Dear Jane,

My name is Mimi, and am a regular reader of your blog. I have a pressing issue and I hope you can help me pass it across to the world. I have a boyfriend i have been dating for close to 4 years now. And I must say our relationship has been near perfect. We don't have much arguments and if there is any, it is quickly resolved.

I trust him so much, I had never touched his phone all these years simply because he had given me no reason to doubt his sincerity towards me.


He recently bought a Blackberry Passport from a close friend of his and I must say the phone has been like a crazy hole in his pocket. The phone wasn't in a good condition at all.

He recently asked me to help find a repairer, of which my younger brother is so skilled in the art of fixing phones. I took the phone to my brother just yesterday. It was when he wanted to start work on it that he realised the phone was pass-worded.

I had to call my boyfriend for the password, which he gave. My brother was able to fix the phone and handed it to me. I decided to check through his Media if there was anything I could transfer to my phone. What I saw really got me scared and as I write, am in deep shock.

My boyfriend only has PORNOGRAPHIC VIDEOS of gay men on his phone. He has close to 30 of the videos and about 100 photos of men doing each other.

I didn't want him to suspect anything, so I called him to inform him that I had collected the phone from my brother, but it has locked itself. He thanked me and asked me to meet him at his place.

Now am so confused about him. Could he be a homo-sexual? or he just seeks pleasure watching those kind of fetish movies.

Please do reply me, am in a dillema

http://www.blackberrybabes.com/2016/01/could-my-boyfriend-be-gay.html

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hez a bi...

Confront him with what you saw and ask for explanations. The worst he can do to you, is to.end your relationship and this will help you move on with your life rather than staying with a possed man.

If its normal porn now i her that, but man to man things or man's phone or woman to woman things on woman's phone is questionable.

The End is near. Be prepared.....

Only he knows and only he can say. If you handle this gently and with the right level of compassion, maybe you can draw out of him what's holding him back. And just one last thought. Have you tried making the first move, like handling/stroking parts of his body that would turn most men on? If you tell him you want to do that, his response might be a clue as to how you follow through with knowing exactly what he's thinking. You'll likely never know unless you ask!

Nairaland is not Nipost.

All these letters sef....

ITS clear like mirror, he is homosexual, no argument so case close.

This is the problem with jobless ladies. They keep snooping around on everything.
Frankly, I'd suggest you get a job. A good one. Work all day, come back late at night to sleep. Do this for two weeks and see if your 'gay' boyfriend doesn't wake you in the middle of the night to have sex.

Same bullshit everyday

What a rhetorical question!u saw thousands of g*y videos on his phone and you're still asking if he's gay


And last thing, you definitely can't change his sexuality

AwesomeDuru:
This is the problem with jobless ladies. They keep snooping around on everything.
Frankly, I'd suggest you get a job. A good one. Work all day, come back late at night to sleep. Do this for two weeks and see if your 'gay' boyfriend doesn't wake you in the middle of the night to have sex.

wat is this one typing? he is homosexual for christ sake, so whether she is jobless or not, the guy will still fork her and oda guy. "he shud break up asap.

Hmmm and hmmm

1, u didn't state if the fone na new one or toks
2, have u had sex with him before
3, how does he behave when he's around male friends

She's on a long thing!

These JAMB questions tho. He's probably giving it to your brother atm to say "thank you" for the favor. Jk.

I actually can't think of an advice because I can't relate (i.e. perspective take) to your predicament. Oyo lo wa.

Obioraaa:
No mimi.. Your boyfriend isn't gay, he's a lesbian.

your comments are always out of this world

JUSTbuchi:
your comments are always out of this world

bring him here so that I can check him

Op you need Jesus in ur life not men who loves anal probing

What other evidence do u need?

What other evidence do u need.

What other evidence do u need.

Ur boyfriend is a homosexual and am sure if u really love him u can let him off of that

End Time Boyfriend..

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