he is unimportant. Imagine having that message sent to you every day for many years. What would that do to your self esteem?

Put your husband first! Although it sometimes seems counter-intuitive and counterproductive, I think you’d be amazed to find that it’s often the key to the greatest happiness in marriage. So many couples get divorced these days, because of neglect and to a large extent disrespect.

If you choose to put him first, you will find a lot of joy.

4. Withholding physical affection
Men crave and need physical affection with their wives. When you constantly decline intimacy, it wears on them. Sex should not be used as a tool to control your spouse; it should be viewed as a sacred tool to draw you closer to one another and to God.

It is a great blessing to be wanted and needed by a loving, romantic husband who wants to share something so beautiful and important with you — and you only. Even though you might not always be in the mood, it’s worth it to give in (unless you are sick) and spend that time bonding.

5. Not speaking his language
Don’t waste your time giving subtle hints that he won’t understand: Speak plainly to him. Be honest about your feelings, and don’t bottle things up until you burst. If he asks you what’s wrong, don’t respond with “nothing” and then expect him to read your mind. Be open to your man and grow your marriage.

http://www.olufamous.com/2016/01/how-some-ladies-today-are-killing-their.html?m=1
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by politicalpastor: 11:59am On Jan 07, 2016
you are a wise one. You have the the wisdom of
Solomon.

If you are one of those ladies who no longer respect people who are older than you because of the things you see in social media then you can't be my friend; I will keep you at bay. Respect for ones elders is one of the cardinal principles I learn from my parents and I live by that. Many marriages are failing today because women want to be equal with men blindly, hence there is no peace on many homes.

Read this interesting eye-opener from a married woman...

When I got married, I was amazed at the instant, overwhelming sense of responsibility I felt to love and care for my husband. Suddenly, a huge part of someone else’s well-being and happiness was largely affected by my choices and actions.

Women, we need to be careful about how we are caring for our husbands and marriages. Don’t let the small stuff ruin the things that will bring you the greatest happiness in life.

Here are just a few ways you might be unknowingly destroying your husband and killing your marriage.

1. Living outside of what you can afford
A wise old woman from my church congregation once advised: “The best thing you can do as a wife is to live within your husband’s means.”

Wives, show sincere appreciation and respect to your husband by carefully following a budget and making the most of what you have. Be wise about your finances.

Constantly complaining about not having enough to fulfill your lavish desires or racking up astronomical amounts of debt for yourself and your husband is a poor way of saying “thank you” to a faithful spouse who works hard every day to provide for the family.

Yes, you may not have enough to buy that deigner shoes or bag you’ve had your eyes on recently, but your husband will love and appreciate the fact that you honor him and are grateful for what he provides.

2. Constant negativity
You hate your hair, the messes around the house, the neighbor across the street, your dumb co-worker, the old dishwasher, and everything in between. As soon as your husband walks through the door, you launch into action and dump every negative and angry thought that’s crossed your mind.

Can you imagine having to carry that burden? Negativity is draining. Men like to fix things, and constantly being hounded with complaints makes it difficult for him to help solve your pains.

If there is one thing I’ve learned from marriage is that a good man wants you to be happy, and if he can’t help you do that, it makes him unhappy.

3. Putting everything else first
When your children, mom, best friends, talents, or career in front of your husband, you send a clear message to him that he is unimportant. Imagine having that message sent to you every day for many years. What would that do to your self esteem?

Put your husband first! Although it sometimes seems counter-intuitive and counterproductive, I think you’d be amazed to find that it’s often the key to the greatest happiness in marriage. So many couples get divorced these days, because of neglect and to a large extent disrespect.

If you choose to put him first, you will find a lot of joy.

4. Withholding physical affection
Men crave and need physical affection with their wives. When you constantly decline intimacy, it wears on them. Sex should not be used as a tool to control your spouse; it should be viewed as a sacred tool to draw you closer to one another and to God.

It is a great blessing to be wanted and needed by a loving, romantic husband who wants to share something so beautiful and important with you — and you only. Even though you might not always be in the mood, it’s worth it to give in (unless you are sick) and spend that time bonding.

5. Not speaking his language
Don’t waste your time giving subtle hints that he won’t understand: Speak plainly to him. Be honest about your feelings, and don’t bottle things up until you burst. If he asks you what’s wrong, don’t respond with “nothing” and then expect him to read your mind. Be open to your man and grow your marriage.

http://www.olufamous.com/2016/01/how-some-ladies-today-are-killing-their.html?m=1[/quote]
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by asatemple(f): 12:02pm On Jan 07, 2016
Thank God am opportuned to read this

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Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by tivta(m): 12:03pm On Jan 07, 2016
5. Not speaking his language
Don’t waste your time giving subtle hints that he won’t understand: Speak plainly to him. Be honest about your feelings, and don’t bottle things up until you burst. If he asks you what’s wrong, don’t respond with “nothing” and then expect him to read your mind. Be open to your man and grow your marriage.

