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What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by firstking01(m): 1:17pm On Jan 12, 2016
First of...this write up is meant for people who came from a very low family background, people who feel they can't make it in life because of the poor family background they emanated from...people who's parent could hardly provide 3 square meal a day...people who have a burning desire to succeed but they are using their family background as an excuse...i know a whole lot of you are out there wishing, thinking, hoping, wailing, gnashing their teeth...even people who are always making the phrase "if only"...my friends, there's no time for regrets, king solomon said in one of his epistles that, a living dog is better than a dead lion...now, this was a man who has everything life could offer at his feet, yet he made such coments??, think about this friends...all his trying to say was, as long as you have breath in you, you can hit your goal in life...the most important thing is, you are still alive...

Now, to the main reason of this write up....

What it is like coming from a poor or zero background, and how to succed in life...




[b]First of...this write up is meant for people who came from a very low family background, people who feel they can't make it in life because of the poor family background they emanated from...people who's parent could hardly provide 3 square meal a day...people who have a burning desire to succeed but they are using their family background as an excuse...i know a whole lot of you are out there wishing, thinking, hoping, wailing, gnashing their teeth...even people who are always making the phrase "if only"...my friends, there's no time for regrets, king solomon said in one of his epistles that, a living dog is better than a dead lion...now, this was a man who has everything life could offer at his feet, yet he made such coments??, think about this friends...all his trying to say was, as long as you have breath in you, you can hit your goal in life...the most important thing is, you are still alive...

Now, to the main reason of this write up....

What it is like coming from a poor or zero background, and how to succed in life...




[/b]First of...this write up is meant for people who came from a very low family background, people who feel they can't make it in life because of the poor family background they emanated from...people who's parent could hardly provide 3 square meal a day...people who have a burning desire to succeed but they are using their family background as an excuse...i know a whole lot of you are out there wishing, thinking, hoping, wailing, gnashing their teeth...even people who are always making the phrase "if only"...my friends, there's no time for regrets, king solomon said in one of his epistles that, a living dog is better than a dead lion...now, this was a man who has everything life could offer at his feet, yet he made such coments??, think about this friends...all his trying to say was, as long as you have breath in you, you can hit your goal in life...the most important thing is, you are still alive...

Now, to the main reason of this write up....

What it is like coming from a poor or zero background, and how to succed in life...

MAKE UP YOUR MIND....you must make up your mind that you must make it in life...this is the first decision you must take...be determined...

DON'T WAIT FOR A PUSH...Remove your eyes from looking around, seeking for somebody to push you around, now that you are determined, go for what you want, don't wait for any motivation from anybody...in other words, don't wait for somebody to motivate you before you make a move...i'd tell you, the best way to be motivated and move on in life is by first of all being self motivated or inspired...

HAVE A TARGET...I'd tell you a man without a dream or focus would be wandering and confused in life..you must set a goal and pursur it with all thy might and strength, coupled with enthusiasm and optimism...

CHALLENGES...Ofcourse, be prepared to face the biggest confrontations in life...you that came from a very low family background, be rest assured that your challenges would tripple the man who came from a wealthy family background...so, you must fasten your seat belt because the road indeed would be rough...have this at the back of you mind, so you won't be taken unawares when the challenges starts coming...

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF...Yes, you must first of all believe in yourself that you must make it, infact, this was supposed to come first...if you miss it here, you'd miss it all....

BELIEVE IN GOD...Yeah, i decided to make this one the last because all the things i 've listed up there are centered on yourself believe and God, you must first believe in yourself before you believe in God otherwise when the challenges starts pouring, you might want to opt out...no wonder the bible said that faith without work is dead...work and faith go in paripasu...

Hope this helps someone somewhere...

Seun, lalasticlala help somebody somewhere...

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by aaamos(m): 5:39pm On Jan 12, 2016
Started from the bottom...........nice one Op

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by Towncrier247: 5:40pm On Jan 12, 2016
Yea. Good one of. I can relate to that. Kudos

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by deebsman1(m): 5:40pm On Jan 12, 2016
nice write up, will read later and come back to comment, i wan go poo cool

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by Daslim180(m): 5:40pm On Jan 12, 2016
Belief in yourself along side prayer and watch yourself emanating into hero.

