Fredoh:
Hello guys, I must say "thank you" to all Nairalanders because this forum have been of great help in numerous ways than I can mention.
There's is girl I met and we had the chemistry and exchanged phone number. She had a guy by then, 11 months later, I got a job and I feel like I should asked her out. I did and she accepted(maybe because she broke up with that her guy). So the time I visited her when I asked her out, her phone had problem so I decided to get her a small phone to keep the conversation going and gave her small money willingly because she is a student. About three weeks after toasting her, she started asking me for money. The relationship is new and I wanted to understand her even before asking her out. But we don't live close to each other. So I had to ask her out and she seemed to be so enthusiastic about it by pushing our conversation into the toasting thing. To me I feel it's to early for her to ask me for money but I gave her anyway. there was a time we were talking on phone and she made a statement that seemed funny to me. that she was advised my her spiritual father to let go of anybody who will not help her destiny(she seems to be the church type, and this statement kept ringing in my far like a melody). So about 13 days later, she told me that she needed to buy a phone. And she was asking for money again. So I told her I will look into it and see what I can do. She asked me to look into it and reply her.
I invited her for Christmas she didn't come(that she's still under her father and I should understand that. That her dad told her not to go anywhere that time will come that she will visit me). All I want is to be together with her under the same roof for like two days at least it will help me in knowing her. I don't intend to sleep with her cos I was hopping the relationship could lead to something serious. So when she asked me for money again I told has I will look into it and while I was thinking and seeking advice(she asked me yesterday). And just by 12 am now, I saw her text that her spiritual father told Iher not to but the phone. That she should invest the little money she has.
That guy she wanted to marry, she had some issues with him. And there's this picture I snapped with her when I visited her(I visited her only twice. Once before via toasting and once when I asked her out). I uploaded the picture on Facebook and tagged her. She called me that I should please remove it, that someone called about it and that because of the issue she had with that guy about marriage, that people are beginning to talk about the picture and it's bringing too much tension And that time is coming for me to post whatever I want.
Could this girl who claim to be spiritually oriented be a good girl?
1. Her father Told her not to visit anywhere but maybe he didn't tell her not to ask money from anybody.
2. If she loves me what's up with the picture?
3. What is the meaning of letting go of anybody who will not help her destiny as advised by her spiritual father.
4. I visited her only once is it wise to be sending money?
5. She never visited me, I never had sex with her, never even kissed her.
6. I have myself to take care of. Have family members to help and a plan for masters program this 2016.
Please I need your advice.

Fredoh:
Hello guys, I must say "thank you" to all Nairalanders because this forum have been of great help in numerous ways than I can mention.
There's is girl I met and we had the chemistry and exchanged phone number. She had a guy by then, 11 months later, I got a job and I feel like I should asked her out. I did and she accepted(maybe because she broke up with that her guy). So the time I visited her when I asked her out, her phone had problem so I decided to get her a small phone to keep the conversation going and gave her small money willingly because she is a student. About three weeks after toasting her, she started asking me for money. The relationship is new and I wanted to understand her even before asking her out. But we don't live close to each other. So I had to ask her out and she seemed to be so enthusiastic about it by pushing our conversation into the toasting thing. To me I feel it's to early for her to ask me for money but I gave her anyway. there was a time we were talking on phone and she made a statement that seemed funny to me. that she was advised my her spiritual father to let go of anybody who will not help her destiny(she seems to be the church type, and this statement kept ringing in my far like a melody). So about 13 days later, she told me that she needed to buy a phone. And she was asking for money again. So I told her I will look into it and see what I can do. She asked me to look into it and reply her.
I invited her for Christmas she didn't come(that she's still under her father and I should understand that. That her dad told her not to go anywhere that time will come that she will visit me). All I want is to be together with her under the same roof for like two days at least it will help me in knowing her. I don't intend to sleep with her cos I was hopping the relationship could lead to something serious. So when she asked me for money again I told has I will look into it and while I was thinking and seeking advice(she asked me yesterday). And just by 12 am now, I saw her text that her spiritual father told Iher not to but the phone. That she should invest the little money she has.
That guy she wanted to marry, she had some issues with him. And there's this picture I snapped with her when I visited her(I visited her only twice. Once before via toasting and once when I asked her out). I uploaded the picture on Facebook and tagged her. She called me that I should please remove it, that someone called about it and that because of the issue she had with that guy about marriage, that people are beginning to talk about the picture and it's bringing too much tension And that time is coming for me to post whatever I want.
Could this girl who claim to be spiritually oriented be a good girl?
1. Her father Told her not to visit anywhere but maybe he didn't tell her not to ask money from anybody.
2. If she loves me what's up with the picture?
3. What is the meaning of letting go of anybody who will not help her destiny as advised by her spiritual father.
4. I visited her only once is it wise to be sending money?
5. She never visited me, I never had sex with her, never even kissed her.
6. I have myself to take care of. Have family members to help and a plan for masters program this 2016.
Please I need your advice.

happyjuliet:
So people like u till dey dis Naija.... chai I no no y I no dey meet people like U