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An article submitted by a caucasian requesting answers from black men.


Dear Jamie: I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers. I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black female's attitudes about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes... I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know. Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA

RESPONSE
NOW PEEP HIS RESPONSE.......
___________________________________________________
Dear Jamie: I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl. Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful black men. I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy. The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls. Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses.
Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful black men date white women. Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs.
Read your history! It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during slavery. It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise! It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could> never> date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them. Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black women. I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the black woman has.

BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill. No offense taken, none given. Signed, Black Royalty

Please help boost the Black woman's confidence and self esteem!

k

Epic response!

All this no get meaning. Man na man, woman na woman, black and white na just colours. If am wrong check d colour of your blood......peace

She don talkam finish nah...

This guy's reply is somewhat incorrect. The guy is tending towards racism in his reply. What the white girl is saying is that black women should change their overtly proud attitude. That's all

Eintelekt:
PLS READ THIS!
An article submitted by a caucasian requesting answers from black men.


Dear Jamie: I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers. I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black female's attitudes about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes... I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know. Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA

RESPONSE
NOW PEEP HIS RESPONSE.......
___________________________________________________
Dear Jamie: I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl. Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful black men. I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy. The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls. Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses.
Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful black men date white women. Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs.
Read your history! It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during slavery. It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise! It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could> never> date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them. Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black women. I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the black woman has.

BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill. No offense taken, none given. Signed, Black Royalty

Please help boost the Black woman's confidence and self esteem!

I concur,this and more are why I love African women, and they are voluptuously sweet,

Shinyjay:
This guy's reply is somewhat incorrect. The guy is tending towards racism in his reply. What the white girl is saying is that black women should change their overtly proud attitude. That's all

Can u point out what is incorrect? The white girl was trying to show some kinda supremacy towards the black, now what when black guy says was true about black women, checkout the exploits black women are doing

Lalasticlala come and see this epic respose o..

I didnt read

cosby02:
I didnt read

It will help you if you do.

hopeforcharles:

Can u point out what is incorrect? The white girl was trying to show some kinda supremacy towards the black, now what when black guy says was true about black women, checkout the exploits black women are doing

And to an extent she's right. They are supreme interms of awareness. What that guy said is true also but he didn't address the main thing the girl said & thats the fact that many black girls are proud and big headed.

Eintelekt:

It will help you if you do.

Ok sir

He's wrong abeg. Take the majority of nigerian women for instance. They are weak as fork. They let their husbands walk all over them. Their husbands cheat constantly on them, verbally, emotionally and physically abuse them, yet they do nada. And he's there talking about strong black women. Most Nigerian women are weak and pathetic abeg. If anything, it's the white women who are strong enough to not tolerate such rubbish. Ok bye

Joy1706:
He's wrong abeg. Take the majority of nigerian women for instance. They are weak as fork. They let their husbands walk all over them. Their husbands cheat constantly on them, verbally, emotionally and physically abuse them, yet they do nada. And he's there talking about strong black women. Most Nigerian women are weak and pathetic abeg. If anything, it's the white women who are strong enough to not tolerate such rubbish. Ok bye

No truer words have been spoken

he's so right, no other colour of woman can withstand what an average Nigerian(black) woman go thru, we can stand d pain, d hustle, d nagging, the stress, and still be d best....if truly u are an African lady, proud of your skin colour n God given assets, you should see d truth in what he said....i was close to tears reading this, never knew a man could be so proud of his black lady this much o.

when we talk about keeping the home and training the kids, they are no 1 o.

Sexytemi:

he's so right, no other colour of woman can withstand what an average Nigerian(black) woman go thru, we can stand d pain, d hustle, d nagging, the stress, and still be d best....if truly u are an African lady, proud of your skin colour n God given assets, you should see d truth in what he said....i was close to tears reading this, never knew a man could be so proud of his black lady this much o.

when we talk about keeping the home and training the kids, they are no 1 o.

Black ladies over anything...we the black guys that know dont compromise. It's black or nothing...

Shinyjay:
And to an extent she's right. They are supreme interms of awareness. What that guy said is true also but he didn't address the main thing the girl said & thats the fact that many black girls are proud and big headed.

You know this excatly what i call stereotyping which to me is not fair, been proud and big- headed is not an African girl thing only its a human ingrained attitude which can arise due to some situations, have you paused and seen the rate of divorce in between these two colors? Had it been our girls are too heady( Wellington Bankole Banky W) lol, there would have been a higher rate of divorce in the black community, and obviously its the reverse, had it not been that they are influencing our youths divorces wouldnt even be heard or at the minimal, Have you noticed that we blackskin has more quality skin or hide, do you notice that they white tends to change color like chameleon each season? By the way are u Black?

Eintelekt:


Black ladies over anything...we the black guys that know dont compromise. It's black or nothing...

, only few actually know this.

Eintelekt:


Black ladies over anything...we the black guys that know dont compromise. It's black or nothing...

, only few actually know this.

hopeforcharles:

You know this excatly what i call stereotyping which to me is not fair, been proud and big- headed is not an African girl thing only its a human ingrained attitude which can arise due to some situations, have you paused and seen the rate of divorce in between these two colors? Had it been our girls are too heady( Wellington Bankole Banky W) lol, there would have been a higher rate of divorce in the black community, and obviously its the reverse, had it not been that they are influencing our youths divorces wouldnt even be heard or at the minimal, Have you noticed that we blackskin has more quality skin or hide, do you notice that they white tends to change color like chameleon each season? By the way are u Black?

Firstly I am black and proud to be. I am Nigerian & proudly yoruba. Right to your question bro the girl wasn't talking about African girls o(not all black girls are African even though they look it their minds ain't African; ask Whoopi Goldberg) so right now your assertion as to divorce being more rampant among the whites well you should also known that blacks aren't exempted too.

Mrcork i summon thee