Tudór:

It's quite simple, you LUST after the girl in your subconscious

Life boy:

how did you knw i do but have not plain to show it to her yet

the fonniest thing is this every body loves her and love talking wit her, her major friends are male and few are female

but i do reject the likeness just to aviod **** reasons

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Tudór:

It's quite simple, you LUST after the girl in your subconscious
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I think you are right about that.

wisedge:

Don't take dreams lightly or mind those who accuse you of sleeping too much. God is probably trying to show you something. Pray about it and if there is any believer that you can confide in, ask him/her to pray with you.

sunshine01:

It is not good to dream of eating in the dream. Aside that, I just hope you were not proposing to a spiritual wife in your dream. Coming to the sister, I might be tempted to say that the sister could be a mermaid. Because a lot of things are happening now. The devil has transformed himself and his agents as agent of light and they have crept into churches in order to cause a lot of havoc.
BE CAREFUL BECOS WE ARE IN THE LAST DAYS.

Generica:

Experience has taught many christian brothers to ponder diligently on sisters who consistently keep more male-friends than females. It may be true that you are not firm in your resolve to keep from her. It is quite natural. However as a christian, you must desist from closer contact with her. It may be that you are desiring to make her visit you some day. Sorry for saying that.
An individual had this kind of dream. He expressed seeming dislike for such ungodly dream, yet inwardly he relished it. He was secretly rejoicing that what he couldn't do in the physical had been done in the "spiritual." Months rolled by, due to his casual talk about it to those who cared to listen, instead of purging himself from that impending contamination, he didn't even know when he got close to the sister and they got to love each other to a questionable extent. Both of them knew that it has turned to something else and they couldn't stop the flaring concupiscence. It ended them up in sexual immorality (up to 3 times !!!). It became known to members of the church and they were disciplined and told to separate. They will not marry each other any more as long as they remain members of that church.
What I am trying to illustrate is this:take heed to yourself. That sister might have her reasons for associating with males but it is most proper to be with her kind of gender. She might have started it in a pure mind but as her popularity increases and praises abound from admirers, she might secretly develop another spirit that may languish the desires of the brothers in the church. Are there not godly mothers in the church? Ask one of them to talk to her in meekness, love and godly wisdom. She needs to change otherwise she may not make a dedicated wife. These days people do not cut off from friends even after marriage and if this will be so with her , how will the husband feel? Sometime ago, I advised a christian girl(the girl in my illustration above) and she said that when she marries she will learn, afterall God used to give people power to make a good husband and wife. But do not see the end of all that she felt doesn't matter?
These days boys and girls have failed to realise that it is better to learn what will help you in future rather than what you feel you like to do now. To prepare for the next step, stage and societal expectation.
Love in recent years, among young people, is purely sexual. It is sad to see married men going after other women just because their wives have grown fatter or old in their own eyes. Where then is the true love that some of our grandparents remained true to all their days? I appreciate girls, ladies, women, mothers and I love them in the name of the Lord. But it pains me to see the pains the undergo to slim-down all in the name to look attractive, get a ready-made husbands, retain their husbands at home,etc. They may have the flimsy reason that that is the fashion of the time. I have known the near-death experience of some and I even advised a girl to eat well lest she dies in the process of starving herself until she almost gave up. Oh, this world, this world. Where are the young people heading to?
Friend I advise you to take time to pray for God's help. Being involved with a lady may be thrilling at the begining but it turns sour at the end if you are not ready to marry at that time. You may not know the terrible situation many young christians are in after being involved with girls. You can never be the same in your christian life except God intervenes.
See, if you are not ready to get married leave her alone. Sometimes we think somebody is the most beautiful until that feeling leaves us and then we come to know that she is not worth dying for expecially when a more beautiful one comes around. There's no satisfaction in the things of the flesh.
In another way God might have kept her for you and is waiting for your right judgment in this. You may lose her if you allow the devil to tempt you to do that which is not lawful now. Girls sometimes change. When they begin to hate somebody only God can change their mind. They may agree with you to go astray but when it backfires they heap all the blames on you. They may even say that they don't even know you. They may claim that you forced yourself on them and at the end you will not only lose that precious wife-to-be but will also lose your respect in her eyes forever. Yes, even forever.
Men sometimes are so foolishly blinded to apparent dangers and no-go areas of life and women. RESPECT is the chief quality when it comes to matters involving girls, ladies, women. Females are fully humans as we are. We should not take undue advantage of their weakneses, wants needs, even beauty and natural docility, and their being very jovial and amiable. These are rare qualities in women, though.
I hope you will organise your thoughts and have no undue desire. I understand how you may feel. I am a very young man too. But we must strive for excellence in character rather than give ourselves over to ALL THESE THINGS. God Bless You!

Life boy:

how did you knw i do but have not plain to show it to her yet

the fonniest thing is this every body loves her and love talking wit her, her major friends are male and few are female but i do reject the likeness just to aviod **** reasons