my policy has always being 'i don't suffer fools'

thus i quit this thread(romance) for over a year

once in a while i skim through and i see the same ol bullshit

my question is this? when are we going to grow up? when are we going

to learn respect? if women aren't bashing men its the men calling the women bitches

the internet might be a faceless community but the way we relate here goes a long way

with regards to how we relate in real life. . . .a man opened up a thread to take on over 10women

calling them names and stuff haba! and we shamelessly cheered on, am quite sure he must be feeling 'the man' now

its sad, for its such a fellow is in the lowest form of cluelessness and should be pitied

for the rebuttal threads . . . .you are just slightly different even though you somewhat stem from the same base levels


we irrespective of our genders are different

we as a race should celebrate this difference

where the differences means we can relate

respect from afar comes into place

and clashes should be avoided. . . .i know it takes effort

but at the end of the day we know we are better for it

i aint preaching. . . . .and as started i dont suffer fools

so make your replies if any sensible

if women aren't bashing men its the men calling the women bitches

well, according to some clowns, women should be happy to be labelled bitches.

But the clowns' mothers are "exempt" from being called bitches oh.

tpiah

you do have a point there

with particularly in support of any gender

i say both parties are to blame

those same women call them men names too

i in no way imply the men should resort to calling em bitches








ps: every clown's mother is an angel . . . . . . . . . . .lol

@poster: well said, wat a pity! i just wonder d joy they get frm attacking(male vs female) each other,

@ poster

well, in this case, some males took it on themselves to start a thread asking if/why women get angry at being called bitches.

Some women (including myself), gave their opinions, which didnt reflect what some males wanted to hear. Namely,  that women are bitches and shouldnt mind being called so regardless of the actual context of discussion.

Another male then took up the cause by calling out particular women and labelling them bitches for various reasons which made sense to him and other weirdos. He was cheered on and encouraged by some other males who shared his views on the status of women.


So I would say the attacks were unprovoked and a blatant attempt to use derogation, discrimination and gender profiling in an attempt to intimidate and oppress a certain minority.

Assuming there'd been a definite reason such as a recent fight or exchange of words, then one could overlook the incidents. However, there wasnt.

Now, if I hear any of this coming back to me outside of this thread there will be a problem.

Not to mention at the same time there were other attacks in other sections.

just a question

a person goes like 10NL girls he has slept with

proceeds to debase this so-called women

and he becomes a mini-celebrity

i have no grouse with the said dude

but me thinks

guy suffers from a small-dick syndrome

no offense . . . . .  but that's what i feel sha

my problem here is this?

why was the guy being celebrated?

i read some posts , hailing him and calling him a 'correct guy'

if such a guy is labeled correct i would rather stick to being called 'that man' than that guy

and some women are just wahala magnet uncouth mannerism with false airs this said people are also

culpable and should hide under the guise of the weaker sex(hell we are in the 21st there is no weaker sex)

it takes tact to spin controversy

any bumbling fool can cause hysteria

which is what most people male and female alike here do

you know attaining class is like dancing the waltz

with proper practice people would swing to your moves

Wonder if you don't have too much time on your hands opening a thread to discuss Adam B, the numpty with internet werepe

He is a classic textbook case of "Were dun wo loja, . . ." And what do you do with people like that? Is there any point losing your rags with such people, to the extent that people would not be able to differentiate between the two of you Owitshiwitshi

Leave my husband Adamu alone if you don't want to see my red eye oh

Busy_body:

Wonder if you don't have too much time on your hands opening a thread to discuss Adam B, the numpty with internet werepe

He is a classic textbook case of "Were dun wo loja, . . ." And what do you do with people like that? Is there any point losing your rags with such people, to the extent that people would not be able to differentiate between the two of you Owitshiwitshi

Leave my husband Adamu alone if you don't want to see my red eye oh

lets not make this about Adam but rather focus on Adam's santa's helpers.

He'll just blow the thread to pieces since he couldnt care less.

I'm more interested in his supporters and enablers.

is just abt mischief!

biola44:

is just abt mischief!

that wont save you.

So I would say the attacks were unprovoked and a blatant attempt to use derogatation, discrimination and gender profiling in an attempt to intimidate and oppress a certain minority.

this is a reason to ponder


but then again,women have never really being a minority have they?

maybe a small percentage of women just realize the full extent of their rights

but i daresay the few that know it abuse it to such extent that the world wont miss it

if the remaining set of women continue to remain oblivious of this privilege

i.e a woman knows she can 80% of the time slap a man and get away with it

thus she would abuse it, some are so quick at emptying their drinks

i have being known to empty my beer too on such. . . i don't suffer fools

acting in a huff isnt in anyway going to bring your point home to me


note am not saying men aren't mostly guilty of beating down women not subservient to them

am just saying the coin has a flip side too

we should thus observe both sides

tpiah:

lets not make this about Adam but rather focus on Adam's santa's helpers.

He'll just blow the thread to pieces since he couldnt care less.

I'm more interested in his supporters and enablers.