I so much hate this...

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Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by Teespice(f): 12:12pm On Jan 07, 2016
I wish I can be a man.
at least, if my marriage gets destroyed, it won't be my fault.
this op talks ad if men are also not capable of destroying marriages.


pffffft.

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Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by SaintBJ(m): 12:13pm On Jan 07, 2016
3. Putting everything else first
When your children, mom, best friends, talents, or career in front of your husband, you send a clear message to him that he is unimportant. Imagine having that message sent to you every day for many years. What would that do to your self esteem?

Put your husband first! Although it sometimes seems counter-intuitive and counterproductive, I think you’d be amazed to find that it’s often the key to the greatest happiness in marriage. So many couples get divorced these days, because of neglect and to a large extent disrespect.

If you choose to put him first, you will find a lot of joy.

Permit me to add a subtle and unconscious act by ladies that even destroy their marriage without knowing.
Putting your PASTOR first and having him have the last say about your home.
truly, marriage can never be what God intended it to be if pastor act as external influences,making decisions about how a family should live and not live most time taking the ladies ATTENTION/AFFECTION away from the husband,with the perception that it is didactic not knowing the seed of individuality and potential painful backlash will soon start to brew which most often lead to DIVORCE.

My neighbor just stage a walk-out from his wife of four years,
whenever they have any discussion,
she always say, "i need to talk to the pastor about it,
the pastor said this, the pastor said that and it should be adhere to"
Duality is been lost- 1 Corinth 7:10.
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by deathmen12: 12:20pm On Jan 07, 2016
beautiful write up,
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by kaboninc(m): 12:33pm On Jan 07, 2016


4. Withholding physical affection
Men crave and need physical affection with their wives.
5. Not speaking his language
Don’t waste your time giving subtle hints that he won’t understand: Speak plainly to him. Be honest about your feelings, and don’t bottle things up until you burst. If he asks you what’s wrong, don’t respond with “nothing” and then expect him to read your mind. Be open to your man and grow your marriage.


http://www.olufamous.com/2016/01/how-some-ladies-today-are-killing-their.html?m=1
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by AreaFada2: 12:36pm On Jan 07, 2016
Dem nor go hear.

Soon dem go dey run from pastor to Alfa, accusing mother-in-law and people in the village.

Some feminist-wannabes will soon come use expletives on the OP. cheesy grin

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Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by shumuel(m): 12:43pm On Jan 07, 2016
hmm... Nice one OP
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by Toks2008(m): 12:44pm On Jan 07, 2016
Godwin10123:


1. Living outside of what you can afford
A wise old woman from my church congregation once advised: “The best thing you can do as a wife is to live within your husband’s means.”

Wives, show sincere appreciation and respect to your husband by carefully following a budget and making the most of what you have. Be wise about your finances.

http://www.olufamous.com/2016/01/how-some-ladies-today-are-killing-their.html?m=1

Spot on

This was the essence of this thread i created but trust some people to always read different meanings to innocuous things.

https://www.nairaland.com/2847139/when-babe-shuns-decent-mama/3#41743739
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by bennyzer(m): 12:46pm On Jan 07, 2016
@Op are you a psychologist or it's a personal experience? So on point.
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by Toks2008(m): 12:47pm On Jan 07, 2016
Godwin10123:

How some Ladies are destroying their Marriage without knowing

If you are one of those ladies who no longer respect people who are older than you because of the things you see in social media then you can't be my friend; I will keep you at bay. Respect for ones elders is one of the cardinal principles I learn from my parents and I live by that. Many marriages are failing today because women want to be equal with men blindly, hence there is no peace on many homes.

Read this interesting eye-opener from a married woman...

When I got married, I was amazed at the instant, overwhelming sense of responsibility I felt to love and care for my husband. Suddenly, a huge part of someone else’s well-being and happiness was largely affected by my choices and actions.

Women, we need to be careful about how we are caring for our husbands and marriages. Don’t let the small stuff ruin the things that will bring you the greatest happiness in life.

Here are just a few ways you might be unknowingly destroying your husband and killing your marriage.

1. Living outside of what you can afford
A wise old woman from my church congregation once advised: “The best thing you can do as a wife is to live within your husband’s means.”