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by ebubey(f): 5:40pm On Jan 12, 2016
true...very true.
btw...
BE CAREFUL

The name of the rat that harbours the virus that causes lassa fever is called multimammate rat( because it has many nipples like all these local street dogs after delivery). While the botanical name is mastomys natalensis.

There is also an upsurge of the disease everywhere. So we should all practice hand washing hygiene. Also all apple lovers should wash them with salt and warm water before refrigerating them to eat. Our wives should avoid testing of dry garri by chewing them for starch in the market. All garri soakers should let go for now.

The problem is that most of our garri sellers in the market buy their garri from bush markets. These garri are often fried half dry and are subsequently dried on polythene sheets on the tarred roads or compounds in the villages. These rat dive in at will, to feed their hungry bellies and in the process defecate and urinate on the garri, which dry up with it. If used for Eba, the virus may die because of the hot water used. But if soaked, the virus is directly ushered in. Please no one should joke with this precaution, except you process your cassava yourself.

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by Letsgoandfuck(m): 5:40pm On Jan 12, 2016
It is not your fault that you were born poor. But. It's gonna be your big fault if you die poor. -Bill Gates 2018

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by slimpoppa(m): 5:40pm On Jan 12, 2016
Hmm
Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by Salex007(m): 5:40pm On Jan 12, 2016
To me ! That is not an excuse in making it big in life... Determination and prayer is all that matters in pursuing success .
Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by leksy07(m): 5:41pm On Jan 12, 2016
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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by Nobody: 5:41pm On Jan 12, 2016
believe in God . . .


okay.

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by Nobody: 5:41pm On Jan 12, 2016
Ok

Stay focussed
Don't steal
Obey the ten commandments
Do your best

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by vosquare: 5:42pm On Jan 12, 2016
grin grin

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by islandmoon: 5:42pm On Jan 12, 2016
people who have failed will tell you you cant do it, they will say its impossible!

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by plainmirror(m): 5:42pm On Jan 12, 2016
1) Believe in the Living God

2) Dream big and Anchor it on faith

3) Never entertain fear

4) develop self confidence

5) develop a positive mindset - our mind emits what Mother nature attracts to us.

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by LesbianBoy(m): 5:43pm On Jan 12, 2016
Stay off nairaland

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by babamadiba(m): 5:43pm On Jan 12, 2016
Above all, believe in God. Nice one

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by CR77(f): 5:44pm On Jan 12, 2016
grin grin
LesbianBoy:
Stay off nairaland
Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by Brunel(m): 5:45pm On Jan 12, 2016
Try to format your write up properly. It's kinda difficult to read

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by YOUNGKAHUNA: 5:45pm On Jan 12, 2016
This is so succinct.... Lord Help Us.
Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by engrjosefz(m): 5:45pm On Jan 12, 2016
This post is A Hit back to back!

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jan 12, 2016
Y

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by Vivalavida99(f): 5:46pm On Jan 12, 2016
Your mind is the most powerful tool you have. Use it wisely where ever you are!


At any given moment you have the power to say: "This is not how the story is going to end."
Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jan 12, 2016
Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by chronos: 5:46pm On Jan 12, 2016
The person below me has something to say..
Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by html14java(f): 5:46pm On Jan 12, 2016
Lovely
Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by lielbree: 5:46pm On Jan 12, 2016
Hardwork and humility.
Courage and kindness.
Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by Shos19(m): 5:47pm On Jan 12, 2016
Wow!!!! Inspiring Post!!!. I A̶̲̥̅♏ a victim of dis
Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by eluquenson(m): 5:47pm On Jan 12, 2016
Na God they uplift man oh.

It's a simple logic

Hardwork+God's Mercy+Destiny = Success

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by yungpowers(m): 5:47pm On Jan 12, 2016
May Amadioha strike that heartless mod that banned me since 2015.

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Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by Buffyballs: 5:47pm On Jan 12, 2016
Till i got my bugati.boi
Re: What It Is Like Coming From A Poor Background, And The Way To Succeed In Life. by DirtyGold: 5:47pm On Jan 12, 2016
Be enlightened, learn to work smart and God will do the rest in His timing.

Never give up!

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