But surely taking the shine off Adam B and focusing on his helpers would surely make this thread denigrate in no time to a gender bashing avenue for both sexes to vent their spleen and burst a vein

who is the so-called adam?

tpiah you are beginning to fall back into that trend

the santa's helpers comment. . . .

are you talking about  a particular set of people?

tpiah:

that wont save you.

wat do u mean?

busybody  i don't quite get your angle here

i for one cited examples of threads i read

the filth and cancer that has eaten through us

this isnt about tackling a particular person

but more of curbing a particular trend via collective effort/force if required





with respect to thread hijacking

i aint a newbie i can always get my trend back

@ ariblaze, am surprised that ur taking folks on here serious. i think people are just having fun.

adusol:

@ ariblaze, am surprised that ur taking folks on here serious. i think people are just having fun.

no that's the problem it aint funny

its an ugly trend . . . .believe me read through

this and you will realize the line between fun and rubbish was crossed years ago

i am not claiming sainthood. . . . .i daresay i am crazier than the average

but some lines should always be respected

abeg jor
dont take things personaly
na 9jaland we dey

origina9ja:

abeg jor
dont take things personaly
na 9jaland we dey

speak for yourself plz.

If you dont want to "take things personally" then good for you. As long as no one mentions your name you're free to shrug it off.


However, you cant dictate to others what they can or cant take personally.

@origina9ja

puhlzeee madam

whats that? a casual wave aside

i bet if someone were to call you a bitch now

you would use 10 lines in describing how calling the guy a bastard should be justified

or a guy calls you a slut. . . .his whole clan automatically comes under your attack

now you sit on ur high otita  and tell me not to take things personally

na 9jaland we dey. . . . .this statement in it self tells me what you think of people here

which is my point exactly the negativity should stop

Busy_body:


But surely taking the shine off Adam B and focusing on his helpers would surely make this thread denigrate in no time to a gender bashing avenue for both sexes to vent their spleen and burst a vein

Facing adam leads nowhere as he's said times withuot number that his sole purpose is to abuse women for whatever reason. That's his handle for that particular moniker and he doesnt hide it.


His helpers are more interesting to me because they want to straddle both sides of the fence at the same time ie appear as "good guys" while egging on adam to do their dirty work for them.

I'm not engaging in debate with his helpers- I'm only expressing my views on this matter.

ariblaze:

who is the so-called adam?

tpiah you are beginning to fall back into that trend

the santa's helpers comment. . . .

are you talking about a particular set of people?

adam brody.

he has many other user ids. I think you started this thread after seeing one of them.

he's said times withuot number that his sole purpose is to abuse women for whatever reason. That's his handle for that particular moniker and he doesnt hide it.=================small dick syndrome



if the guy is that notorious

why humor him?

his so called cronies should be brought down a peg or two

its quite a good feeling knowing not all of the men on here have been poisoned by their childishness
God bless u blaze

bluespice

not all men have small winnes

ariblaze:

@origina9ja

puhlzeee madam

whats that? a casual wave aside

i[s] bet if someone were to call you a bitch now

you would use 10 lines in describing how calling the guy a bastard should be justified

or a guy calls you a slut. . . .his whole clan automatically comes under your attack[/s]

now you sit on ur high otita and tell me not to take things personally

na 9jaland we dey. . . . .this statement in it self tells me what you think of people here

which is my point exactly the negativity should stop

are you complaining on based on others or you are speaking for yaself
i don't think its anything serious jor
we all know that some people come across others as rude
they might not even know they are being rude
just try and tolerate it, its not big deal
na Internet be this jare
stop getting stress over notting
no matter how many thread like this being open
some people would still be seen as insulting/rude

you are the one getting things confused

if i perceive a person as being rude

cut them to size i do, i hardly hesitate


because a person is naturally rude(*i dont believe that sha, its more like certain people have decided to tolerate the person's excesses)

in Yoruba there is an adage , omo ti ko ba gbo oro ni ile wan ko ni ita loosely translated a child that wont heed lessons at home would eventually get taught the same lessons outside


if you think its okay

well waka pass, you aint shackled down

kapish

origina9ja:

are you complaining on based on others or you are speaking for yaself
i don't think its anything serious jor
we all know that some people come across others as rude
they might not even know they are being rude
just try and tolerate it, its not big deal
na Internet be this jare
stop getting stress over notting
no matter how many thread like this being open
some people would still be seen as insulting/rude

if you dont think its anything serious then why not leave the thread for those of us who want to take it serious.

Unless you know adam or have a crush on him, its not like you're his mouthpiece. Or are you?

wettin be my own with ADAM
I'm just saying in general

lol

how come you are the only one generalizing ?

I doubt she's the only one generalizing.

Some women love being men's bitches.  And dont mind when they're called the same.


However, the men should find out which ones do and which ones dont, instead of the one size fits all mold some of them are trying to drum up.

If you call me that in real life, I consider it harrassment and will take any necessary measures allowed by law.

People without home training have to pick it up somewhere. Never too late to learn.