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10 Relationship Problems That Needs Your Attention.. by Honestyboy(m): 1:03pm On Jan 07, 2016
Problems in a relationship
Depending on the kind of relationship you share with your partner, the problems in a
relationship too could be just as unique.
But almost always, all problems in a relationship find their place in ten big areas.
At some point or the other, these problems have a way of creeping into your romance.
Keep an eye on these issues, and understand how to overcome it, and you’ll see how easy it can be to eliminate all the frustrations you experience in a relationship.
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10 big problems that need your attention
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Remember this, you can’t stop problems from cropping up in a relationship no matter how
perfect the relationship is. What you can do. instead, is eliminate the frustration as soon as you notice them.
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#1 Lack of communication. At the start of the relationship, conversations are exciting and
fun. Both of you spend a lot of time getting to know each other. But as time goes by, lovers forget to ask the same questions again.
We’re all changing all the time, in our preferences and the way we look at life. Don’t assume you know everything about each other or your romance will start to stagnate, or one
of you will start to confide in some other person who seems more understanding.
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#2 Trust. Do you really trust your partner?
There are two kinds of trust in a relationship. Firstly, do you trust your partner enough to
feel comfortable with them going out for dinner with someone else? If you don’t,
perhaps, you’re insecure or your relationship
is still too fragile.
And secondly, do you trust your partners decisions? Do you think your partner is
capable of making important decisions for the both of you? If you can’t trust your partner
with life altering decisions, it’s obvious that you don’t respect your partner or their opinions. And that’s never a good sign in a long term relationship.
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#3 Jealousy and insecurity. Insecure couples are forever locked in a cycle of jealously and anger. When you feel jealous about the
attention your lover’s getting or their recent promotion, you’re not helping them become a
better individual. It’s like a parent who's angry with their child because the child is
having “too much fun”.
You need to learn to have faith in each other and in the relationship. Instead of letting
negativity build inside the relationship, learn to enjoy each other’s successes. After all, your partner is your better half, and any accomplishments of theirs are your accomplishments too, isn’t it?
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#4 Incompatibility in love. Love at first sight and infatuation can last several months. And it does a good job of masking any differences
in a relationship. As perfect as two people may be, sometimes, they may just not be perfect for each other.
If you find yourself dating someone with whom
you have nothing in common, you need to decide on the next step. Try to find common
interests that both of you like, or walk your own paths instead of living in frustrations.
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#5 Loss of sex drive. This isn’t rocket science. Over time, both of you are bound to lose the
sexual urge of the first few months or years of a relationship. While both of you may have a hard time keeping your hands off each other
to begin with, now sex may start to feel like a chore.
This is a very common problem in relationships, and yet, it’s one of the easy ones to solve. Always look for new ways to
recreate the sexual high of the first few times, and before you know it, both of you may go at
it all over again like frisky bunnies.
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#6 Ka ching! Anyone in a relationship for long enough will know just how important money or the lack of it really is. If your friends earn a lot more than you or your partner, it’ll end up frustrating both of you. And on the other hand,
if both of you earn a lot more than your friends, there’ll be a lot of love and happiness
in your lives. It’s a stupid fact of life. But our own happiness is extremely dependent on the way others perceive us. If you’re having difficulties
in your relationship because of money, perhaps it’s time to change your friends and
see the difference.
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#7 Change in priorities. You may be in a relationship, but that doesn’t change who you
are. And that’s where the problem starts. As individuals, we evolve and change all the time.
You’re not the person you were last year, and you won’t be the person you are now next
year. And just like you, your partner too is changing
constantly. And every now and then, you and your partner may experience changes that will
pull both of you apart from each other. And soon enough, both of you may have nothing in common. Spend enough time with each other and try to evolve together in a similar
direction. Talk about your beliefs and your interests with each other and it’ll help both of
you grow together along the same path.
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#8 Time. Do both of you have enough time to spend with each other? These days, time is a luxury that most lovers can’t afford. When you start spending too much time away from each other, it’s only a matter of time before one of
you starts asking the big question,
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“Do I need
my partner in my life anymore?”
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Don’t drift away so far that both of you don’t
need to be with each other anymore. Find ways to indulge in exciting hobbies or spend
evenings going out on little coffee or ice cream dates. They make for great conversations and it’ll bring both of you closer
too.
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#9 Space and individual growth. Now this is contradictory to the earlier problem in relationships. But it’s still something to watch
out for. Too much of a good thing can turn out to be bad too. When you’re in a relationship, spending time with each other is very important. But at the same time, spending time away from each other is crucial
too.
By spending too much time together, you'd subconsciously feel isolated from the rest of
the world. And when that happens, you'd crave for any attention from other interesting
people just to feel better about yourself and your ability to communicate. And you know
what could happen when that happens, right?
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#10 Are you still in love? This is the biggest problem in a relationship, and one that’s
hardest to overcome. Falling in love is easy. Staying in love isn’t. Love is a delicate
balance between dependency and passion. How much do you need your partner? How
much do you love and want your partner?
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When the sexual excitement and the enthusiasm fade away, what do you have to hold both of you together? A relationship
should never be based on sex alone. It needs compatibility and understanding, and it
definitely needs dependability. Staying in love forever is not easy, but with a little effort, it
can give meaning to your life.
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Problems in a relationship can come and go. But if you ever come face to face with these 10 big problems in relationship, don’t overlook it. It could cost you the relationship itself.
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Re: 10 Relationship Problems That Needs Your Attention.. by LouisBERG: 1:05pm On Jan 07, 2016
TRUST is one of the qualities that springs up a good relationship.
#caLLmeBERG
Re: 10 Relationship Problems That Needs Your Attention.. by yinkus4u2c(f): 1:05pm On Jan 07, 2016
Okay...
Re: 10 Relationship Problems That Needs Your Attention.. by obiorathesubtle: 1:10pm On Jan 07, 2016
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Re: 10 Relationship Problems That Needs Your Attention.. by Honestyboy(m): 1:12pm On Jan 07, 2016
obiorathesubtle:
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Re: 10 Relationship Problems That Needs Your Attention.. by Nobody: 1:15pm On Jan 07, 2016
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Re: 10 Relationship Problems That Needs Your Attention.. by hardychris(m): 1:21pm On Jan 07, 2016
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obiorathesubtle:
grin the speed wey I use scroll down probably broke a world record.

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Re: 10 Relationship Problems That Needs Your Attention.. by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jan 07, 2016
Good thread!

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