Wives, show sincere appreciation and respect to your husband by carefully following a budget and making the most of what you have. Be wise about your finances.

Constantly complaining about not having enough to fulfill your lavish desires or racking up astronomical amounts of debt for yourself and your husband is a poor way of saying “thank you” to a faithful spouse who works hard every day to provide for the family.

Yes, you may not have enough to buy that deigner shoes or bag you’ve had your eyes on recently, but your husband will love and appreciate the fact that you honor him and are grateful for what he provides.

2. Constant negativity
You hate your hair, the messes around the house, the neighbor across the street, your dumb co-worker, the old dishwasher, and everything in between. As soon as your husband walks through the door, you launch into action and dump every negative and angry thought that’s crossed your mind.

Can you imagine having to carry that burden? Negativity is draining. Men like to fix things, and constantly being hounded with complaints makes it difficult for him to help solve your pains.

If there is one thing I’ve learned from marriage is that a good man wants you to be happy, and if he can’t help you do that, it makes him unhappy.

3. Putting everything else first
When your children, mom, best friends, talents, or career in front of your husband, you send a clear message to him that he is unimportant. Imagine having that message sent to you every day for many years. What would that do to your self esteem?

Put your husband first! Although it sometimes seems counter-intuitive and counterproductive, I think you’d be amazed to find that it’s often the key to the greatest happiness in marriage. So many couples get divorced these days, because of neglect and to a large extent disrespect.

If you choose to put him first, you will find a lot of joy.

4. Withholding physical affection
Men crave and need physical affection with their wives. When you constantly decline intimacy, it wears on them. Sex should not be used as a tool to control your spouse; it should be viewed as a sacred tool to draw you closer to one another and to God.

It is a great blessing to be wanted and needed by a loving, romantic husband who wants to share something so beautiful and important with you — and you only. Even though you might not always be in the mood, it’s worth it to give in (unless you are sick) and spend that time bonding.

5. Not speaking his language
Don’t waste your time giving subtle hints that he won’t understand: Speak plainly to him. Be honest about your feelings, and don’t bottle things up until you burst. If he asks you what’s wrong, don’t respond with “nothing” and then expect him to read your mind. Be open to your man and grow your marriage.

http://www.olufamous.com/2016/01/how-some-ladies-today-are-killing-their.html?m=1

Trust some people with a very awkward IQ to call this women bashing thread.

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Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by cicc2010(f): 12:52pm On Jan 07, 2016
so true at op[color=#990000][/color]
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by yemoxyl(m): 12:53pm On Jan 07, 2016
Not married and not planning to any time soon

Will come back when am ready
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by Trustworthiness: 12:53pm On Jan 07, 2016
looseweight:
Women this, women that!!!

Ki lo de gan?

Because, for this world to be moving forward positively, the woman must be upright, up doing and own up to the duty of nation building.

As the adage says, train a girl child, be sure you have trained a nation.

Women have a lot to contribute to the society through their moral uprightness.
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by IndianaJay: 1:00pm On Jan 07, 2016
Godwin10123:

How some Ladies are destroying their Marriage without knowing

If you are one of those ladies who no longer respect people who are older than you because of the things you see in social media then you can't be my friend; I will keep you at bay. Respect for ones elders is one of the cardinal principles I learn from my parents and I live by that. Many marriages are failing today because women want to be equal with men blindly, hence there is no peace on many homes.

Read this interesting eye-opener from a married woman...

When I got married, I was amazed at the instant, overwhelming sense of responsibility I felt to love and care for my husband. Suddenly, a huge part of someone else’s well-being and happiness was largely affected by my choices and actions.

Women, we need to be careful about how we are caring for our husbands and marriages. Don’t let the small stuff ruin the things that will bring you the greatest happiness in life.

Here are just a few ways you might be unknowingly destroying your husband and killing your marriage.

1. Living outside of what you can afford
A wise old woman from my church congregation once advised: “The best thing you can do as a wife is to live within your husband’s means.”

Wives, show sincere appreciation and respect to your husband by carefully following a budget and making the most of what you have. Be wise about your finances.

Constantly complaining about not having enough to fulfill your lavish desires or racking up astronomical amounts of debt for yourself and your husband is a poor way of saying “thank you” to a faithful spouse who works hard every day to provide for the family.

Yes, you may not have enough to buy that deigner shoes or bag you’ve had your eyes on recently, but your husband will love and appreciate the fact that you honor him and are grateful for what he provides.

