MORNING THERAPY

You heard he is a cultist. You could not believe it, you
said “He is so young and He is just 16 and in SS1”.

Now, you have seen him – marijuana parting his lips,
a tattooed snake on his arm and in his hand is a bottle
of beer.

You heard him say that his favorite date is the 7th of July, and you assumed that was his birthday.

You stood afar and criticized him, you told your friends that hell awaits him, you shook your head and said to yourself, “He is already doomed”. But you do not
know that within the “bad, hard guy” lies a fragile, aching heart wanting to be loved and showed a little care.

Now, he only finds solace in his gang because his dad and mom are on the brink of divorce!

She knocked on your door asking to help you do anything for food or money. She looked so unkempt and malnourished.

You were torn between pity and
disbelief. You know her uncle to be a rich and religious man, an elder in his church, and you can help but wonder why she would be in this sorry state. You concluded that she has been wayward and disrespectful and this is his way of punishing her for some time.

Without asking her any questions, you managed to give her a rumpled ₦100 note, sent her away and told her not to come back.

She leaves, fighting tears, wondering how she would go back to her uncle who had sworn not to take care of her except she warms his bed!

That man you saw yesterday has been going through a hard time.

He is a job-hunting father who just lost his only son and has been pondering on how to bury his dead.

He bumped into you and before he could apologize, you have
rained insults on him. You saw the tears well up in his eyes but you did not bother to show any empathy. To you, he is just a depressed fellow who should not bother others with his woes.

You saw her in a bar, wreaking of alcohol. She kept laughing and muttering to herself, “Why?
Why?” You walked past her, even though a voice inside of you kept telling you to find out her problem.

You shut the voice down and tagged her “A cheap drunk. A woman for that matter”! But that cheap drunk is a widow who had just been diagnosed with
breast cancer, moreover, she just lost her job a month ago. Now, she thinks those bottles of alcohol could wash away her sorrow.***

And you claim to have the light, you boast in the scriptures because you know only the letters (but you are devoid of revelation)!

You failed to bring the “bad, hard guy” close and show him the truth and now he has fulfilled the request of his gang by raping his younger sister
leaving his whole family distraught and confused

Your ₦100 could not help that young girl for she finally yielded to the advances of her “rich and
religious” uncle. Now, she has been deflowered, all hormones have been let loose.

She have been selling her wares to all and sundry and she got pregnant.

At present, her cold body is lying in a mortuary because of a failed D&C just because you refused to bring her close and show her the ideals of life. And you claim you have the light

The depressed man you insulted was seen hanging from a mango tree recently. His suicide note read “I am too weak to carry on”.

You could not show him any form sympathy, perhaps, he might have shared his burden with you. Then you would have let him know that in his weakness, God’s strength is
manifested. And you claim you have the light

That “cheap drunk” is now on the hospital bed staring into the space in despair, waiting for death to rap on the door. All she needs is a message of hope, a message that would give her life – the God kind of life.

You have that message.

You are an exquisite perfume, do not bottle up your fragrance, go and spread it where it is needed.

You are the light, do not hide your shine.

You are the salt of the world, let your taste be felt . courtesy :floxy

This is touchy, we quickly give out judgements to others predicaments... if only we take it up to help...
A judgement is given to a widow who has just decided to remarry for the sake of care ,love and good dealings which she has been missing..Those giving the judgement has never for once care or help her either financially or otherwise
Its wellllll

Truth be told, the best friends I ever had were extreme loners. People considered em dangerous, slow poke, slow poison, etc, from a far. But if u get to know them and break thru that cloud they portray, you will find out they are not only intelligent, they are nice, honest, trust worthy, selfless and dependable friends. And they are friends for life as long as you don't betray their trust. There is always a reason they choose to be loners, remain in their own world. Rather than judge them, get to know them. U might be saving a life without knowing it, cos some are depressed and suicidal.

Nice one op. One thing that I have realized in life is that people that are tagged good are not always as good as they appear neither are those that are tagged bad as bad as they appear.

This is a call to all Christians. We must walk in love even as Christ did. He walked and dined with unbelievers so that he could win them over to God.