2. Constant negativity
You hate your hair, the messes around the house, the neighbor across the street, your dumb co-worker, the old dishwasher, and everything in between. As soon as your husband walks through the door, you launch into action and dump every negative and angry thought that’s crossed your mind.

Can you imagine having to carry that burden? Negativity is draining. Men like to fix things, and constantly being hounded with complaints makes it difficult for him to help solve your pains.

If there is one thing I’ve learned from marriage is that a good man wants you to be happy, and if he can’t help you do that, it makes him unhappy.

3. Putting everything else first
When your children, mom, best friends, talents, or career in front of your husband, you send a clear message to him that he is unimportant. Imagine having that message sent to you every day for many years. What would that do to your self esteem?

Put your husband first! Although it sometimes seems counter-intuitive and counterproductive, I think you’d be amazed to find that it’s often the key to the greatest happiness in marriage. So many couples get divorced these days, because of neglect and to a large extent disrespect.

If you choose to put him first, you will find a lot of joy.

4. Withholding physical affection
Men crave and need physical affection with their wives. When you constantly decline intimacy, it wears on them. Sex should not be used as a tool to control your spouse; it should be viewed as a sacred tool to draw you closer to one another and to God.

It is a great blessing to be wanted and needed by a loving, romantic husband who wants to share something so beautiful and important with you — and you only. Even though you might not always be in the mood, it’s worth it to give in (unless you are sick) and spend that time bonding.

5. Not speaking his language
Don’t waste your time giving subtle hints that he won’t understand: Speak plainly to him. Be honest about your feelings, and don’t bottle things up until you burst. If he asks you what’s wrong, don’t respond with “nothing” and then expect him to read your mind. Be open to your man and grow your marriage.

http://www.olufamous.com/2016/01/how-some-ladies-today-are-killing-their.html?m=1

All these guidelines, rules and regulations to a happy marriage that you Nairaland marriage experts always post on here for women to live by,

do you also live by these rules?? Or you just come here everyday to tell us how a woman should or should not be...

Sometimes...all a woman needs to understand how to be a good wife is for her to have a good and understanding man or husband.

Not all these yeye guidelines you folks keep posting uppanddaan.

Meanwhile.... @Op you don marry?

If you never marry....biko go and do the needful and stop trying to tell people how to love their husbands.

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Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jan 07, 2016
Always about us undecided
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by josite: 1:31pm On Jan 07, 2016
did I hear someone said women are confused, she said she was tired last nite and will be here this morning .around 11ami remind her she said this morning and she said she will be here in a moment after doing one or two thing and this is the very beginning and here is a lady who wants the best of men .really most of these women are confused. When she comes and meet her best friend,walahi ive got no apology.
Guys shine your eyes o,dont give mad girl belle.if u do ,u forfeit the greatest ingredient for success-peace of mind.

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Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jan 07, 2016
delishpot:
Typical......to the average Nigerian only the wife has a role to play for a marriage to seem to be working.
No advice is ever given to the husbands except to just sit back and enjoy the services of their wives.
Odiegwu, I pity women sha.

This is the exact problem!

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Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by busomma: 1:55pm On Jan 07, 2016
She who has ears, let her hear. Advice don't get better than this. I rest my case.

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Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by Ngokafor(f): 2:18pm On Jan 07, 2016
IndianaJay:


All these guidelines, rules and regulations to a happy marriage that you Nairaland marriage experts always post on here for women to live by,

do you also live by these rules?? Or you just come here everyday to tell us how a woman should or should not be...

Sometimes...all a woman needs to understand how to be a good wife is for her to have a good and understanding man or husband.

Not all these yeye guidelines you folks keep posting uppanddaan.

Meanwhile.... @Op you don marry?

If you never marry....biko go and do the needful and stop trying to tell people how to love their husbands.




...This right here is only comment that made sense here..It takes two to make a marriage work,but will some childish males here agree??...No!..

..they will sit on their behinds expecting the woman to do every single thing to make the marriage while they do little or nothing.When it back-fires on their faces,they will come running to Nairaland with 'stories that touch'.

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Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by frakdon(m): 3:01pm On Jan 07, 2016
lasisi69:
Whether this or that, na God dey give better husband or wife
after that, what next? Abi na still God go come down make your home a happy 1?
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by lasisi69: 3:03pm On Jan 07, 2016
frakdon:
after that, what next? Abi na still God go come down make your home a happy 1?
when he gives one the right partner, u guys will be best friends even after some hassles
Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by frakdon(m): 3:12pm On Jan 07, 2016
lasisi69:
when he gives one the right partner, u guys will be best friends even after some hassles
you can't be best friends, effortlessly, or can you? Just like the op said, its all about communications....

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